Okuqukethwe
"Ingxenye enzima kakhulu amehlo abanye".
UHélène noFernando, abazali bakaLisa, onezinyanga ezingu-18.
“Sineminyaka eyishumi sithandana, asiboni, indodakazi yethu ibona. Sifana nabo bonke abazali, siguqule indlela yethu yokuphila ukuze ivumelane nokufika kwengane yethu. Ukunqamula umgwaqo ngesikhathi kunesiphithiphithi nentombazane encane echichima amandla, ithenga esitolo esigcwele abantu, ukupheka, ukugeza, ukuphatha izinkinga… Siluthole ngobuhlakani lolu shintsho lwempilo, sindawonye, ebumnyameni.
Ukuphila nemizwa yakho emine
Isifo esazalwa naso sabangela ukuba singasaboni lapho sineminyaka engu-10 ubudala. Ngoba ukubona kakade kumelela okuningi. Awusoze wakwazi ukubona ngeso lengqondo ihhashi, noma uthole amagama ukuchaza imibala ngokwesibonelo, kumuntu ongakaze awubone empilweni yakhe, kuchaza uFernando, oneminyaka engamashumi amane. I-Labrador yethu ishintshana ngokusiphelezela emsebenzini. Mina, ngiphethe isu ledijithali ku-Federation of the Blind and Ammblyopes yase-France, u-Hélène ungumsebenzi waselabhulali. Uma ukufaka indodakazi yami ku-stroller kungakhulula iqolo lami, kusho u-Hélène, lokho akuyona inketho: ukubamba isilawuli ngesandla esisodwa kanye nenduku yami ye-telescopic ngesinye kungaba yingozi kakhulu.
Ukube besibonwa, ngabe sathola uLisa ngokushesha. Njengabazali, sazilungiselela ngokuhlakanipha nangefilosofi. Ngokungafani nemibhangqwana engase inqume ukuba nengane ngokuthanda kwayo, thina sasingenakukukhokhela, kuvuma uHélène. Siphinde saba nenhlanhla yokuthola ukwesekwa okusezingeni ngesikhathi ngikhulelwe. Izisebenzi zokubeletha zacabanga nathi ngempela. ” “Ngemva kwalokho, siyadlula nale nto encane ezandleni zethu … njengawo wonke umuntu!” Kuqhuba uFernando.
Uhlobo lokucindezela komphakathi
“Besingawulindele umbono omusha ngathi. Uhlobo lokucindezelwa komphakathi, olufana nokukhuliswa kwezingane, sehlele kithina, ”kusho uFernando. Ingxenye enzima kakhulu ukubuka kwabanye. Ngenkathi uLisa enamasonto ambalwa ubudala, iseluleko esiningi sase sinikezwe abantu esingabazi: “Qaphela ikhanda lomntwana, kungcono ulibambe kanje…” sezwa ekuhambeni kwethu. Kuwumuzwa oyinqaba kakhulu ukuzwa abantu ongabazi bebuza ngokungenamahloni indima yakho njengomzali. Iqiniso lokungaboni alihambisani nokungazi, kugcizelela uFernando! Futhi kimina, akukho mbuzo wokungahlonishwa, ikakhulukazi ngemva kweminyaka engama-40! Ngikhumbula ngesinye isikhathi, esitimeleni esingaphansi komhlaba, kushisa, kwakuyihora lokujaha, uLisa wayekhala, lapho ngizwa owesifazane ekhuluma ngami: “Kodwa woza, uzoyiminyanisa ingane. , kumele kwenziwe okuthile! ”esho ekhala. Ngamtshela ukuthi amazwi akhe awanandaba namuntu futhi ngiyakwazi engikwenzayo. Izimo ezibuhlungu ezibonakala ziphela ngokuhamba kwesikhathi, nokho, njengoba uLisa ehamba.
Sithembele kuma-automation asekhaya
I-Alexa noma i-Siri yenza impilo yethu ibe lula, lokho kuqinisekile. Kodwa kuthiwani ngokufinyeleleka kwabangaboni: e-France, i-10% kuphela yamawebhusayithi esifinyelelekayo, u-7% wezincwadi uguqulelwe kithi futhi kumafilimu angama-500 aphuma ezinkundleni zeshashalazi unyaka ngamunye, ayi-100 kuphela achazwa ngokulalelwayo *… Angazi noma uLisa uyazi yini ukuthi abazali bakhe abayizimpumputhe? UFernando uyazibuza. Kodwa waqonda ukuthi ukuze “abonise” okuthile kubazali bakhe, kwakumelwe akubeke ezandleni zabo!
* Ngokusho kwe-Federation of the Blind and Ammblyopes yaseFrance
Sengiphenduke i-quadriplegic. Kodwa kuLuna, ngingubaba njengabo bonke abanye!
U-Romain, ubaba kaLuna, oneminyaka engu-7 ubudala
Ngaba sengozini yokushushuluza ngo-January 2012. Umlingani wami wayenezinyanga ezimbili ekhulelwe. Sasihlala eHaute Savoie. Ngangiyisicishamlilo esikhokhelwayo futhi ngingumuntu othanda ukugijima. Ngangizilolongela i-ice hockey, i-trail running, ngaphezu kwe-bodybuilding okufanele itholwe yinoma yimuphi umcimi-mlilo. Ngesikhathi sengozi, nganginomgodi omnyama. Ekuqaleni, odokotela babesibalekela isimo sami. Kwaze kwaba yilapho ngithola i-MRI lapho ngabona khona ukuthi umgogodla wawulimele ngempela. Ngokushaqeka, intamo yami yaphuka futhi ngaba ne-quadriplegic. Kumlingani wami, kwakungelula: kwakudingeka ahambe ngemva komsebenzi wakhe esibhedlela amahora angaphezu kwamabili noma esikhungweni sokuhlunyeleliswa. Ngenhlanhla, umkhaya wethu nabangane basisiza kakhulu, kuhlanganise nokuthatha uhambo. Ngikwazile ukuya ku-ultrasound yokuqala. Bengiqala ngqa ukuthi ngikwazi ukuhlala ngihlezi kancane ngingaweli ebumnyameni. Ngakhala ngokomzwelo kulo lonke uvivinyo. Ukuze ngihlushwe, ngazibekela umgomo wokubuya ngesikhathi ukuze nginakekele indodakazi yami ngemva kokubeletha. Ngiphumelele… phakathi namasonto amathathu!
“Ngibheka izinto eziseceleni elikhanyayo”
Ngikwazile ukuhambela ukulethwa. Ithimba lisenze sanwebeka isikhathi eside esikhumbeni sesikhumba endaweni e-semi-recumbent ngokuphakamisa uLuna ngomcamelo. Kungenye yezinkumbulo zami ezijabulisa kakhulu! Ekhaya, kwakunzima kancane: ngangingakwazi ukumshintsha, noma ukumgeza ... Kodwa ngahamba nosizo lwasekhaya kumzanyana lapho ngahlala kusofa isikhathi esimnandi nendodakazi yami kwaze kwaba yilapho umama ebuya kusihlwa. . Kancane kancane, ngathola ukuzimela: indodakazi yami yayazi okuthile, ngoba ayizange inyakaze nhlobo lapho ngiyishintsha, ngisho noma ingahlala imizuzu engu-15! Ngabe sengithola imoto efanelekile. Ngaqhubeka nomsebenzi wami emabhalekisini eminyakeni emibili ngemva kwengozi, ngemva kwedeski. Lapho indodakazi yethu ineminyaka emi-3, sahlukana nomama wayo, kodwa sahlala sizwana. Wabuyela eTouraine lapho sisuka khona, nami ngathutha ukuze ngiqhubeke nokukhulisa uLuna futhi sakhetha ukugcinwa ngokuhlanganyela. ULuna ubengazi ngokukhubazeka kuphela. Kuyena, ngingubaba njengabo bonke abanye! Ngiqhubeka nezinselele zemidlalo, njengoba kuboniswa i-akhawunti yami ye-IG *. Ngezinye izikhathi uyamangala indlela abantu ababukeka ngayo emgwaqweni, ngisho noma behlale benomusa! Ukubamba iqhaza kwethu kubaluleke kakhulu. Nsuku zonke, ngincamela ukubheka izinto ngasohlangothini olukhanyayo: kunenqwaba yemisebenzi engingayijwayela ukuze ngiyenze naye. Isikhathi sakhe asithandayo? Ngezimpelasonto, unelungelo lokubuka ikhathuni ende: sobabili sihlala kusofa ukuze siyibuke! ”
* https://www.instagram.com/roro_le_costaud/? hl = fr
“Kudingeke ukuthi silungise zonke izinto zokunakekela izingane. “
U-Olivia, oneminyaka engu-30, izingane ezimbili, u-Édouard, oneminyaka emi-2, noLouise, onezinyanga ezintathu.
Lapho ngineminyaka engu-18, ngobusuku bango-December 31, ngathola ingozi: Ngagingqika kuvulandi esitezi sokuqala sendlu yezivakashi eHaute-Savoie. Ukuwa kwaphuka umgogodla wami. Ezinsukwini ezimbalwa ngemva kokwelashwa kwami esibhedlela eGeneva, ngathola ukuthi ngangikhubazekile nokuthi ngangingeke ngiphinde ngihambe. Nokho, umhlaba wami awuzange ugoqe, ngoba ngokushesha ngazibonakalisa esikhathini esizayo: ngangizobhekana kanjani nezinselele ezazingilindile? Ngalowo nyaka, ngaphezu kokuhlunyeleliswa kwami, ngathatha izifundo zami zonyaka wokugcina futhi ngaphasa ilayisensi yami yokushayela ngemoto eshintshile. Ngo-June, ngathola i-baccalaureate yami futhi nganquma ukuqhubeka nezifundo zami e-Ile-de-France, lapho udadewethu, owayeneminyaka eyishumi nantathu ubudala, ayezinze khona. Kwakusesikoleni sezomthetho lapho ngahlangana khona nozakwethu esengihlale naye iminyaka eyishumi nambili.
Ekuseni kakhulu, omdala wami wakwazi ukusukuma
Sanquma ukuba nengane yokuqala lapho imisebenzi yethu emibili isizinzile. Inhlanhla yami wukuthi ngilandelwe zisuka isikhungo iMontsouris, esigxile ekwesekeni abantu abaphila nokukhubazeka. Kwabanye besifazane, akulula kangako! Abanye omama bangithinte kubhulogi yami ukuze bangitshele ukuthi ngeke bazuze ekulandeleni izifo zabesifazane noma benze i-ultrasound ngenxa yokuthi udokotela wabo wezifo zabesifazane akanalo itafula lokwehlisa! Ngo-2020, kuzwakala kusangene! Kwakudingeka sithole izinto zokunakekela izingane ezifanele: ngombhede, senze imodeli ephakanyisiwe eyenziwe ngokwezifiso ngomnyango oshelelayo! Kokunye, sikwazile ukuthola amatafula ashintshayo kanye nobhavu wokugeza ozimele lapho ngingahamba khona nesihlalo sokugeza ngiyogeza ngedwa. Ekuqaleni, ingane yami endala yakwazi ukusukuma ukuze ngiyibambe kalula noma ngihlale yodwa esihlalweni sayo semoto. Kodwa njengoba wayengumfowethu omkhulu futhi wangena "okubili okubi", uziphatha njengazo zonke izingane. Uyakwazi ukwenza i-mop uma ngingedwa naye kanye nodadewabo omncane ukuze ngingakwazi ukumbamba. Ukubukeka emgwaqeni kunomusa. Angikhumbuli amazwi angajabulisi, ngisho nalapho ngihamba “nomkhulu” wami nomncane emshinini othwala izingane.
Into enzima kakhulu ukuphila nayo: ukungaphucuki!
Ngakolunye uhlangothi, ukungaphucuki kwabanye kunzima ukuphila nakho nsuku zonke. Njalo ekuseni kufanele ngihambe imizuzu engu-25 ngaphambi kwesikhathi ukuze ngiye enkulisa eqhele ngemoto imizuzu engu-6 kuphela. Ngoba abazali abehlisa ingane yabo baya esihlalweni esikhubazekile “imizuzu emibili nje”. Nokho, le ndawo ayiseduze nje kuphela, kodwa futhi ibanzi. Uma ematasa, angikwazi ukuya kwenye indawo, ngoba ngeke ngibe nendawo yokuphuma, noma isihlalo sami esinamasondo, nezingane zami. Ubalulekile kimina futhi kufanele ngiphuthume emsebenzini njengabo! Naphezu kokukhubazeka kwami, angivimbeli lutho. NgoLwesihlanu, ngingedwa nalaba ababili futhi ngibayisa emtatsheni wezincwadi wabezindaba. Ngezimpelasonto, sihamba nomndeni sigibele ibhayisikili. Nginebhayisikili elijayelekileko kanti elikhulu lisebhayisikilini lakhe elibhalansi. Kuhle ! “