Izinyoni ziyandiza, amaqabunga ayakhukhumala, nelanga liqala ukufudumala kancane ... Akumangalisi ukuthi abaningi bethu babheka lesi sikhathi sonyaka njengesothando kakhulu: siculwa ezinkondlweni nasezingomeni, siyathandwa futhi sibhekwe ngabomvu. Kungani, ngemva kobusika obude, asiphuphi nje ngokukhipha ibhantshi lethu eliphansi, kodwa futhi ngothando olukhulu?
Konke kunesikhathi sakho
Njengoba imijikelezo yemvelo ishintshana, kanjalo nasengqondweni yomuntu izigaba zomsebenzi nokuzola ziyashintshana. Futhi ezingeni lokungazi lutho okuhlangene, ukuqala komjikelezo wokuphila omusha kuhlotshaniswa nokufika kwentwasahlobo. Intwasahlobo yisikhathi lapho imvelo ivuka ngemva kokulala isikhathi eside kwasebusika, isikhathi sokuhlwanyela amasimu. Intwasahlobo iwuphawu lobusha, iziqalo ezintsha, ukuzalwa kwenzalo.
Ngemuva kwezinsuku ezibandayo nezimnyama zasebusika, imvelo iqala "ukuncibilika", vuka. Futhi kumuntu ngalesi sikhathi imizwa nayo iyavuka, ulangazelela ukuvuselelwa, ulwela ukuthola okuvelayo okusha.
Uma sicabanga izinkathi zonyaka njengezigaba ekuphileni komuntu, khona-ke sizobona ukuthi intwasahlobo ifanekisela ukuzalwa okusha, ihlobo liyaqhakaza, ikwindla ivuna, futhi ubusika ukuthula, ukulala, ukuphumula. Ngakho-ke, akumangazi ukuthi entwasahlobo lapho umuntu efuna ukushintsha okuthile. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, sinamandla engeziwe okufeza okuthile, ngoba ilanga likhanya kakhudlwana, futhi amahora okukhanya emini ahlala isikhathi eside.
Amahomoni elanga nokukhanya
Ebusika, sibona isibhakabhaka esimnyama “esihlala isikhathi eside” ngaphezu kwethu, futhi entwasahlobo, ilanga ligcina liphuma ngemva kwamafu, futhi ukukhanya kwalo kuba nomphumela omuhle esimweni sethu sengqondo. Lapho ilanga likhanya kaningi, yilapho umuntu eba nemizwelo eyengeziwe. Futhi ngalesi sikhathi, sifuna ngempela ukuxhumana okwengeziwe nalabo abasihehayo. Lapho evezwe elangeni, i-vitamin D ikhiqizwa emzimbeni, futhi lokhu, kukuvumela ukuthi ukhiqize i-testosterone eyengeziwe kanye ne-melatonin encane. I-libido yethu isabela ngokushesha kulezi zinguquko: yingakho entwasahlobo sizwa isifiso ngokujulile, okungenzeka, mhlawumbe, asizange sikhumbule nhlobo phakathi nobusika obubandayo. Ngakho-ke, entwasahlobo, amadoda amaningi aphenduka abe "amakati ka-March", futhi abesifazane balangazelela ukunakwa okwengeziwe.
Amahomoni enjabulo - i-serotonin, i-endorphin ne-dopamine - nawo akhiqizwa ngenkuthalo eyengeziwe. Lapho lamahomoni esithatha, singazizwa sithuthuke ngokomoya ngendlela engakaze ibonwe. Kunohlangothi olubi kulesi siphepho: uma sesingene shi, sijwayele ukuqubuka, izenzo ezizenzakalelayo. Futhi lapho "uhlelo" lokulawula lubuthakathaka kancane ngaphansi kwethonya lamahomoni, kulula kakhulu ngathi ukuthanda.
Zizwe njengengxenye yemvelo
Imvelo ngokwayo entwasahlobo ibambe iqhaza kwezothando. Uma sibheka ukuthi ivuka kanjani, sibuka indlela imifula encibilika ngayo, amahlumela akhukhumala nezimbali ziqhakaza, asikwazi ukuhlala singenandaba futhi sizizwe siyingxenye ebalulekile yalokho okwenzekayo.
Lokhu kushubile ikakhulukazi kubantu abasondelene nemibono yothando empilweni. Anamathemba amasha, izifiso ezimbi, amahhashi aziphatha ngokudlala kakhulu kunokujwayelekile. Ingqondo yabo ibonakala imnyama kancane, umphefumulo uyacula, futhi inhliziyo ivula izigigaba ezintsha.
Singawasebenzisa kanjani ngokunenzuzo wonke amathuba lesi sikhathi esihle esisinikeza wona? Intwasahlobo isinika ugqozi namandla angasetshenziswa hhayi kuphela othandweni, kodwa futhi ekudaleni, ukuxazulula izinkinga zokudala, ukudala amaphrojekthi amasha. Ngakho-ke, ungachithi umzuzu: jabulela intwasahlobo, vula inhliziyo yakho kwabanye, futhi kungenzeka intwasahlobo ikunikeze amathuba amaningi amasha!