Okuqukethwe
Amakhono akho engqondo awangabazi, noma wena noma labo abaseduze kwakho. Ungumfundi ohlonishwayo kanye nesikhungo sobuhlakani sanoma yiliphi iqembu. Futhi ngezinye izikhathi, ngesikhathi esingalindelekile kakhulu, wenza amaphutha angenangqondo futhi wenze izinqumo ezingenangqondo kangangokuthi sekuyisikhathi sokubamba ikhanda lakho. Kungani?
Kuyajabulisa futhi kunenzuzo ukuba nobuhlakani obuphezulu: ngokwezibalo, abantu abahlakaniphile bahola kakhulu futhi baphile isikhathi eside. Kodwa-ke, inkulumo ethi "maye ovela ku-wit" nayo ayinazo izizathu zesayensi.
UShane Frederick, uprofesa eYale School of Management, wenze ucwaningo oluchaza ukuthi kungani ukucabanga okunengqondo nokuhlakanipha kungahlali ndawonye. Umeme ababambiqhaza ukuthi baxazulule izinkinga ezithile ezilula zokucabanga.
Ngokwesibonelo, zama le nkinga: “Ibhande le-baseball nebhola ndawonye kubiza i-dollar kanye nesenti elilodwa. Ilulwane libiza idola ngaphezu kwebhola. Libiza malini ibhola? (Impendulo efanele isekupheleni kwesihloko.)
Abantu abanama-IQ aphezulu kungenzeka ukuthi bakhiphe impendulo engalungile ngaphandle kokucabanga kakhulu: «amasenti ayi-10.»
Uma nawe wenza iphutha, ungadikibali. Abafundi abangaphezu kwesigamu e-Harvard, Princeton, naseMIT ababambe iqhaza ocwaningweni banikeze impendulo efanayo. Kuvele ukuthi abantu abaphumelele ezifundweni bayawenza amaphutha amaningi uma bexazulula izinkinga zomqondo.
Isizathu esiyinhloko sokugeja ukuthembela ngokweqile emakhonweni omuntu.
Nakuba singavamisile ukuchitha isikhathi sixazulula izindida ezinengqondo njengale eshiwo ngenhla, imisebenzi yengqondo ehilelekile kule nqubo ifana naleyo esiyisebenzisa nsuku zonke ekuphileni kwansuku zonke. Ngakho-ke abantu abane-IQ ephezulu bavame ukwenza amaphutha amahloni emsebenzini.
Kodwa kungani? Umbhali othengisa kakhulu kwezobuhlakani bemizwa uTravis Bradbury ubala izizathu ezine.
Abantu abahlakaniphile bayazethemba ngokweqile
Sijwayele ukunikeza ngokushesha izimpendulo ezifanele futhi ngezinye izikhathi asiboni nokuthi siphendula ngaphandle kokucabanga.
“Into eyingozi kakhulu ngamaphutha abantu abahluzekile ngokomqondo wukuthi abasoli ngisho ukuthi basuke benephutha. Isiphukuphuku iphutha, kuba nzima nakakhulu ukuthi umuntu avume ukuthi ulenzile, kusho uTravis Bradbury. - Kodwa-ke, abantu abananoma yiliphi izinga lobuhlakani bahlushwa "izindawo eziyizimpumputhe" ezakhiweni zabo ezinengqondo. Lokhu kusho ukuthi siwaqaphela kalula amaphutha abanye abantu, kodwa singawaboni awethu.
Abantu abahlakaniphile bakuthola kunzima ukuthuthukisa ukubekezela
Uma konke kulula kuwena, ubunzima buthathwa njengento embi. Njengesibonakaliso sokuthi awuwedwa umsebenzi. Lapho umuntu ohlakaniphile eqaphela ukuthi unomsebenzi omningi onzima okufanele awenze, ngokuvamile uzizwa elahlekile.
Ngenxa yalokho, ukhetha ukwenza enye into ukuze aqinisekise ukuthi ungumuntu obalulekile. Nakuba ukubekezela nokusebenza, mhlawumbe ngemva kwesikhathi esithile, kwakuyomlethela impumelelo kulezo zindawo ayenganikezwanga ngazo ekuqaleni.
Abantu abahlakaniphile bathanda ukwenza izinto eziningi ngesikhathi esisodwa.
Bacabanga ngokushesha futhi ngenxa yalokho abanaso isineke, bathanda ukwenza izinto eziningana ngesikhathi esisodwa, benomuzwa wokuthi basebenza ngendlela engavamile. Nokho, akunjalo. Akukhona nje ukuthi ukwenza izinto eziningi kusenza singakhiqizi kangako, abantu abahlale “behlakazeka” empeleni balahlekelwa yilabo abakhetha ukuzinikela ngokuphelele emsebenzini owodwa esikhathini esithile.
Abantu abahlakaniphile abayithathi kahle impendulo.
Abantu abahlakaniphile abayithembi imibono yabanye. Kunzima ukuthi bakholelwe ukuthi kukhona ochwepheshe abangabanikeza ukuhlolwa okwanele. Lokhu akugcini nje ngokuba nomthelela ekusebenzeni okuphezulu, kodwa futhi kungaholela ebudlelwaneni obunobuthi emsebenzini nasempilweni yakho yomuntu siqu. Ngakho-ke, kufanele bahlakulele ubuhlakani bomzwelo.
Impendulo efanele ngamasenti ama-5.