Isidingo esingashiwongo sokuvuleleka sesiphenduke inkambiso. Silindele ukuthi abathandekayo nabangane basitshele konke, ngokwethembeka nangokuningiliziwe bahlaziye imizwa nezisusa zabo zezenzo. Ukumema ingane engxoxweni eyimfihlo, sibala isethulo esiqotho sayo yonke into ebilisiwe. Kodwa uma sitshelana cishe yonke into, kungani sidinga ama-psychotherapist? Kungani sikhokhela isevisi esinikezana yona ngokuzithandela namahhala?
“Ukwethembeka akuwona umgomo wesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo,” kuphawula isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uMarina Harutyunyan. - Ungaphambanisi iseshini ye-psychoanalysis nezingxoxo eziseduze, lapho sabelana nabangane ngalokho esikuzwayo, lokho esikucabangayo ngokucophelela. I-psychoanalyst inesithakazelo kulokho umuntu ngokwakhe engakwazi - ukungazi kwakhe, okuyinto, ngencazelo, ayikwazi ukukhulunywa.
U-Sigmund Freud uqhathanise ukucwaninga kokungazi nokwakhiwa kabusha kwemivubukulo, lapho emigodini ebonakala ingabalulekile, ekhishwe ekujuleni komhlaba noma ehlakazekile ngokungahleliwe, isithombe esiphelele salokho ekuqaleni okwakungabonakali sisho ukuthi noma yikuphi ukuxhumana kuhlanganiswe ngesineke. Ngakho isihloko sengxoxo asibalulekile kangako ku-psychoanalyst.
Umhlaziyi uzama ukuthola ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi esingakuqapheli.
"UFreud wacela isiguli ukuthi sicabange ukuthi usesitimela, futhi wamcela ukuba asho yonke into ayibona ngaphandle kwefasitela, ngaphandle kokuziba inqwaba yemfucumfucu noma amaqabunga awile, ngaphandle kokuzama ukuhlobisa okuthile," kuchaza uMarina Harutyunyan. - Eqinisweni, lokhu kugeleza kokuqaphela kuba ifasitela ezweni elingaphakathi lomuntu. Futhi lokhu akufani nakancane nokuvuma izono, ukulungiselela ikholwa elizikhumbulayo ngenkuthalo izono zalo, bese liphenduka kuzo.
Umhlaziyi uzama ukuthola ukungqubuzana kwangaphakathi esingakuqapheli. Futhi ngenxa yalokhu, akaqapheli kuphela okuqukethwe kwendaba, kodwa futhi "izimbobo" esethulweni. Phela, lapho umfudlana wokuqaphela uthinta izindawo ezibuhlungu ezibangela ukukhathazeka, sivame ukuzigwema futhi sisuke esihlokweni.
Ngakho-ke, sidinga Omunye, umuntu ozosiza ukuhlola i-psyche, ukunqoba, ngokungenabuhlungu ngangokunokwenzeka, lokhu kumelana. Umsebenzi womhlaziyi uvumela isiguli ukuthi siqonde ukuthi yini ethinta iqiniso esiyicindezelayo ngokufihla ezinye, ukusabela okufiselekayo emphakathini.
Umelaphi akahluleli ngalokho okushiwo futhi unakekela izindlela zokuzivikela zesiguli
"Yebo, i-psychoanalyst iqapha ukubhuka noma ukungabaza, kodwa hhayi ngenjongo yokubamba "isigebengu," uchwepheshe uyacacisa. “Sikhuluma ngocwaningo oluhlanganyelwe lokunyakaza komqondo. Futhi incazelo yalo msebenzi ukuthi iklayenti lingakwazi ukuziqonda kangcono, libe nombono ongokoqobo futhi ohlangene wemicabango nezenzo zakhe. Khona-ke uqondiswa kangcono kuye futhi, ngokufanele, kangcono ukuxhumana nabanye.
Umhlaziyi naye unokuziphatha kwakhe komuntu ngamunye, kodwa akasebenzi ngemibono yesono nobuhle. Kubalulekile ukuba aqonde ukuthi isiguli sizilimaza kanjani futhi ngayiphi indlela ukuze asisize sinciphise ukuzilimaza.
I-psychotherapist ayihluleli ngalokho okushiwo futhi inakekela izindlela zokuzivikela zesiguli, azi kahle ukuthi ukuzibeka icala endimeni yokuvuma izono akuyona into ebaluleke kakhulu emsebenzini ophumelelayo.