Umoya weqembu: ungawufaka kanjani enganeni yakho

Mfundo: awuphile umoya weqembu!

Isizukulwane esithi “mina kuqala” sinenkinga yokucabangela abanye! Kodwa-ke, uzwela, ukubambisana, ukwabelana, ubudlelwano, okungafundwa, ngenxa yemidlalo yeqembu nemidlalo yebhodi. Iseluleko sethu sokuthi ingane yakho idlale ngokuhlanganyela kunokudlala yona uqobo. 

Ungabhejeli yonke into ekuthuthukisweni kwakho

Uyayithanda ingane yakho futhi ufuna ukuthi igcwaliseke, iveze ubuntu bayo, iveze ubuhlakani bayo, ihloniphe amandla ayo futhi izizwe kahle ngabo. Ufuna futhi ukuthi aphumelele empilweni yakhe, abe umlwi, umholi, futhi umnikeze imisebenzi ehlukahlukene ukuthuthukisa ukusebenza namakhono akhe. Kuhle kuye! Kodwa njengoba uDiane Drory *, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, egcizelela: “Ukuthuthuka komuntu siqu akwanele, ngoba umuntu uyisidalwa senhlalo esichumayo lapho ehlangana nabanye futhi akayena yedwa ekhoneni lakhe. Ukuze ingane ijabule, idinga ukuba nabangane, ibe yingxenye yamaqembu, ihlanganyele izindinganiso, ifunde ukusizana, ibambisane. “

Mkhuthaze ukuthi adlale nabanye

Qiniseka ukuthi ingane yakho inamathuba amaningi okuzijabulisa nabanye. Mema abangani endlini ngokukhawulela inani lezivakashi ngokulingana neminyaka yengane yakho: iminyaka emi-2/abangane abangu-2, abaneminyaka emi-3/abangane abangu-3, ​​abaneminyaka emi-4/abangane abangu-4, ukuze akwazi ukuphatha. Myise epaki, ezinkundleni zokudlala. Mkhuthaze ukuthi enze abangani olwandle, esigcawini, echibini. Myeke azibambele mathupha uma ingane idlula kuye ukuze igibele ku-slide noma ibambe ibhola layo. Ungandizeli ngendlela ehlelekile ukuze umsize “Mcebo ompofu! Woza uzobona umama! Akamuhle lomfana, wakuphusha! Yeka intombazanyana embi, yathatha ifosholo lakho nebhakede lakho! Uma umbeka njengesisulu, ugxilisa kuye umuzwa wokuthi abanye bayingozi, ukuthi abamfuni kahle. Umthumelela umyalezo wokuthi akukho okuhle okuzomehlela futhi uzophepha kuphela nawe ekhaya.

Nikeza imidlalo eminingi yebhodi

Impi, i-loousy, umdlalo wemindeni eyisikhombisa, i-Uno, inkumbulo, i-mikado ... Ngemidlalo yebhodi, ingane yakho izothola izisekelo zokuphila emphakathini ngaphandle kokuthi uyifundise. imfundo yomphakathi. Uzofunda ukuhlonipha imithetho yomdlalo, okufanayo kuwo wonke umuntu, ukuvumela abalingani badlale futhi alinde ngesineke ithuba lakhe. Ngaphezu kokubekezela, uzofunda nokulawula imizwa yakhe, angasuki lapho ihhashi lakhe elincane selibuyela esitebeleni okwesine, futhi angawuyeki umdlalo phakathi nomdlalo ngenxa yokuthi awukwenzi lokho. angikwazi ukwenza isithupha! Izingane zidlalela ukunqoba, lokhu kuvamile, umoya wokuncintisana uyashukumisa futhi ulungile, inqobo nje uma bengazami ngokuhlelekile ukuchoboza abanye, noma ukukopela ukufeza lokhu.

Mfundise indlela yokulahlekelwa

Ingane engakwazi ukubekezelela ukulahlekelwa ingane ezizwa ibophekile ukuba iphelele emehlweni abanye, futhi ikakhulukazi abazali bayo.. Uma ehluliwe, yingoba akaphelele ngokwanele! Uzifaka ingcindezi enkulu futhi agcine enqabile ukubhekana nabanye ukuze angazifaki engozini yokudumazeka. Uma ubhekene nomuntu ohluliwe kabi, ungalenzi iphutha lokumyeka awine ngendlela ehlelekile ukuze ugweme noma yikuphi ukukhungatheka.. Kunalokho, makabhekane namaqiniso. Ufunda futhi ngokulahlekelwa, futhi lokho kunikeza ukunambitheka empumelelweni. Mkhumbuze ukuthi empilweni kwesinye isikhathi siyawina, kwesinye isikhathi siyahlulwa, kwesinye isikhathi siyaphumelela. Mduduze ngokumtshela ukuthi ngokuzayo uma engase akwazi ukunqoba umdlalo, akusafani njalo nowinile.

Mcele ukuba ahlanganyele ekuphileni komkhaya

Ukuhlanganyela emisebenzini yasekhaya yomkhaya, ukulungisa itafula, ukuphakela, ukubhaka ikhekhe elizotholwa yibo bonke abantu, nakho kuyizindlela eziphumelelayo zokwenza ingane encane ibe nomuzwa wokuthi iyingxenye ebalulekile yomphakathi. Ukuzizwa uwusizo, ukuba nendima eqenjini njengabantu abadala kuyazuzisa futhi kuyanelisa.

Ungathathi hlangothi lapho uxabana nezingane zakini

Uma ungenelela odabeni oluncane lwezelamani, uma ufuna ukwazi ukuthi luqalwe ngubani, ubani onecala, uphindaphinda kabili noma kathathu inani lezingxabano ezingase zibe khona. Ngempela, ingane ngayinye izofuna ukubona ukuthi ubani ozovikela umzali ngendlela ehlelekile, futhi lokhu kudala ubutha phakathi kwayo. Ziqhelelanise (inqobo nje uma zingaphumeleli, yebo), vele uveze ukuthi, “Ubanga umsindo omkhulu, misa izingane!” »Bazobe sebezwa ubumbano komunye nomunye, ukucabangela iqembu lezingane sezizonke kuzodala isibopho phakathi kwazo, futhi zizokwenza umfelandawonye ngokumelene nomzali. Kuyimpilo ukuthi izingane zenze izinto ezincane ezingenangqondo ndawonye futhi zihlangane ngokumelene negunya labazali, kuwukungqubuzana okuvamile kwezizukulwane.

Hlela imidlalo yeqembu

Yonke imidlalo yeqembu, imidlalo yeqembu, ingamathuba aphelele okufunda ukusebenzisana, ukuthola ukuthi sincike komunye nomunye, ukuthi sidinga abanye ukuze bawine, ukuthi kukhona amandla ebunyeni. Ungangabazi ukunikeza imidlalo yakho yebhola encane, imidlalo yebhola lezinyawo, i-rugby, imidlalo yebhola leziboshwa noma imidlalo yokucasha, ukuzingela amagugu, imidlalo yama-croquet noma ama-boules. Qinisekisa ukuthi wonke umuntu useqenjini, khumbula ukwazisa labo abangakaze bakhethwe, ukulinganisa amandla ahilelekile. Misa okuhle kakhulu ekuhlanganeni ukuze uwine. Siza izingane ziqonde ukuthi inhloso yomdlalo ukuzijabulisa ndawonye. Futhi uma siwina, lokho kuhlanganisa, kodwa lokho akuwona umgomo!

Msize ajwayelane neqembu, hhayi ngenye indlela

Namuhla, umntwana usesikhungweni sokubuka kwabazali, enkabeni yomndeni, unokuhlangenwe nakho okuyingqayizivele. Ngokuphazima kweso, akuseyena osekufanele ajwayelane nomphakathi, kodwa umphakathi okufanele uvumelane naye. Isikole sisezingeni eliphezulu njengendawo engaphandle lapho ingane ingomunye phakathi kwezinye. Kusekilasini lapho efunda khona ukuba yingxenye yeqembu, futhi umzali ngamunye angathanda ukuthi isikole, uthisha, ezinye izingane zizivumelanise nezinto ezifunwa ingane yabo. Njengoba izingane zihlukene, akunakwenzeka! Uma ugxeka isikole, uma ujwayele ukusola uhlelo lwezemfundo nothisha abaphambi kwaso, ingane yakho izozwa ukuthi kunomfelandawonye womzali/ingane ngokumelene nohlelo lwesikole, futhi izolahlekelwa yileli thuba eliyingqayizivele. ukuzizwa ejwayeleke futhi ehlanganiswe neqembu lezingane ekilasini lakhe.

Mjwayeze nombono wenhlanhla

Ukubhekana nengane yakho ngokuba khona kwenhlanhla kubalulekile. Ngeke akwazi njalo ukudonsa amakhadi afanele emdlalweni wemindeni eyisikhombisa, akasoze enze ayisithupha uma uwabophele! Mchazele ukuthi akumele azizwe encipha, akumele enze idrama ngayo, hhayi ngoba kuncono omunye efika khona, cha, yithuba nje futhi ithuba kwesinye isikhathi alilungile. , njengempilo! Ngenxa yomdlalo webhodi, ingane yakho izofunda ukuthi ukuzethemba kwakhe akuxhomekile edayisi aliphonsayo noma ukusebenza kwakhe, ukulahlekelwa noma ukuwina akunamiphumela kuye ngokwakhe. Asilahlekelwanga okuthile ngobukhona bethu lapho silahlekelwa! I-Ditto endaweni yokudlela, kungase kube namafrimu amaningi noma i-steak enkulu epuleti lomfowabo. Akuqondiswe kuye, kuyinhlanhla. Uzomsiza ukuthi ahlanganise ukwehluleka kwakhe okungenzeka uma kuqhathaniswa nabanye ngokumethula nomaphi.

Bhekana naye ngokungalungi

Abazali abaningi balwela ukuba abalungile ngokuphelele ezinganeni zabo. Kwabanye, lize liphenduke inkanuko! Baqinisekisa ukuthi basika ucezu olufanayo lwekhekhe kuwo wonke umuntu, ukuya kumamilimitha aseduze, babale amafrimu, ngisho nophizi! Kungazelelwe, ingane icabanga ukuthi lapho nje kuba nokungabi nabulungisa, kukhona ukulimala kumuntu. Kodwa ngezinye izikhathi impilo ayinabo ubulungiswa, kunjalo, ngezinye izikhathi uba nokuningi, ngezinye izikhathi uba nokuncane, kufanele aphile nakho. I-Ditto ngemidlalo yeqembu, imithetho iyafana kuwo wonke umuntu, silingana kodwa umphumela uhlukile kuwo wonke umuntu.. Kodwa bonisa ingane yakho ukuthi lapho udlala kakhulu, amathuba amaningi okuwina!