Okuqukethwe
Umbuzo, ubatshele kanjani abazali bakho ngokukhulelwa, uhambelana nabesifazane abaningi.
Cishe noma yimuphi umuntu wesifazane okhuliswe ngendlela yesiko uzohlupha abangani nabantu ajwayelene nabo ngalo mbuzo: “Ubatshele kanjani abazali bakho ngokukhulelwa?” Futhi impendulo, ngeshwa, ayilula njengoba besingathanda. Ngoba kuyadingeka ukubheka isimo somuntu ngamunye. Ngakho-ke, sizocubungula izinketho ezinkulu ezingaba khona.
Ukukhulelwa kuyizindaba ezimbi kubazali nasemndenini.
Ubatshele kanjani abazali bakho ngokukhulelwa?
Impilo akuyona inganekwane enhle, futhi kwesinye isikhathi ukuvela kwengane kuyinkinga kumama nasezihlotsheni zayo. Kungaba nezizathu eziningi, isibonelo, iminyaka emincane yentombazane, isimo esinzima sezezimali sabazali. Ngokwemvelo, esimweni esinjalo kunzima ngokwengqondo ukuphendula umbuzo wokuthi ungatshela kanjani abazali ngokukhulelwa, kepha kunendlela yokuphuma.
Kulokhu, kufanele ukhethe ingxoxo yangasese nomzali lowo wesifazane amethemba kakhulu (imvamisa umama), futhi uzolungiselela esinye isihlobo. Kungenzeka, ngeke kwenzeke ngaphandle kwehlazo. Kepha ekugcineni, ogogo nomkhulu bazobuyelana, futhi konke kuzolunga.
Ukukhulelwa kuyiholide labazali nazo zonke izihlobo
Lapho isimo sezezimali silungile, intombazane iseminyakeni efanele, futhi ingane ihlelwe ngayo yonke imiqondo, khona-ke umbono ohluke ngokuphelele uyavuleka. Kulokhu, izindlela zokutshela abazali ngokukhulelwa yimisebenzi emnandi; Ochwepheshe banamuhla banabo ngobuningi. Ake sicabangele ezithandwa kakhulu:
1. Idili lesidlo. Konke sekujwayelekile lapha: abantu beza, badle, baphuze, bese kuthi phakathi kwamabili ubaba nomama wesikhathi esizayo bamemezele izindaba ezinhle.
2. Ukuthwebula okujwayelekile. Kulokhu, futhi, awukwazi ukwenza ngaphandle kokudla. Lapho kusihlwa sekuya ngasemaphethelweni, abalingiswa abaphambili bathembisa ukuthatha isithombe njengesikhumbuzo, futhi ngesikhathi esibaluleke kakhulu basho amagama abathandwayo: “… (igama lentombazane) ukhulelwe!”
3. Izindida. Kubazali abayinkimbinkimbi futhi abanolwazi, unga-oda ama-jigsaw puzzle, uqoqe ukuthi yiziphi izihlobo ezizofunda ngokushintsha kwesimo sabo.
Enye indlela yokubika ukukhulelwa “nsuku zonke”
Esikhathini lapho abantu behlanya izingane futhi bakhela izimpilo zabo eduze kwabo, abanye bangafuna ukwenza ngaphandle kwama-pathos nobukhazikhazi. Kulokhu, ungashayela abazali bakho nabangane abaseduze futhi ubike umcimbi ojabulisayo. Futhi inkolelo-ze izokhetha ukutshela izihlobo kuphela ngeqiniso lokuzalwa kwengane (ikakhulukazi uma kukhulunywa ngengane yokuqala). Ukuzalwa kwengane kungumcimbi obalulekile empilweni yabo bonke abashadikazi, ngakho-ke akumangazi ukuthi abantu bavame ukuzama ukubheka zonke izici.