Ukuzivocavoca kwendabuko ekwelashweni kwe-Gestalt: "Ukubheka umuntu, khuluma imicabango yakho, imizwa yakho kanye nemizwa yakho." Ngesikhathi esifanayo, wonke umuntu uyaqonda ukuthi “Kufanele ube neminyaka engamashumi amathathu ubudala” imicabango, “Ngikhangwa nguwe” umuzwa, futhi “Izandla zami ziyajuluka kancane” umuzwa.
Kubonakala sengathi yonke into ilula futhi icacile, kodwa ekusebenzeni kunamaphutha amaningi, ukungaqondi kahle kanye nokudideka nje. Yebo, futhi ngokombono wethiyori, kunezikhathi eziningi ezinzima ngenxa yokuthi ukusetshenziswa kwamagama okukhona ku-psychology esebenzayo emashumini amaningi eminyaka kuhluke kakhulu kumazinga okusebenza kwengqondo kwezemfundo.
Ukuzwa
Izinzwa, okokuqala, izinzwa ze-kinesthetic eziyisisekelo: konke esikuthola ngokuqondile ekuphumeni okuvela kuma-receptors othintana nawo omzimba okunomthelela oqondile kuwo.
Ukuthinta noma ukungezwani kwemisipha, ubuhlungu noma ukubanda, okumnandi noma okubabayo - konke lokhu ukuzwa, ngokuphambene nemisindo, izithombe nemifanekiso. Ngiyabona - izithombe, ngizwa - imisindo, futhi ngizwa (imizwa) - imizwa↑.
"Ukuphumula okujabulisayo esifubeni" noma "ukungezwani emahlombe", "umhlathi obambene" noma "uzwa izandla ezifudumele" - lokhu i-kinesthetic futhi lena imizwa eqondile. Kodwa indaba yalokho okubonayo nokuzwayo akuyona indaba emayelana nemizwa yakho.
“Ngibona ukukhanya futhi ngizwe imisindo ethambile” imayelana nokuzwa, futhi “ngibona amehlo akho amahle nokumamatheka okufudumele” akuseyona imizwa esheshayo. Lokhu kakade kuyimibono, imizwa ecutshungulwa yingqondo, lokhu sekuvele kuwumbono ophelele futhi onengqondo walokho okwenzekayo ngokungezwa kwemizwa ethile.
Lapho imibono iqala khona, imizwa ngokuvamile iyaphela. Izinzwa azicutshungulwanga, ngaphandle kokuchazwa, i-kinesthetics eqondile.
Nokho, ekuphileni konke kucacile futhi kuyinkimbinkimbi. Inkulumo ethi "Ngizwa sengathi izicathulo zami ziyampintsha" isakhuluma ngemizwa. Naphezu kweqiniso lokuthi "amabhuzu" kuwumbono ophelele wento, akuseyona inzwa, kodwa umbono, kodwa inkulumo ayigxili ezicathulweni, kodwa eqinisweni lokuthi izicathulo "ziqinile". Futhi «cindezela» kuwumuzwa.
imicabango
Imicabango iyinqwaba ethokozisayo yento ethize ezalwa ingqondo ngesikhathi sokucubungula imizwa, imizwa, nanoma yimiphi eminye imicabango. Imicabango icacile futhi ayicacile, ayijulile futhi ijulile, ididekile futhi icacile, ingaba ukucabanga nokuhlotshaniswa, izitatimende eziqinisekisiwe noma indaba mayelana nokungabaza, kodwa ikhanda lihlala lisebenza lapho licabanga.
Uma umuzwa uwukubona ngomzimba, khona-ke imicabango iwumbono ongokomfanekiso-obonakalayo noma ongokomqondo, umbono ngokusebenzisa ingqondo (ikhanda).
"Ngiyazi ukuthi singabafokazi" - ngekhanda lolu lwazi, umcabango ongathathi hlangothi. “Ngizizwa sengathi singabafokazi” — uma sidlula emphefumulweni (okungukuthi, ngomzimba), — lokhu kungaba umuzwa ovuthayo noma obandayo.
Ukukhanga, isifiso singaba nolwazi olungathathi hlangothi: "Ngiyazi ukuthi ngesidlo sakusihlwa ngizobe ngilambile futhi ngizobheka indawo ethile ukuze ngidle." Futhi kungaba umuzwa ophilayo lapho ukunaka kuzo zonke izimpawu kufuna «ikhefi» futhi kuba nzima ukuthikamezeka...
Ngakho-ke, imicabango iyikho konke okufika kithi ngengqondo, ngekhanda.
Imizwa
Uma ubuzwa ngemizwa yakho, akukhona ngalokho okuthiwa yimizwa yangaphandle, hhayi ngamehlo akho, ukuzwa nezinye izinzwa.
Uma intombazane ithi ensizwani yayo: “Awunamizwa!”, Khona-ke impendulo yayo ithi: “Kanjani? Nginemizwa. Ngiyakuzwa, nginombono, zonke izinzwa zihlelekile! — kungaba ihlaya noma inhlekisa. Umbuzo wemizwa umbuzo wemizwa yangaphakathi,
Imizwa yangaphakathi iwukubona okuhlangene nakho kwezehlakalo nezimo zomhlaba wokuphila komuntu.
“Ngiyakuncoma”, “umuzwa wokuncoma” noma “umuzwa wokukhanya ophuma ebusweni bakho obuhle” kumayelana nemizwa.
Imizwa nokuzwa kuvame ukufana, kuvame ukudideka, kodwa empeleni kulula ukuhlukanisa: izinzwa ziyi-kinesthetics eyisisekelo, futhi imizwa iyimizwa esevele icutshungulwe ingqondo, lokhu kakade kuwumbono ophelele futhi onenjongo yalokho okwenzekayo.
«Ukwangana okufudumele» akukona mayelana 36 degrees Celsius, kumayelana umlando ubuhlobo bethu, njengoba nje umuzwa «Angikhululekile naye» — usho okungaphezu nomuzwa «ukukhama amabhuzu»↑.
Imizwa ivame ukudidaniswa nokuhlola kobuhlakani, kodwa isiqondiso se-beam yokunaka nesimo somzimba cishe kuzokutshela impendulo efanele. Ekuhloleni kwengqondo kukhona ikhanda kuphela, futhi umuzwa uhlala ucabangela umzimba.
Uma uthe «ngiyanelisekile» kodwa kwakuphuma ekhanda lakho, kwakuwukuhlola nje kwengqondo, hhayi umuzwa. Futhi owenelisekile, okhishwe ngaphandle kokuphefumula kuso sonke isisu, "Hhayi-ke, uyi-parasite!" - umuzwa osobala, ngoba - kusuka emzimbeni. Bona imininingwane →
Uma ubheka emphefumulweni wakho futhi uzwe umuzwa kuwe, khona-ke kuyiqiniso, unomuzwa. Imizwa ayiqambi amanga. Kodwa-ke, ukuqapha kuyadingeka lapha - awukwazi njalo ukuqiniseka ukuthi uzizwa kanjani ngempela. Lokho ngezinye izikhathi umuntu abhekana nakho njengomzwelo othile kungase kungabi yilo, kungase kube okunye. Kuleli qophelo elithile, imizwa ngezinye izikhathi iqamba amanga↑.
Ukuze abantu bangadideki emizweni, ukuze abantu bangenzi iphutha lokuzizwa ngomunye futhi banciphise imizwa lapho ingekho khona ngempela, behlanganisa imizwa yokukhohlisa, izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo eziningi zinikeza isichazamazwi semizwa yangempela kanye nendlela yokuyiqaphela.
Ngakho-ke, singayichaza kanjani kafushane imizwa? Imizwa iyincazelo engokomfanekiso-yomzimba ye-kinesthetics. Lena i-kinesthetics eyakhiwe ngezingathekiso eziphilayo. Lena into ephilayo eyafika kithi ivela emizimbeni yethu. Lulimi olukhulunywa umphefumulo wethu.
Ubani ochazayo?
Imizwa idala imizwa? Imizwa idala imicabango? Ingabe ngenye indlela? - Kunalokho, impendulo efanele izoba ukuthi ubudlelwano bemizwa, imizwa nemicabango kungaba yinoma yini.
- Imizwa - Imizwa - Imicabango
Ukuzwa izinyo elibuhlungu - umuzwa wokwesaba - isinqumo sokuya kudokotela wamazinyo.
- Ukuzizwa - Ukucabanga - Ukuzizwa
Ngabona inyoka (imizwa), ngokusekelwe ekuhlangenwe nakho okudlule, ngaphetha ngokuthi kungaba yingozi (umcabango), ngenxa yalokho, ngesaba. Okusho ukuthi, i-oda elihlukile.
- Umcabango - Ukuzizwa - Ukuzizwa
Ngakhumbula ukuthi uVasya wathembisa ukunginika imali, kodwa akazange anginike (umcabango), wacasulwa (umuzwa), ngenxa yokucasuka weba umoya wakhe esifubeni (umuzwa) - umyalelo ohlukile.
- Umcabango - umuzwa - umuzwa
Ngicabange ukuthi izandla zami zifudumele (umcabango) - ngizizwa ngifudumele ezandleni zami (umuzwa) - zithulile (umuzwa)
Udinga malini?
Uma sinemizwa, kunemicabango futhi kukhona imizwa, kungenzeka yini ukukhuluma mayelana nokuhlobana okuthile okufiselekayo phakathi kwayo? Eqinisweni, kubantu abahlukene lesi silinganiso sihluke kakhulu, futhi okokuqala kunomehluko ekubuseni kwemicabango noma imizwa.
Kunabantu abathanda ukuzwa nokwazi ukuthi bazizwa kanjani. Kunabantu abavamisile ukungezwa, kodwa ukucabanga, ukujwayela kanye nokukwazi ukucabanga↑. Kunzima ukuphendukela kubantu abanjalo ngemizwa: bangakutshela ngemizwa yabo ngesicelo sakho, kodwa lapho usuka kulo muntu, uzobuyela endleleni yokuphila evamile, lapho ecabanga khona, enze izinqumo, azibekele imigomo. futhi azihlele ukuze azifeze, ngaphandle kokuphazanyiswa yilokho angakudingi, yimizwa.
Amadoda maningi amathuba okuthi akhethe isizathu, abesifazane maningi amathuba okuthi bakhethe imizwa↑. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kubonakala sengathi kubalulekile hhayi kuphela lokhu noma lokho kuhlobana kwemicabango nemizwa, kodwa umbuzo wekhwalithi yemicabango kanye nokuqukethwe kwemizwa.
Uma umuntu enemicabango engenalutho, engemihle futhi engahlangene, kungcono ukuthi abe nemizwa eminingi emihle nemihle. Uma umuntu enekhanda elihle, imicabango ejulile futhi esheshayo, asikho isidingo sokumphazamisa ngenani elikhulu lemizwa.
Mhlawumbe, umuntu othuthukile kufanele athuthuke ngokwanele (njengomholo ophilayo) wonke lawa makhono amathathu - ikhono lokuzwa, ikhono lokuzwa kanye nekhono lokucabanga, bese wonke umuntu enelungelo lokukhetha.
Yilokhu okwenzeka esikoleni esihle: kunikeza isethi eyisibopho yezifundo, bese wonke umuntu ekhetha ubuchwepheshe bakhe, ikusasa labo.
Umuntu njengesidalwa ngokuvamile uyokhetha ukuphila ngemizwa, umuntu njengomuntu uzothuthukisa ingqondo yakhe. Bona →