Okuqukethwe
Manje sesiyazi ukuthi ubungozi bukagwayi buxhunyaniswe kakhulu nesikhathi sokuchayeka, nokuthi uqala umncane, kunamandla ukulutheka. Nokho, ubusha buyinkathi eyingozi yokuhlola ugwayi nokungena ekusetshenzisweni okuvamile nokuhlala njalo. Kodwa ungayixoxa kanjani le ndaba nengane yakho, futhi yini ongayisho ukuze uyiyekise ngaphandle kokuyibonisa? Inhlangano ye-Attitude Prevention inikeza izeluleko zayo, futhi okokuqala ikhumbula ukuthi phakathi kwalabo abahlola ugwayi wabo wokuqala ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-14, u-66% waba ababhemayo nsuku zonke, ngokumelene nama-52% ngesikhathi sokuhlolwa. senzeka phakathi kweminyaka eyi-14 neyi-17. “Ngenxa yalezi zizathu, kubalulekile ukugwema ukubhema phakathi kwentsha nentsha. », Uyasho.
Vimbela izingane kanye nentsha ekuqaliseni ukubhema
Ochwepheshe bayo baphinde baxwayise ngokuthi ikakhulukazi amantombazane asemancane engozini yogwayi, engozini yokuqala ukubhema kunabafana. Ngokusho kwabo, “amantombazane amancane anokuzethemba okuphansi kunabafana, azwela kakhulu ethonyeni labangane bawo nokuziphatha kwabantu abangabalandeli babo. Ngenxa yalesi sizathu, ukuvimbela ukubhema phakathi kwamantombazane asakhula kudinga ukuwasiza athole ukuzethemba, ngokuwaphelezela nokuwasekela. “Ibhekene nalesi simo, i-Attitude Prévention itusa ukuba ungayivimbeli noma uyiphoqe ingane yakho, ngokuvamile lokhu kuba nomphumela ophambene. Kodwa ngokuphambene ukuhlanganyela engxoxweni naye.
Ungahlanganyela kanjani engxoxweni futhi ukhulume ngendaba kagwayi?
Nakuba ukukhulumisana ebusheni kungase kubonakale kunzima futhi kuyinkimbinkimbi, ngale ngxoxo, abazali akufanele ube nedemoni ugwayi noma, ngokuphambene, abonakale engenandaba. “Kodwa-ke, ngokwemininingwane yesiFulentshi yango-2010 yocwaningo lwamazwe ngamazwe lwe-Health Behavior in School-aged Children (HBSC), u-63% wabafundi onyakeni wesithathu uxhumana kalula nomama wabo kanti u-3% noyise. Ngisho nasebusheni, abantu abasha bayawadinga ama-benchmarks anikezwa abazali. », Iphawula inhlangano. Kodwa kufanele kube njalo menqabele ukuthi abheme ekhaya ? Yebo, futhi ngenxa yezizathu ezimbili: ukungakwazi ukubhema ekhaya kunciphisa amathuba okubhema kanye nokubambezeleka kokungena ekuluthweni.
Lapho inkhulumomphendvulwano iqalwa, kungcono ukwazi isihloko sakho ukuze uxoxe ngokuthula, ukuphendula nokuphikisana, ngakho-ke funda kusengaphambili ngogwayi nasezingcupheni. Ngoba, njengoba i-Attitude Prevention ibonisa, “lapho abazali bephumelela ngokwengeziwe kulesi sifundo, kulapho bethembeka khona futhi bangaletha ukwaziswa okuthembekile nokuqondakalayo ekunakekeleni kwezingane zabo. »Isihloko kumele kukhulunywe ngaso ngendlela ejwayelekile: abangani bakhe bawubona kanjani ugwayi? Yiziphi izifanekiso zakhe zikagwayi? Kodwa qaphela, futhi, ungaphakamisi izwi lakho ukuze angayibambi ingane yakhe. Kunalokho, kudingekile ukumvumela ukuba aveze imizwa yakhe futhi “umenze abe nomuzwa wokuthi uyalalelwa futhi uyasekelwa.” »
Ekugcineni, le nhlangano ibamema ukuba bakhuthaze izingane zabo ukuba zithuthukise amakhono azo okucabanga okujulile, ngokuzibuza ukuthi ziwubona kanjani ugwayi: ingabe ziwuthola ukhanga ugwayi? Ingabe imnika umbono wokuvuthwa? Ingabe iyayihlanganisa ngokwenhlalo ibe yiqembu? Kuphinde kube yithuba lokuthi abazali babelane ngolwazi lwabo kanye nemizamo yokuvalwa okungenzeka. “Ngalolu hlobo lwezingxoxo, abazali bayakwazi nokukhomba izigwegwe ezingabagqugquzela ukuthi bayeke, noma zibavimbele ekwenzeni lokho. ", Iphawula i-Attitude Prevention. Futhi uma umzali oyedwa noma bobabili bebhema, kufanele kuqashelwe ukuba ungashiyi ugwayi ulele. “Akuyona ize leyo ukuthengisa ugwayi akuvunyelwe ezinganeni. », Kuphetha inhlangano.