Okuqukethwe
NgoFebhuwari 2, abakwaNetflix bakhiphe idokhumentari ethi “The Tinder Swindler” mayelana nomkhohlisi wakwa-Israel izisulu zakhe okwakungabesifazane baseCentral naseNyakatho Yurophu ahlangana nabo eTinder. Umphumela walaba abajwayelene namaqhawekazi ubulokhu ufana - inhliziyo ephukile, ukuswela imali kanye nokwesaba izimpilo zabo. Yiziphi iziphetho esingafinyelela kuzo kule ndaba?
Iqondiswa u-Felicity Morris, ifilimu isivele ibizwa ngenguqulo yesimanje ka-Steven Spielberg ethi Catch Me If You Can. Ziyafana ngempela: abalingiswa abayinhloko baphumelela ukuzenza abanye abantu, bakhohlisa amadokhumenti, baphila ngezindleko zomunye umuntu futhi bahlala isikhathi eside bengatholakali emaphoyiseni. Kuphela lapha akunakwenzeka ukuzwela umkhohlisi wakwa-Israel. Siyakutshela ukuthi kungani.
Indoda Ephelele
USimon Leviev uyindodana kasozigidigidi kanye no-CEO wenkampani yakhe ekhiqiza idayimane. Yini eyaziwayo ngaye? Ngenxa yomsebenzi wakhe, le ndoda iphoqeleka ukuba ihambe kakhulu - i-Instagram yakhe (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia) igcwele izithombe ezithathwe ezikebheni, izindiza ezizimele nasemahhotela abizayo. Futhi ufuna ukuthola othandekayo.
Ekugcineni, umthola ku-Tinder - kumuntu waseNorway uCecile Fellhol, owathuthela eLondon. Ngemva kokuhlangana ukuze baphuze ikhofi, le ndoda imemela eBulgaria, lapho yona kanye neqembu layo, kwadingeka ukuba baye emsebenzini. Futhi ngemva kwezinsuku ezimbalwa baba umbhangqwana.
Njengoba ayesohambweni lwebhizinisi ngaso sonke isikhathi, uSimon wayengakwazi ukubona intombi yakhe njalo, kodwa wayebonakala engumlingani ofanelekayo: wayehlala ethintana, ethumela amavidiyo amnandi nemiyalezo elalelwayo, enikeza izimbali nezipho ezibizayo, wathi umbona njengowakhe. unkosikazi nomama wabantwana bakhe . Futhi ngemva kwezinyanga ezimbalwa, waze wacela ukuhlala ndawonye.
Kodwa ngomzuzwana nje yonke into yashintsha kakhulu
Izitha - izimbangi ebhizinisini ledayimane, abasongela uSimon, bazama ukumbulala. Ngenxa yalokhu, unogada wakhe walimala, futhi usomabhizinisi waphoqeleka ukuba alahle wonke ama-akhawunti akhe namakhadi asebhange - ukuze angalandelwa.
Waqala ke uCecile ukusiza umlingani wakhe ngemali, ngoba kumele aqhubeke asebenze, endiza ezingxoxweni, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kwenzekani. Wakhipha ikhadi lasebhange elathathwa ngegama lakhe, wabe eseboleka, elesibili, elesithathu ... Ngemva kwesikhashana wathola ukuthi ubehlala nezikweletu eziyisishiyagalolunye kanye nezithembiso zikaSimon eziqhubekayo zokuthi "cishe" uzovula ama-akhawunti. futhi ubuyisele konke.
U-Shimon Hayut, njengoba empeleni ebizwa ngokuthi "u-millionaire", akazange abuyisele lutho futhi waqhubeka ehamba e-Europe, ekhohlisa abanye besifazane. Kodwa noma kunjalo, wabanjwa - ngenxa yomsebenzi ohlangene wezintatheli, amaphoyisa kanye nezinye izisulu, izindaba zabo umqondisi asethula nazo.
I-Tinder imbi?
Lapho ikhishwa, ifilimu idlulele ohlwini lwamasonto onke lweNetflix lwamaphrojekthi abukwe kakhulu futhi yathatha indawo yokuqala enkambweni yenkonzo yokusakaza eRussia - ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ezedlule yathuthela endaweni yesibili ngenxa yochungechunge olumayelana nomkhohlisi waseRussia.
Kungani ethandwa kangaka? Ngokushesha ngenxa yezizathu eziningana. Okokuqala, izindaba mayelana nabaphangi bothando zazingavamile eminyakeni eyi-10 edlule, futhi manje. Yini eYurophu, yini eRussia. Lesi yisihloko esibuhlungu.
Okwesibili, ngoba indaba yazo zonke izisulu iqala nomuntu engimaziyo ku-Tinder. Impikiswano mayelana nokuthi kungani izinhlelo zokusebenza zokuphola zidingeka nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukuthola othandekayo kuzo ibonakala ingapheli.
Futhi imuvi ekhululiwe yaba ingxabano entsha kulabo abangakholelwa ezinhlelweni zokusebenza zokuphola.
Kodwa-ke, izisulu ngokwazo azimsoli nhlobo umqili we-Tinder - uCecile uyaqhubeka nokuyisebenzisa, njengoba esanethemba lokuhlangana nomuntu oseduze emoyeni nasezithakazelweni. Ngakho-ke, awukwazi ukushesha ukususa uhlelo lokusebenza. Kodwa ezinye iziphetho, ezisekelwe kulokho abesifazane abakhohlisiwe abakushoyo, kufanelekile ukwenziwa.
Kungani umkhonyovu wasebenza
Amaqhawekazi efilimu agcizelela izikhathi eziningi ukuthi uSimon wayebonakala engumuntu omangalisayo. Ngokusho kwabo, unozibuthe ongokwemvelo kangangokuthi ngemva kwehora lokuxhumana kwabonakala sengathi bazana iminyaka engu-10. Cishe wayenjalo: wayekwazi ukuthola amagama afanele, wayazi ukuthi kufanele ahambe nini ukuze umlingani wakhe adinwe futhi anamathele kuye nakakhulu. Kodwa wafunda kalula lapho kungafaneleki ukusunduza - isibonelo, akazange aphikelele ebuhlotsheni, eqaphela ukuthi angathola imali kuye njengomngane.
Njengoba isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo kanye nochwepheshe bezobudlelwano uZoe Clus echaza, ukuzibandakanya kukaSimon «ekuqhunyisweni kwamabhomu othandweni» kwadlala indima ekhethekile kulokho okwenzeka - ikakhulukazi, waphakamisa ukuthi abesifazane bangene ngokushesha ngangokunokwenzeka.
“Lapho izinto zishesha kakhulu, injabulo esiyitholayo idlula imiqondo yethu enengqondo, enengqondo futhi enengqondo futhi ingene esenzweni. Kodwa i-subconscious ayikwazi ukuhlukanisa iqiniso nenganekwane - yilapho izinkinga ziqala khona, kusho uchwepheshe. Ngenxa yalokho, yonke into ibonakala ingokoqobo kakhulu. Lokhu kungaholela ekutheni wenze izinqumo ezingalungile.”
Nokho, kunezinye izizathu ezenza abesifazane bakholelwe kulo mkhohlisi kwaze kwaba sekugcineni.
Ukukholwa enganekwaneni
Njengabaningi bethu abakhulele ku-Disney nasezindabeni zezinganekwane zakudala mayelana namakhosazana namakhosazana, uCecile wayekholelwa esimangaliso enhliziyweni yakhe - ukuthi kwakuzovela indoda ephelele - ethakazelisayo, ebukekayo, ecebile, "ebeka umhlaba ezinyaweni zakhe. » Akusho lutho ukuthi bavela ezigabeni ezehlukene zomphakathi. UCinderella angakwazi?
I-Rescuer Syndrome
“Uwuhlobo lomuntu olufuna ukusindiswa. Ikakhulukazi lapho benomthwalo wemfanelo onjalo. Iqembu lonke belithembele kuyena,” kusho uCecile. Eduze kwakhe, uSimon wayevulekile, wabelana ngolwazi lwakhe, wabonisa ukuthi uzizwa engavikelekile futhi esengozini kangakanani.
Kusolwa ukuthi wayephethe inkampani enkulu, eqenjini lakhe, futhi wazizwa ephephile eduze kwesithandwa sakhe kuphela.
Futhi uCecile wakuthatha njengomsebenzi wakhe ukumvikela noma ukumsindisa. Okokuqala umnikeze lonke uthando lwakho nokumeseka, bese umsiza ngokwezimali. Umlayezo wakhe wawulula: "Uma ngingamsizi, ubani ozomsiza?" Futhi, ngeshwa, kwakungeyena yedwa owayecabanga kanjalo.
Futhi nokho sibuyela esihlokweni samakilasi omphakathi. USimon akazange akhethe abesifazane, abafana naye, ababendizisa amajethi angasese futhi bakhululeke ezindaweni zokudlela ezisezingeni eliphezulu. Ukhethe labo abathola iholo eliphakathi nendawo futhi abanombono ojwayelekile nje weminyaka engu-uXNUMXbuXNUMXbyempilo "yabantu abaphakeme".
Ngenxa yalokhu, kwaba lula kakhulu ukuba baqambe amanga. Khuluma ngezinkinga ezingelona iqiniso ebhizinisini lomndeni, ungangeni emininingwaneni ngama-akhawunti asebhange. Yakha izindaba mayelana nesevisi yezokuphepha. Izisulu zakhe zazingaqondi ukuthi yini engenzeka nokuthi yini engekho kulabo abaphila ezingeni eliphezulu. Babengazi lutho ngokuphathwa kwezinkampani, noma ngokuthi abanikazi bazo ngokuvamile baziphatha kanjani ezimweni eziyingozi. Uma umuntu owazalwa futhi wakhulela kulezi zimo ethi kumelwe kube njalo, ngingaphikisa kanjani-ke?”