Ngamunye wethu okungenani wake waphuka ngenxa yento encane, okwaba "utshani bokugcina" ochungechungeni lwezinkinga. Nokho, kwabanye, ukuqhuma kobudlova obungalawuleki kwenzeka njalo, futhi ngezikhathi ezinjalo ezibonakala zingasho lutho kwabanye. Siyini isizathu salokhu kuziphatha?
Namuhla, cishe wonke usaziwayo wesibili utholakala "nokuqhuma okungalawuleki kwentukuthelo". UNaomi Campbell, uMichael Douglas, uMel Gibson - uhlu luyaqhubeka. Bonke baya kodokotela nale nkinga.
Ukuze baqonde izimbangela zobudlova obunganele, odokotela bengqondo baseMelika benza ucwaningo besebenzisa i-magnetic resonance imaging (MRI). Lolu cwaningo lubandakanya amavolontiya angu-132 abobubili ubulili obuneminyaka engu-18 kuya ku-55. Kulaba, abangama-42 babenokuthambekela kokugula kokucasuka, abangama-50 bahlushwa ezinye izifo zengqondo, kanti abangama-40 babenempilo.
I-tomograph ibonise umehluko ekwakhekeni kobuchopho kubantu abavela eqenjini lokuqala. Ubuningi bendaba emhlophe yobuchopho, ehlanganisa izindawo ezimbili - i-prefrontal cortex, enesibopho sokuzithiba, kanye ne-parietal lobe, ehlotshaniswa nokukhuluma nokucutshungulwa kolwazi, yayingaphansi kwabahlanganyeli abanempilo ekuhlolweni. Ngenxa yalokho, iziteshi zokuxhumana zaphazamiseka ezigulini, lapho izingxenye ezahlukene zobuchopho "zishintshana" ulwazi komunye nomunye.
Umuntu akaziqondi izinhloso zabanye futhi ekugcineni "aqhume"
Kusho ukuthini lokhu okutholakele? Abantu abangakwazi ukulawula ulaka ngokuvamile abaziqondi izinhloso zabanye. Banomuzwa wokuthi bayaxhashazwa, ngisho nalapho bengahlukunyezwa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abawaboni amazwi nokushukuma komzimba okubonisa ukuthi akekho obahlaselayo.
Ukuphazamiseka kokuxhumana phakathi kwezindawo ezahlukene zobuchopho kuholela eqinisweni lokuthi umuntu akakwazi ukuhlola kahle isimo kanye nezinhloso zabanye futhi, ngenxa yalokho, "ukuqhuma". Ngesikhathi esifanayo, yena ngokwakhe angase acabange ukuthi uyazivikela kuphela.
“Kuvela ukuthi ulaka olungalawuleki alukona nje “ukuziphatha okubi,” kusho omunye wababhali balolu cwaningo, isazi sezifo zengqondo u-Emil Coccaro, “lunezimbangela zangempela zezinto eziphilayo okusamele sizihlole ukuze sithole izindlela zokwelapha.”