Izingane zitholakalaphi: yini okufanele uphendule nokuthi kungani ungasho lokho okutholwe kuklabishi noma okulethwe ngunogolantethe

Izingane zifuna ukwazi futhi zifuna ukwazi izimpendulo zayo yonke into. Futhi manje, ekugcineni, ihora le-X selifikile. Ingane ibuza ukuthi zivelaphi izingane. Futhi lapha kubalulekile ukuthi ungaqambi amanga. Impendulo kufanele ibe ethambile kodwa ethembekile.

Ezimweni eziningi, umama nobaba abakakulungeli umbuzo onjalo. Ngenxa yalokho, umntwana uthola impendulo abazali bakhe abake bayizwa kubazali babo.

Lokhu kwenzeka emakhulwini amaningi eminyaka adlule, futhi kusasebenza nanamuhla. Sekunesikhathi eside abantu beza nezincazelo ezehlukene ukuze basuse ukuthi kungani.

Nazi ezithandwa kakhulu:

  • Itholakala kuklabishi. Le nguqulo yandile phakathi kwabantu baseSlavic. Futhi izingane zaseFrance ziyazi ukuthi zithola abafana kule mifino. Amantombazane, njengoba kuchazwe abazali bawo, angatholakala kuma-rosebuds.
  • Unogolantethe uyaletha. Le ncazelo ithandwa ngabazali emhlabeni jikelele. Ngisho nalapho onogolantethe abakaze babe khona.
  • Thenga esitolo. Ezikhathini zamaSoviet, omama abazange baye esibhedlela, kodwa esitolo. Izingane ezindala zazibheke ngabomvu kunina ngokuthenga okusha. Ngezinye izikhathi izingane zazisiza ekuqoqeni imali yokwenza lokhu.

Izingane zizwa lezi zinguqulo emhlabeni wonke. Yiqiniso, kwamanye amazwe ezinye izinguqulo ezithakazelisa kakhulu zivela, njengomthetho, zisebenza kuphela endaweni yazo. Ngokwesibonelo, e-Australia, izingane zitshelwa ukuthi ikhangaru izilethe ngesikhwama. Enyakatho, ingane itholakala ku-tundra e-reindeer moss.

Ngokuqondene nomlando womsuka wezinganekwane ezinjalo, abacwaningi banezinguqulo eziningana kulesi sici:

  • Kubantu abaningi basendulo, unogolantethe wawuwuphawu lokuzala. Kwakunenkolelo yokuthi lapho efika, umhlaba wavuselelwa ngemva kokulala ebusika.
  • Ngokwenye yezinganekwane, imiphefumulo ezozalwa ilinde emaphikweni emaxhaphozini, emachibini nasemifudlaneni. Onogolantethe beza lapha ukuzophuza amanzi nokubamba izinhlanzi. Ngakho-ke, le nyoni ehloniphekile "ihambisa izingane ezisanda kuzalwa ekhelini".
  • Izingane zeklabishi zisungulwa ngenxa yesiko lasendulo lokukhetha umakoti ekwindla, lapho isivuno sesivuthiwe.
  • Igama elithi "iklabishi" ngesiLatini lihambisana negama elithi "ikhanda". Futhi inganekwane yasendulo ithi unkulunkulukazi wokuhlakanipha u-Athena wazalwa ekhanda likaZeus.

Ukuvela kwezinganekwane ezinjalo ngokwakho akumangalisi. Uma uchazela ingane yakho ukuthi ivelaphi ngempela, ngeke nje iqonde lutho, kodwa futhi izobuza inqwaba yemibuzo. Kungcono kakhulu ukutshela inganekwane mayelana nemifino noma ugolantethe, umphumela wawo owahlolwa okhokho abakude.

Yiqiniso, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo ziyeluleka ukuba uyeke nonogolantethe. Ngolunye usuku umntwana uyothola nokho isizathu sangempela sokuzalwa kwakhe. Uma engakuzwa ezindebeni zakho, angase acabange ukuthi abazali bakhe bebemkhohlisa.

– Ukuphendula ingane ukuthi itholwe eklabishi noma ilethwe ngunogolantethe, ngombono wami, akulungile. Ngokuvamile umbuzo othi "Ngivelaphi?" ibonakala ineminyaka engu-3-4 ubudala. Khumbula umthetho: kufanele kube nempendulo eqondile yombuzo oqondile, ngakho-ke kulokhu sithi - "Umama wakho wakuzala." Futhi ngaphandle kwemininingwane eyengeziwe, akudingekile ukuba ukhulume ngobulili lapho uneminyaka emithathu ubudala. Umbuzo olandelayo uthi "Ngingene kanjani esiswini?" ngokuvamile kwenzeka eminyakeni engu-5-6, futhi kule minyaka akufanele kube nenkulumo yanoma yiliphi iklabishi noma unogolantethe - lokhu kuwukukhohlisa. Khona-ke abazali bamangala kakhulu ukuthi kungani izingane zabo zingakhulumi iqiniso. Kungani kungafanele baqale ukwenza lokhu kuyilapho bona abadala beqamba amanga kuzo zonke izinyathelo?

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