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Futhi le nkolelo-mbono mayelana nobulili isahlala ezingqondweni zabesilisa nabesifazane abaningi. Kuphikiswa ochwepheshe bethu, izazi zocansi u-Alain Eril noMireille Bonyerbal.
U-Alain Eril, isazi se-psychoanalyst, isazi sezocansi:
Lapha sibhekene ngokuphelele nezinganekwane zempucuko yamaJuda-yobuKristu, okuthi, ngokuthembela ekukhohliseni okuningana, abesifazane abacindezelwe ngaphansi kwesizathu sokuthi, ngenxa yokunganeliseki kwabo kwabesifazane, akufanele bavunyelwe ukujabulela injabulo nhlobo. Ngekhulu lesi-XNUMX, umphakathi waba nokukhathazeka nakakhulu lapho kutholakala ukuthi engxenyeni ethile yomjikelezo, owesifazane wayengakwazi ukukhulelwa. Lokhu kusho ukuthi ngalesi sikhathi, ubulili kuye abulungiswa ngokuzala, kuyilapho owesilisa engakwazi ukukhulelwa ingane nganoma yikuphi ukukhishwa.
Kungani abesifazane ngezinye izinsuku bengekho ngaphansi kwenqubo yokuzala? Lo mbuzo wabangela ukukhathazeka. Futhi-ke le ndaba ene-clitoris nayo yatholakala - isitho esiletha injabulo, kodwa ngaphandle kwalokho ayinamsebenzi ngokuphelele!
Amadoda ayakwazi ukuthola injabulo enamandla kakhulu, futhi asikho isizathu sokucabanga ukuthi imizwa yabesifazane inamandla.
Abesifazane abajabulela injabulo sekuyisikhathi eside bengamukeleki emphakathini. Kuyaqondakala ukuthi kungani abathakathi (okwakukholelwa ukuthi baya kusabatha ukuze bahlanganyele nodeveli osesimweni sembuzi) babevezwa begibele umshanelo - kunzima ukucabanga ngophawu lwesitho sowesifazane obala. Akumele sikhohlwe ukuthi inqwaba yabesifazane bashiswa ezigxotsheni besolwa ngokuba ngabathakathi.
U-Mireille Bonierbal, udokotela wezifo zengqondo, udokotela wezocansi:
Le stereotype ibhekisela embonweni womuntu wesifazane njengesidalwa esinganeliseki esishwabadela abanye. Kepha ngaphandle kukaTiresias, isangoma esidumile sasePhoebus, owaba nenhlanhla yokuba ngowesifazane iminyaka eyisikhombisa futhi afunde ngaphakathi izici ezihlukile zobumnandi bobulili bobubili ubulili, akekho okwazi ukwazisa amandla okuqhathanisa okuzwa ngolwazi. wecala.
Ososayensi (ngokwesibonelo, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo sase-Austrian uWilhelm Reich) sizamile ukukala ukushuba kwenjabulo, kodwa imiphumela yalezi zilinganiso incike ngokuphelele. Amadoda ayakwazi ukuthola injabulo enamandla kakhulu, futhi asikho isizathu sokucabanga ukuthi imizwa yabesifazane inamandla.