I-Psychology

Amadoda anentshebe ahlanganisa amadoda ashefiwe ahlanzekile hhayi kuphela emakhasini omagazini abacwebezelayo, kodwa futhi ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, ukushayela abakhiqizi be-sheve foam ekucindezelekeni. Kungani izinwele zobuso zaba imfashini futhi ingabe ngempela intshebe kuwuphawu lobudoda?

Kungani intshebe ithrenda? Izazi zokusebenza kwengqondo zisihlola kanjani lesi simo? Ingabe intshebe ngempela yenza indoda ikhange nakakhulu? Futhi imfashini yezinwele zobuso izohlala isikhathi esingakanani? Izimpendulo zale mibuzo zingatholakala ocwaningweni lwesayensi.

Intshebe ihlobisa indoda

Emuva ngo-1973, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Robert Pellegrini wase-University of San Jose (USA) sathola ukuthi amadoda anentshebe athathwa njengezinhle, amadoda, avuthiwe, anamandla, anesibindi, akhululekile, aqalayo, akhuthele futhi aphumelelayo. Kubukeka sengathi kudala, ngesikhathi samahippie athanda inkululeko.

Nokho, muva nje, ososayensi abaholwa isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uRobert Brooks waseYunivesithi yaseSydney (Australia) bafinyelela eziphethweni ezifanayo.

Abaphendula kubo bobubili ubulili baboniswa izithombe zendoda efanayo, eshefiwe, enezinhlanga nentshebe ewugqinsi. Ngenxa yalokho, izinsuku ezimbili zokungagundi zawina esilinganisweni sokukhanga kwabesifazane, kanye nentshebe egcwele abesilisa. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, bobabili bavumelana ngokuthi kwakuyindoda yentshebe okungenzeka ukuthi ibhekwa njengobaba oqotho nomnikazi wempilo enhle.

URobert Brooks uthi: “Asikakazi ukuthi intshebe yenzani kwasekuqaleni. “Kusobala ukuthi lokhu kuwuphawu lobudoda, kuyena owesilisa ubukeka emdala futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo enolaka.”

Sisezingeni eliphezulu lokuba nentshebe

Iqiniso elithakazelisayo - umbhali wezincwadi ze-biopsychology u-Nigel Barber, ehlaziya imfashini yentshebe e-Great Britain ngo-1842-1971, wathola ukuthi amadevu, kanye nezinwele zobuso ezijwayelekile emadodeni, zithandwa ngezikhathi zokuchichima kwamadoda ukushoda komakoti. Uphawu lwezinga eliphezulu lenhlalo nokuvuthwa, intshebe iyinzuzo yokuncintisana emakethe yomshado.

U-Nigel Barber uphinde wakhomba iphethini: amadoda amaningi anentshebe ekugcineni anciphisa ukukhanga kwentshebe. I-charismatic "indoda enentshebe" inhle ngokumelene nesizinda esingenaboya. Kodwa phakathi kohlobo lwakhe, akasanikezi umbono "wendoda yamaphupho". Ngakho-ke, lapho ngisho nabaphikisi abanobudlova bededela intshebe, imfashini yonya izophela.

Amadevu akho amile

Kulabo abacabanga ngokungathí sina ukukhulisa intshebe ukuze babonakale bengamadoda, kodwa bangalinge ukuguqula ngokuphelele isithombe sabo, intshebe engamanga evela ezisekelweni zaseshashalazini izobasiza.

Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo uDouglas Wood waseNyuvesi yaseMaine (e-USA) sithi ngisho nentshebe ewumgunyathi, kodwa ehambisana kahle nombala wentshebe, intshebe inika intsha ukuzethemba.

Uthi: “Abantu bathambekele ekubeni nombono onemininingwane nongokwembono ngomunye umuntu ngokusekelwe ezicini ezimbalwa nje zomzimba. "Intshebe ngokushesha ibamba iso bese ibeka iphimbo."

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