«Inkinga yeminyaka ephakathi - isihloko esingenakuthakazelisa, - isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo esikhona uSvetlana Krivtsova siqinisekile. — Abaningi bethu abaneminyaka engu-30-45 baqala inkathi enzima yokungezwani nempilo kanye nathi. Indida: esiqongweni sokuqina, sizithola sisesimweni lapho singafuni khona ukuphila njengakuqala, kodwa ngendlela entsha akusasebenzi noma akukho ukucaca ngale mpilo entsha. Engikufunayo nokuthi ngingubani ngempela imibuzo esemqoka yenkinga. Omunye uyangabaza ukuthi kuwufanele yini ukuqhubeka nomsebenzi otholwayo. Kungani? Ngoba "akusiyona eyami." Sasivame ukukhuthazwa yimisebenzi eyinselele, kodwa manje sibona kungazelelwe ukuthi akufanele senze konke esingakwenza. Futhi ukuthi inselele enkulu ukuthola indlela yakho kanye nosayizi wakho. Futhi lokhu kudinga ukunqunywa.
U-Elena Sapogova, uDokotela we-Psychology, ubhala ukuthi inqubo yokukhula ihlotshaniswa nokuhlupheka, ngomunyu wokulahlekelwa imibono, kudinga isibindi. Mhlawumbe yingakho namuhla bebaningi kangaka asebekhulile, kodwa abangakavuthwa? Lezi zikhathi azidingi ukuthi sibe abantu abadala, kuphela ukuze siphile impilo enengqondo futhi enomthwalo wemfanelo. Namuhla, ngaphandle kwezinhlawulo ezivela emphakathini, awukwazi ukusebenza, ungabi nesibopho kunoma ubani, ungazitshali imali kunoma yini, futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uhlele kahle empilweni..
Kubaluleke ngani ukuvuthwa komuntu siqu? Futhi ungafika kanjani kulokho kanye ubudala obuzokuvumela ukuba uphile ngokunenjongo? Incwadi isondela kulezi zihloko kancane kancane. Okokuqala, ulwazi olulula kodwa oluthakazelisayo mayelana nokukhula kanye nemibandela yokuvuthwa komfundi, okungenzeka ukuthi akazange acabange ukuthi izinguquko ezenzeka emphefumulweni wakhe zinencazelo yesayensi. Ekugcineni - elicwengekile futhi elicwengekile «izibiliboco» for gourmets of self-reflection. Ukucabangisisa okuhlakaniphile kukaMerab Mamardashvili no-Alexander Pyatigorsky mayelana nokuthi kuyini ukuzinakekela kweqiniso. Futhi iqoqo le-motley lezindaba zamakhasimende zangempela. Insimu yabantu abadala iqondiswe kubafundi abahlukahlukene. Futhi kochwepheshe, ngingancoma i-monograph enamandla yombhali ofanayo, I-Existential Psychology of Adulthood (Sense, 2013).
Svetlana Krivtsova, umqondisi we-International Institute for Existential Counseling and Training (MIEKT), psychoanalyst, umbhali wezincwadi, omunye wabo — «Indlela yokuthola ukuzwana nawe kanye nezwe» (Genesise, 2004).
Genesise, 320 p., 434 ruble.