Cabanga ukuthi u-ode ikhekhe lokuzalwa kothandekayo futhi ngosuku okuvunyelwene ngalo wathola okuhluke ngokuphelele kulokho okukhokhele. Ubungenzenjani esimweni esinjalo?
Owesifazane oyiNgisi uLily Davis wanquma ukuthenga ikhekhe ngosuku lokuzalwa lukadadewabo. Wenza i-oda kumngane wakhe onesitolo esincane esithengisa amaswidi, wakhokha opondo abangu-15 (cishe ama-ruble angu-1500 XNUMX) ukuze uthole lesi sidlo. U-Lily wangicela ukuba ngibhake ikhekhe elisesimweni sengulube ephinki ekhangayo enomsila nezindlebe. Nokho, ngosuku olumisiwe, bamlethela okuthile okuhluke ngokuphelele kulokho ayekulindele.
Esikhundleni sengulube enhle ecocekile, wabona inqwaba engcolile yokhilimu namabhisikidi, futhi phezulu wathola okufana nobuso obugcwele amaswidi. Amabha amabili kashokoledi anamathiselwe ezinhlangothini futhi, ngokusobala, ayeklanyelwe ukumelela izidladla. U-Lily uthumele ividiyo ku-TikTok “nombambiqhaza emicimbini” futhi ecasukile: “Ngicele umngane ukuthi abhake ikhekhe ngosuku lokuzalwa lukadadewethu. Futhi angikwazi ukukhokha u-£15 ngalobu bubi."
Ividiyo yakhe yasheshe yazuza ukubukwa okungaphezu kwesigidi nokuthandwa okungaphezu kuka-143. Ngaphezu kwalokho, abaningi bazwakalise isimo sabo sengqondo kulukuluku lokufuna ukwazi kumazwana. Omunye wabasebenzisi benkundla yezokuxhumana wabhala: “Bengingeke ngidle ikhekhe elinjalo, ngisho noma ngilithole mahhala. Iphupho elibi nje!» Omunye wagcizelela: “Kwakuyikhekhe lothandekayo! Angiyena umkhiqizi ochwepheshile, kodwa angisoze ngivume ukunikeza ikhasimende lokhu.” Abahlanganyeli abaningi engxoxweni banquma ukuthi ikhasimende limane likhohlise umngane walo ngokumkhokhela imali encane kakhulu, futhi ekugcineni walethwa lokho okwakumfanele.
Ngeshwa, asikutholi esikufunayo ngaso sonke isikhathi. Kodwa-ke, kuyadumaza kabili ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi kufanele sikukhokhele ngemali eqinile. Futhi uma sicela umusa kumngane, kuyafaneleka ukuqiniseka ukuthi nixoxile ngawo wonke ama-nuances okubambisana, nokuthi umngane uyaqikelela ngomsebenzi awenzayo.