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“Ngabeletha ngaphandle kwe-epidural”
Ngisho nangaphambi kokuya kudokotela obulala izinzwa phakathi nenyanga yesi-8 yokukhulelwa, ngangisola ukuxilongwa... Ngemva kokungenelela kokuhlinzwa emhlane ebusheni, i-epidural ngokobuchwepheshe yayingenakwenzeka. Ngangisilungiselele lesi siphetho futhi asizange simangaliswe isimemezelo sikadokotela. Ukusabela kwami ngokuqinisekile kwakuthonywe umusa wakhe nendlela yakhe yokwethula izinto. “Uzozala njengoba kwenza omama nogogo bethu” wangitshela, kalula nje. Uphinde wangitshela ukuthi isibalo esikhulu sabesifazane sisabeletha nanamuhla ngaphandle kwe-epidural, ngokuzikhethela noma cha. Inzuzo esimweni sami kwakuwukuthi ngangazi ukuthi ngibheke kuphi futhi ngangisenesikhathi sokuzilungiselela, ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo.
Ulaliswe esibhedlela ukuze angeniswe
Ezifundweni zokulungiselela amachibi okubhukuda engangikade ngiwenza izinyanga ezimbalwa, ngengeza ukwelashwa kwe-homeopathic, izikhathi ezimbalwa zokutshopa kanye ne-osteopathy. Yonke lento kuthiwa ivuna ukubeletha. Itemu lisondela ngokusondela bese liyadluliswa, imithamo iphindwe kabili ngomzamo wokugwema ukuthi kube nokubeletha. Kodwa uBaby wenza ayekufuna futhi wayengahlanganise lutho nokukhohlisa kwe-osteopath nababelethisi! Ezinsukwini ezi-4 ngemuva kosuku olubekiwe, ngalaliswa esibhedlela ukuze ngingeniswe. Ukufakwa komthamo wokuqala wejeli endaweni bese kuba owesibili ngosuku olulandelayo … kodwa akukho ukufinyela emkhathizwe. Ekupheleni kosuku lwesibili lokulaliswa esibhedlela, izifinyezo sezifikile (ekugcineni)! Amahora ayisishiyagalombili omsebenzi onzima ngisekelwa indoda yami kanye nombelethisi owayengiphelezela esifundweni echibini. Ngaphandle kwe-epidural, ngakwazi ukuhlala ebhaluni elikhulu isikhathi eside, ngiqonde etafuleni lokudiliva ukuze ngixoshwe.
Ukubeletha ngaphandle kwe-epidural: ukuphefumula kusigqi sokufinyela
Ngakhumbula amazwi ababelethisi esizibeni ngase ngiyithatha njengento engathi shu, ngagcina ngimangazwe umphumela wokuphefumula izinhlungu. Kuwo wonke umsebenzi, ngahlala ngivale amehlo, ngizicabangela ngisechibini ngizivocavoca ngokugxilisa ingqondo. Ekugcineni, ngemva kwehora elichithwe etafuleni lokulethwa, kwazalwa uMéline, 3,990 kg no-53,5 cm. Ngemva kokuphila kwami ukubeletha ngendlela engangiphila ngayo, angizisoli ngalesi sifo. Ngicabanga ukuthi ukube bengingatshelwa namuhla ukuthi ngingazuza kukho, bengingakhetha ukungakwenzi lokho. Ngabona umbiko ngowesifazane owabeletha ngaphansi kwe-epidural futhi wakwazi ukulala noma ukuxoxela umyeni wakhe ihlaya phakathi kokufinyela okubili. Kwakungeyona into efana neqiniso lokubeletha. Yiqiniso, ukubeletha ngakunye kuhlukile futhi kutholwa owesifazane ngamunye ngendlela ehlukile. Kodwa namuhla ngingasho ukuthi angizange ngibelethe ngaphandle kwe-epidural ngokuvinjelwa kodwa ngokuzikhethela, futhi angikwazi ukulinda ukuqala futhi!
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