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Umama encwadini yephupho likaMiller
Uma ephusheni umama wakho engena endlini lapho ukhona, uzophumelela kunoma iyiphi iphrojekthi ehlongozwayo, ngisho noma ekuboneni kokuqala kubonakala sengathi akuthembisi.
Ukuzwa umama wakho ekubiza - ukhethe indlela engalungile empilweni, abathandekayo bazoqala ukukufulathela.
Ingxoxo nomama wakho iveza izindaba ezinhle ngabantu noma izinto onesithakazelo esikhulu kuzo.
Ukukhala kukamama kubonisa ukugula kwakhe noma izinkinga ezinkulu ekuphileni kwakho.
Umama ogulayo uwuphawu lwezenzakalo ezidabukisayo noma izindaba.
Kowesifazane, ukubonakala komama ephusheni kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nemisebenzi ejabulisayo nenhlalakahle yomndeni.
Umama encwadini yephupho likaVanga
Umama ephusheni uyisihluthulelo sokuqonda ukuthi kwenzekani ebuhlotsheni bomndeni wakho.
Uma umama ephupha ngendlela ayiyo manje, khona-ke konke okusendlini kuzozinza, akukho zinguquko ezilindelekile.
Umama okhalayo uveza izingxabano ezinkulu. Njengoba uthole isixwayiso esinjalo ephusheni, unethuba lokugwema amahlazo, ukulungisa nokuvimbela ukuwohloka komndeni.
Ukuxabana noma ukulwa nomama wakho kuwuphawu lwezinkinga ezinkulu oyozihlambalaza ngazo. Eqinisweni, akusizi ukubheka abanecala, wonke umuntu uzothinteka.
Umzwile umama wakho ecula iculo? Thatha lokhu njengesixwayiso - ugxile ezindabeni zakho futhi awunaki kakhulu umndeni, futhi uyakudinga ngempela. Ungaphuthelwa isikhathi, kungenjalo kuyoba nzima kakhulu ukugcina ubuhlobo obufudumele nobuqotho nabathandekayo kamuva.
Uma, esikhundleni sikamama, umama ongamzali uvele ephusheni, khona-ke isikhathi sokudabuka nokudumala sikulindile. Isizathu salokhu ukuzidla kwakho kanye nezidingo zakho eziphakeme kakhulu kwabanye, okungeke kuhlangatshezwane nazo. Lahla izimangalo ezingadingekile, futhi impilo izoba lula kakhulu.
Umama encwadini yamaphupho yamaSulumane
Ngokuvamile umama ufika ephusheni kumuntu osesimweni esinzima sokuphila ukuze acacise ukuthi akayedwa futhi angathembela ekuhawukeleni.
Futhi, umama angaba umfanekiso walokho okwenzeka kumuntu olele eqinisweni. Hlaziya isimo sakhe, ukuziphatha futhi ufinyelele iziphetho ngezindaba zakho.
Umama encwadini yephupho likaLoff
Ubunjalo bobudlelwane phakathi kwakho bunomthelela omkhulu ekuchazeni amaphupho ngomama wakho. Ingabe wayewukubonakaliswa kothando oluphelele ngawe? Ingabe kube khona ukungqubuzana phakathi kwakho, ingabe kube nokuhlaselwa ngokweqile kwemfihlo yakho? Ingabe ulahlekelwe ukuxhumana (ngenxa yokulwa noma ukufa) okushiya ezinye izinkinga zingaxazululiwe? Izimpendulo zale mibuzo zizokusiza uqonde incazelo yezinye izithombe zephupho.
Umama encwadini yephupho kaTsvetkov
Umama ephusheni ngokuvamile uvela ezimweni ezimbili: ukukweluleka ukuthi ulalele izibikezelo zakho noma ukhulume ngokuqashelwa esikhathini esizayo nempumelelo.
Umama encwadini yephupho ye-Esoteric
Incazelo eyinhloko yalolu phawu uthando nokunakekelwa. Ngakho-ke, uma umama wakho ekhuluma nawe ngomusa noma ekududuza ephusheni, phakathi nenkathi enzima empilweni yakho ngokuqinisekile uyoba nokusekelwa kwabantu abahlukene; uma egone futhi ephulula ikhanda lakhe, khona-ke inkathi yokuthula nokuthula ikulindile. Ngisho noma othile ekuphatha kabi, ngeke kuphazamise isimo sakho sengqondo nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Ingabe umama wayecasukile? Thatha isibindi nesineke, izinkinga ezizayo zizothatha isikhathi eside. Kubaluleke kakhulu ukuthi ungalahlekelwa ubuso futhi ungaxabani nabanye, khona-ke kuyoba lula ukusinda ebunzimeni.
Wakhala umama? Qaphela ngamazwi nangezenzo - uzibeka engozini yokucasula kakhulu umuntu obalulekile futhi uchithe ngokungenathemba ubuhlobo bakho naye.
Umama wakho wafela ezandleni zakho? Kuzodingeka ubhekane nesifo esibi.
Lezi zincazelo zibalulekile uma unobudlelwane obuhle nomama wakho. Uma ufunga noma ungakhulumi naye, khona-ke nganoma yimiphi imininingwane, iphupho lizothembisa izinkinga ezincane nezinkinga.
Umama encwadini yephupho likaHasse
Ukubheka umama noma ukukhuluma naye ephusheni - othile uzokwembula izinhloso zabo zangempela kuwe. Uma owesifazane efa, khona-ke into edabukisayo futhi ephazamisayo izokwenzeka; uma efile, lokhu kuwuphawu lokuphila isikhathi eside.
Ukuphawula kwesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo
UMaria Khomyakova, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, uchwepheshe wezobuciko, uchwepheshe wezinganekwane:
Isithombe sikamama sibanzi kakhulu futhi si-archetypal. Ungakhuluma ngomama ekuqondeni imvelo - amandla athile amakhulu kaNkulunkulu anikeza ukuphila kukho konke okusemhlabeni futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo anamandla okubhubhisa. Inikeza ukuphila futhi ikususe, ngaleyo ndlela ibe nesibopho sokunyakaza, umjikelezo kanye nesigqi semvelo sokuba khona.
Ungakhuluma ngesithombe sikamama njengohlobo lwengxenye yangaphakathi, mayelana nomzali wangaphakathi, osebenza njengomama ogxekayo noma onakekelayo. Futhi lapha kubalulekile ukucabangela ubuhlobo bakho nomama wakho wangaphakathi - ingabe uzinakekela kangakanani? Kukuziphi izimo lapho ubonisa khona ukukhathalela? Uzigxeka kanjani futhi uzizwa ukhululeke kangakanani ngakho? Kunini lapho izwi likamama ogxekayo elingaphakathi linomsindo ikakhulukazi?
Futhi, ngokuxhumana nomama wakho siqu, ungakwazi ukujwayelana nabesifazane bomndeni, ngezici zabo, izindinganiso, ukuvinjelwa, ikusasa nezindaba zomuntu siqu.
Ukuxhumana kungaba kwanoma yiluphi uhlobo - kusukela ezingxoxweni ezingokomoya kuya ekucabangeni komuntu siqu mayelana nokuthi hlobo luni lwengxoxo oyakhile nomama wakho empilweni yakho yonke. Kule nqubo, kubalulekile ukucabangela lokho umama wakho nabesifazane bohlobo lwakho abakunike lona - ubufazi, ubuhle, ubulili, ubuqotho, ikhaya, amandla, ukuzimisela ... Ngomfanekiso kanyoko, ungathinta abesifazane abami emva kwakhe, futhi vele ubone ukucabanga kwakho kulokhu.
Amaphupho analesi sithombe akumema ukuthi ubone ukuthi ubani okhuluma nawe ngephupho: Umama we-archetypal, Umzali Wangaphakathi noma Umama? Ziphethe muphi umlayezo? Ingabe ikhona imijikelezo yokuphila nokubhujiswa? Mayelana nokunakekelwa nokugxekwa? Mayelana nokubaluleka kokuthola indawo yakho emndenini?