Okuqukethwe
Kusukela engxenyeni yesibili yekhulu lesi-XNUMX, abacwaningi abaningi bagxile ekuthuthukisweni kwe-psychomotor yezingane ezincane. Okunye okungaguquki kuphuma kulezi zifundo ezehlukene: kuyilapho izingane zinamakhono amaningi kunalokho okwakucatshangwa ngaphambili, futhi zinemikhawulo engokwengqondo nengokwengqondo. Ukuthuthuka kwabo kwenzeka ngaphakathi kwalolu hlaka. Akuyona neze into ecindezelayo, kodwa isisekelo lapho ubuntu bomntwana ngamunye buyokhula ngesivinini sabo.
Ama-reflexes asanda kuzalwa
Zonke izingane (ngaphandle kwezimo zokukhubazeka) zizalwa zinamandla afanayo okuqala, okuthembisa kakhulu. Futhi imikhawulo efanayo, transitory. Ingane esanda kuzalwa ayikwazi ukumisa ikhanda layo iqonde noma ihlale ithule; umsipha wakhe uphansi kakhulu ekhanda nasesiqwini. Ngesizathu esifanayo, lapho ilele, iqala kabusha indawo yengane, imilenze nezingalo ezisonge. Ukwakhiwa komzimba wakhe kuzoqiniswa kusukela ekhanda kuye ezinyaweni (i-cephalo-caudal direction). Lokhu akulivimbi ukuthi linyakaze, kusukela ekuzalweni. Yebo, kodwa ngaphandle kokungenelela kwentando yakhe. Umzimba wakhe usabela ngokuzenzakalelayo ekushukunyisweni ngokunyakaza okuzenzakalelayo. Lokhu kunyakaza kunikeza imizwa emisha lapho umzimba usabela khona. Ukuqala kokuthuthukiswa kwe-psychomotor (phakathi kwezinyanga ezi-3 nezi-6) kuzodlalwa ekuguqukeni okuvela kulokho okubizwa ngokuthi i-archaic reflexes, etholwe ngesikhathi sokuzalwa, ukunyakaza kokuzithandela.
Amanye ama-reflexes asanda kuzalwa abalulekile. I-reflex yokuncela, ebangelwa ukuthinta okulula komlomo womlomo; i-rooting reflex, eqeda eyedlule ngokuphendulela ikhanda ohlangothini oluceliwe; i-reflex yokugwinya, ebangelwa ukuthintana kolimi nodonga lwe-pharynx; ukucindezelwa kolimi okuthi, kuze kube yizinyanga ezi-3, kuvumele ukwenqaba ukudla okuqinile engxenyeni yangaphambili yomlomo; futhi ekugcineni, labo abahiccups, ukuzamula kanye nokuthimula.
Abanye bayayifakazela imizwelo yakhe. Ezimweni ezicindezelayo, isibonelo lapho umntwana ephakanyiswa futhi ezwa ikhanda lakhe libuyela emuva, i-Moro (noma i-embrace) reflex iqala: izingalo neminwe iyahlukana, umzimba uthambekele futhi uqinise, bese ubuyela endaweni yawo yokuqala. I-Galant reflex (noma i-trunk curvature) ibangela ukuba igobe ngokusabela ekujabuleleni kwesikhumba sangemuva, eduze nomgogodla.
Amanye ama-reflexes afanekisela ukunyakaza kwakhe okulawulwa kamuva. Ngokushesha lapho isimi endaweni eqondile, ukuhamba okuzenzakalelayo kwenza izinyathelo zomdwebo osanda kuzalwa (ezinyaweni zezinyawo uma ezalwe ngesikhathi, esihlokweni sazo uma singakafiki isikhathi). I-step-over reflex imvumela ukuthi aphakamise unyawo ngokushesha nje lapho ingemuva layo lithinta isithiyo. I-swimming reflex ibangela ukunyakaza kokubhukuda okuzenzakalelayo, kuyilapho ivimbela ukuphefumula kwayo ngokushesha nje lapho icwiliswa. I-reflex yokubamba (noma i-gresping-reflex) yenza isandla sakho sivale uma uhlikihla intende yakho, emvimba okwesikhashana ukuthi abambe noma yini.
Ehlangothini lobuchopho, ukukhethwa nokuxhumana kwamaseli akuphelele… Ukuhlinzwa kuthatha iminyaka emine! Inethiwekhi yokudlulisa ulwazi yesistimu yezinzwa isebenza ngesivinini esiphansi namanje. Inkumbulo yengane ayinawo amandla amakhulu okugcina izinto, kodwa izinzwa zayo ziyaphaphama! Futhi umntwana osanda kuzalwa, omuhle ngokwemvelo, usebenzisa ngokugcwele labo asebevele besebenza kahle kakhulu: ukuzwa, ukuthinta nokunambitha. Ukubona kwakhe kuqala kumvumela ukuba ahlukanise ukukhanya nobumnyama kuphela; izothuthuka kusukela ezinsukwini zayo zokuqala futhi, cishe izinyanga ezi-4, izobona imininingwane.
Yile ndlela athola ngayo ulwazi, ngezinzwa. Kodwa, akuthathi isikhathi eside ukubaphatha, ngoba, kusukela ezinyangeni zakhe ezi-2, angathumela ukumomotheka okuqaphelayo, isibonakaliso sokuthi ungena ekukhulumisaneni nalabo abamzungezile.
Isidingo sokuthola izingane
Izingane ezincane zithuthuka njalo. Hhayi ngokomugqa: kukhona ukugxumela phambili, ukuma, ukuhlehla… Kodwa bonke baphokophele ekutholeni amakhono ayisisekelo avula indlela yokuzimela. Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi yisiphi isigqi kanye "nesitayela" sabo, baqhubeka ngendlela efanayo.
Umntwana uthembele kulokho akufundile ukuze athuthuke. Ulinda ukuthi enze into entsha ukuze athathe isinyathelo esilandelayo. Ukuqapha okuhlakaniphile! Kodwa ongenalutho olucabangayo. Uma sekuqalisiwe, ubunzima abusakuvimbi. Impumelelo yakhe iyanqwabelana. Kwesinye isikhathi udebeselela enye indawo ukuze kuzuze enye okumenza abe yedwa (ulimi oluzuzisa ukuhamba, ukudweba ukuze kuzuze ulimi, njll.) ngoba akakwazi ukugxila kukho konke ngesikhathi esisodwa. Kodwa akwaziyo, unakho, futhi lapho isikhathi sifika, uyophinde aqale ezisekelweni ezafaniswa ngaphambili.
Omunye umgomo wokutholwa: ingane encane iqhubeka ngokuhlolwa. Uthatha isinyathelo kuqala, bese ecabanga. Kuze kube yiminyaka emi-2, kuphela isipho esikhona kuye. Kancane kancane uyafunda kulokho abhekane nakho. Umcabango wakhe uhlelekile, kodwa njalo uvela kukhonkolo. Yazi uyahlola akakhathali. Uphinda ukuthinta okufanayo, amagama afanayo… kanye nombhedo ofanayo! Lokhu ukuze uhlole: okokuqala ukuqaphela kwakhe, ulwazi lwakhe, bese, kamuva, imingcele oyibekele yona. Ngisho noma ebonisa ukuntula isineke phambi kokwehluleka, akukho okuqeda ukufutheka kwakhe. Umphumela: nina ngokwenu nilahliwe ukuziphinda!
Esinye isici: ayihloli amathuba ayo ngokucacile. Ngezinye izikhathi ingane yakho ihlehla phambi kwesithiyo esingawela kalula emehlweni akho. Ngezinye izikhathi uyayiziba ingozi, ngoba nje akanawo umbono. Kuze kube yilapho eneminyaka engu-2 ubudala, ukumkhuthaza kanye nokumbamba, uthembele ekuncengeni iphimbo lakho, kunamagama, incazelo yawo ephunyukayo. Khona-ke kuze kube iminyaka engaba ngu-4 ubudala, iqiniso kanye nemicabango kuhlangana engqondweni yakhe.
Akaqambi amanga: ukhuluma nawe ngemikhiqizo yobuchopho bakhe obuvundile. Kukuwe ukuthi uhlukanise phakathi kweqiniso namanga! Kodwa asikho isidingo sokumgxeka.
Ukuzicabangela kwakhe kwemvelo, isigaba esibalulekile ekukhuleni kwakhe kwengqondo, okuhlala iminyaka efinyelela kweyisi-7, kumenza angakwazi ukuchazwa. Akacabangi nje ukuthi uzocatshangelwa ngendlela ehlukile kunaye. Nokho uthola ukuvinjelwa okuhlanu kokuhlanu; aze athokoze ngoba akhombisa ukuthi umbhekile. Akufanele uyeke ukuchaza, kodwa ngaphandle kokulindela noma iyiphi enye inzuzo ngaphandle kwenzuzo enkulu kakade yokudala isimo sokwethembana nezingxoxo phakathi kwenu.
Ekuseni kakhulu, wadlulela ekuzilawuleni, ngisho nangaphambi “kwenkinga yokuphikisa” eyayizomenza, cishe iminyaka emibili. (futhi iminyaka emibili emihle!), Isihlubuki esihlelekile esizovivinya isineke sakho. Ehluleka ukuphatha izimo, uthanda ukuzenza akholwe. Ngakho-ke utshalwe nge-mission engenakwenzeka: ukuqinisekisa ukuvikelwa kwayo kanye nemfundo, ngaphandle kokubonisa ubukhona bakho kakhulu. Ngamanye amazwi, ukumkhulisa ukuze akwazi ukuphila ngaphandle kwakho ... Unonya, kodwa akunakugwenywa!
Khuthaza ingane yakho
Uma kunento eyodwa lo muntu omncane onzima engabaza ukuyenza, ukwamukela uthando lwakho. Udinga ukukhuthazwa. Lesi sihambi esinelukuluku lokufuna ukwazi, esibhekana nezinselele ezinkulu futhi asikaze sivumele ukuphambukiswa enjongweni yaso, esibhikishayo futhi sithukuthele kaningi kunasesikhathini saso, lo mnqobi uthambile, usengozini enkulu. Njengoba ‘singasephula’ ngokusiphatha ngokhahlo, singase sibe nethemba kithi siqu nasempilweni, ngamandla alula obubele. Asikwazi neze ukuhalalisela ingane kakhulu, ngaphezu kwalokho encane, ngokuthatha isinyathelo esisha noma ukunqoba ukwesaba.
Amandla abazali makhulu; ngenkathi ethi uhola umdlalo, ingane iyayazisa imibono yalabo abamele abaqondisi bakhe kanye nezibonelo. Uthando lwabo lubalulekile kuye ngaphezu kwakho konke. Kufanele siqaphele ukuthi singasebenzisi kabi lawa mandla. Ingane kufanele ithuthuke iyodwa, hhayi ukujabulisa abaseduze kwayo. Futhi kungaba yishwa uma evimba noma ehlehla ukuze adonse ukunaka kwabazali abaphazamiseke kakhulu ngokuthanda kwakhe.
Enembile kakhulu, uyayibona inhloso ngaphansi kwamagama. Okokuqala, ngoba akayiqondi incazelo yamagama. Khona-ke, njengoba eqaphele abazali bakhe ngaphezu kwalokho abasola ngakho, ejwayelene nokuziphatha kwabo futhi njalo enikezwe ukuzwela okuzwela kakhulu, ubamba imizwa yabo. Ezibona eyinkaba yezwe, ngokushesha ucabanga ukuthi zincike ekuziphatheni kwakhe. Ngezinye izikhathi ngesizathu esihle! Kodwa angakwazi futhi ukuzibeka icala ngokukhathazeka noma usizi angenalo icala ngakho futhi afune ukukulungisa ngokulungisa ukuziphatha kwakhe, okubi kakhulu ngokucindezela ubuntu bakhe.
Ukuthanda kwakhe ukungqubuzana kumane nje kuyi-facade. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ufuna ukuphendula lapho efunwa, njengoba ekubona. Uma ujwayele ukumvikela ngokweqile, angase anqande imizwa yakhe ukuze akujabulise. Uma umvuselela kakhulu, angase azibone engaphansi kancane kwezidingo zakho futhi aqunge imingcele yakhe ngokulahlekelwa ukuphepha kwakhe, noma alahlekelwe futhi abuyele kuye.
Ivamise ukuqhubekela phambili ngokugxumela phambili ... ngesinye isikhathi inikeze umbono wokuba “ne-metro ngemuva.” Kukubazali ukuthi basebenzise ukuguquguquka okukhulu ukuze bahlale benolwazi lwakamuva. Eqinisweni, ngokushesha okukhulu, akukho lutho oluzophikisana nomncane kunokukholelwa ukuthi uphathwa "njengengane". Uthola ulwazi lwakhe kuyo yonke imithombo: esikoleni, kubantu abadala abamzungezile, kusukela emidlalweni, ezincwadini kanye nasemakhathuni. Uzakhela izwe lakhe, lapho ungasamenywa khona ngendlela ehlelekile. Impela, kufanele ulungise amahlebezi aqanjiwe asakazwa ezinkundleni zokudlala uma eyingozi. Kodwa mvumele azicabangele, ngisho ngokuhlukile kunawe!
Umdlalo wokuvusa ingane yakho
Izimfanelo zokufundisa zokudlala sekuyisikhathi eside ziqashelwa yibo bonke ochwepheshe. Ngesikhathi idlala, ingane isebenzisa ikhono layo, umcabango wayo, ukucabanga kwayo ... Kodwa lesi sigaba semfundo sihlala singajwayelekile kuye. Yinye kuphela into emthakaselayo: ukuzijabulisa.
Ngaphezu kwakho konke, hlala ungokwemvelo. Kungcono ukuvuma ukuthi awufuni ukudlala (ngaleso sikhathi!) Kunokuba uziphoqe ukwenza kanjalo. Ingane yakho izobe isizwa ukuthi uyanqikaza. Futhi nonke ningalahlekelwa inzuzo eyinhloko yegeyimu ngokuhlangene: wabelane ngesikhashana sokusebenzisana futhi uqinise izibopho. Ngokunjalo, unalo lonke ilungelo lokukhetha imidlalo ethile kuneminye futhi uveze lokho okuthandayo kubo.
Ungamoshi ubumnandi ngokuzibekela imigomo. Ungazifaka engozini yokuyibeka esimweni sokuhluleka uma ingawufezi umphumela oyifunayo. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ehlose umgomo yena ngokwakhe, mkhuthaze ukuba awuphishekele. Msize kuphela ngezinga alicela ngalo: ukuphumelela "ngokwakhe" kuyisisekelo, hhayi nje ekwanelisekeni kwe-ego yakhe, kodwa futhi ukuba athole futhi ahlanganise imisebenzi eholele empumelelweni. Uma enesithukuthezi noma ecasukile, phakamisa omunye umsebenzi. Ukufuna ukuqeda umdlalo ngazo zonke izindleko kwenza okungaphezu kokuwunciphisa.
Zivumele uqondiswe iphupho lakhe. Uthanda ukuhola umdanso. Kungokwemvelo: isendaweni yayo, iyodwa kuphela lapho ungawenzi khona umthetho. Akayilandeli yini imithetho yomdlalo noma ayicasule endleleni? Akunandaba. Akafuni ngempela ukuqeda ubunzima. Ulandela umbono wakhe omusha waleso sikhathi.
Yeka logic yakho ekamelweni lokungena. Ungena emhlabeni wokucabanga okungewona owakho. Kusukela eminyakeni engu-3 ubudala, ukungazi kwakho amakhodi alandelwa amaqhawe akhe awathandayo noma ukudideka kwakho phambi kwethoyizi eliguquguqukayo omnikeza lona - ekugcineni! – inzuzo phezu kwakho.
Imidlalo yebhodi ibonisa ihora lokuqaliswa emithethweni. Cishe iminyaka engu-3 ubudala futhi. Yiqiniso, lezi kumelwe zihlale zifinyeleleka kuye. Kodwa ukumcela ukuba abahloniphe kuyamsiza ukuba amukele, kancane kancane, imithetho ethile yokuphila ngokuhlanganyela: hlala uzolile, wamukele ukulahlekelwa, ulinde ithuba lakhe ...
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NGESIKHATHI
Abahlengikazi basenkulisa noma abasizi benkulisa abaqeqeshiwe bajwayelene kakhulu nemigomo kanye nazo zonke izigaba zokukhula kwe-psychomotor. Ukuhlala eduze kwengane yakho nsuku zonke, nakho kuletha ukubukeka okuzolile kuye. Ukugcina inkhulumomphendvulwano nabo ngokuvamile kusiza ukubeka izinto ngendlela efanele.
Othisha, abavela enkulisa, banikeza ukwaziswa okubalulekile mayelana nokuziphatha kwengane phakathi nemisebenzi kodwa futhi nafunda nabo ekilasini. Udokotela wezingane noma udokotela ohambelayo uhlale eyiphuzu lokuqala lokuxhumana. Uma kunenkinga, uyayikhomba, ngakho-ke, uma kunesidingo, ibhekisela kuchwepheshe.
UMA KUNOBUNZIMA OBUFAKAZILE
I-psychomotor Therapist ingenelela ekuphazamisekeni kwezimoto, isibonelo i-lateralization. Uma umsebenzi wakhe (osekelwe emidlalweni, imidwebo nokunyakaza) umenza athole ukukhathazeka okungokwengqondo, ukhuluma ngakho nabazali.
Umelaphi wenkulumo Isebenza ezinkingeni zolimi. Naye, ukwazisa abazali nganoma yiziphi izinkinga ezingokwengqondo azibonayo.
Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo usebenzisa inkulumo ukwelapha izinkinga zokuziphatha ezingaxazululeka ngale ndlela. Ingane izwakalisa ukwesaba nokukhathazeka kwayo kuye. Sibonana naye ngemva kokubona izimpawu zokungaphatheki kahle: ukuba nolaka, ukucasuka, ukuchama embhedeni… Ngokuvumelana nabazali, unquma ubude besikhathi sokungenela kwakhe: kusukela emaseshini amabili/ezintathu kuya ezinyangeni ezimbalwa. Angakwazi futhi ukuncoma izikhathi ezihlangene phambi kwabazali nengane.
Udokotela wengqondo yengane iphatha izinkinga zokuziphatha “ezisindayo” kakhulu, njengokungabi namandla kwangempela.
Udokotela wezingane sesha izimbangela zemizwa yokubambezeleka noma ukuphazamiseka kokukhula kwe-psychomotor okutholwe ngokufanelekile ochwepheshe abahlukahlukene abandulele. Ube esenikeza ukwelashwa.