Ukuphulula nokugona isisu sakho ukunyakaza okungokwemvelo komntwana ozoba ngumama. Kodwa akulula kangako! Kuvela ukuthi kukhona isayensi yonke yokuthi ungayenza kanjani ngendlela efanele.
Kufakazelwe ukuthi izingane ziyakwazi ukubona okuningi zisesesibelethweni. Ingane ihlukanisa phakathi kwamazwi kamama nobaba, isabela emculweni, ingakwazi ngisho nokuqonda ulimi lwayo lwendabuko - ngokusho kososayensi, ikhono lokuqaphela inkulumo libekwe ekuqaleni kwesonto lama-30 lokukhulelwa. Futhi njengoba eqonda okuningi, kusho ukuthi ungakwazi ukukhuluma naye!
Inqubo yalokhu kuxhumana yathuthukiswa emuva kuma-70s wekhulu leminyaka elidlule. Bayibiza ngokuthi i-haptonomy - elihunyushwe lisuselwa esiGrekini lisho "umthetho wokuthinta".
Kunconywa ukuqala "izingxoxo" nengane engakazalwa lapho iqala ukunyakaza ngenkuthalo. Okokuqala udinga ukukhetha isikhathi sokuxhumana: imizuzu engu-15-20 ngosuku ngesikhathi esifanayo. Khona-ke udinga ukuheha ukunaka kwengane: mculele ingoma, uxoxe indaba, ngenkathi ushaya isisu ngesikhathi sezwi.
Bathembisa ukuthi umntwana uzoqala ukuphendula lingakapheli isonto - uzophusha ngqo lapho umshaye khona. Hhayi-ke, bese usukwazi ukukhuluma nendlalifa yesikhathi esizayo: tshela ukuthi uzokwenzani ndawonye, ukulindele futhi uyamthanda kanjani. Ubaba uyelulekwa ukuba abambe iqhaza “ezikhathini zokuxhumana”. Kwani? Ukumisa nje ukuxhumana okuqinile ngokomzwelo: yile ndlela imizwa yomzali neyomzali evusa ngayo kubazali, futhi ingane izizwa iphephile ngisho nangemva kokuphuma esibelethweni.
Umgomo muhle kakhulu, ukuqiniseka. Kodwa abanye abalandeli be-haptonomy baye badlulela phambili. Cishe uke wezwa ngalaba bomama abafundela ingane izincwadi esiswini, bayinikeze umculo ukuze iwulalele, bese beqala ukukhombisa ama-albhamu obuciko asanda kuzalwa. Konke ukuze ingane iqale ukukhula ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka futhi kusukela kuzo zonke izinhlangothi: bona okuhle, isibonelo.
Ngakho-ke, kuvela ukuthi abanye bafundisa ingane engakazalwa ngosizo lwe-haptonomy ... ukubala! Ingabe umntwana waqala ukusabela ekunyakazeni? Isikhathi sokufunda!
"Thinta isisu sakho kanye bese uthi," eyodwa, "luleka abaxolisi nge-arithmetic yangaphambi kokubeletha. Bese, ngokulandelana, eyodwa noma ezimbili kuya beat of the pats. njll.
Nelukuluku, kunjalo. Kodwa ukushiseka okunjalo kuyasidida. Okwani? Kungani uthwalisa ingane ngalolu hlobo lolwazi ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa? Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo, ngendlela, nazo zikholelwa ukuthi ukukhuthazwa okunjalo okuqhubekayo kwengane, ngokuphambene nalokho, kungonakalisa ubuhlobo bakho naye. Uma wenza ngokweqile, ingane yakho ingaba nengcindezi - ngisho nangaphambi kokuzalwa!
Uwuthanda kanjani umbono wokuthuthukiswa kwengane ngaphambi kokubeletha?