Okuqukethwe
Isikhathi, umqondo onzima ukuwuthola
Ingane ithola umqondo wendawo ngokuthi iyanyakaza… futhi ngaleyo ndlela imibono yayo iyilungiselela ukuvuma ukuthi umhlaba uyaqhubeka ngemuva kwengilazi. Kodwa umqondo wesikhathi awukwazi ukuqondwa ngokuyikho, ngakho-ke kuthatha isikhathi eside ukwakha. Ngoba umntwana ocathulayo uguqukela emhlabeni oseduze, “wayo yonke into, ngokushesha”, ochungechungeni lwamatafula axhumene nezenzo, njengokugeza, ukudla ... Ineminyaka engaba ngu-5 kuphela ubudala lapho izoqala khona. ukuqonda umqondo wesikhathi esidlulayo ngaphandle kwaso. Kodwa kule ndaba, ngaphezu kwanoma iyiphi enye, kumelwe sivume umehluko omkhulu phakathi kwengane eyodwa kuya kwenye.
Izigaba zokuqonda isikhathi
Ingane iqala ngokuthatha izimpawu zendawo emini; bese kuba ngeviki, bese kuba onyakeni (cishe iminyaka emi-4). Ube esefunda amagama ezinsuku, izinyanga, nezinkathi zonyaka. Bese kuza ukujwayelana nekhalenda, cishe iminyaka engu-5-6 ubudala. Bese kuba isisho sesikhathi, namagama ahambisana naso (“ngaphambili, kusasa”). Okokugcina, lapho eneminyaka engaba neminyaka engu-7 ubudala, ingane ingacelwa ukuba ithuthukise futhi isingathe idokhumenti engabonakali njengekhalenda noma uhlelo lwezikhathi. Kodwa akuvamile ukuthi eminyakeni engu-6 ingane ikwazi ukusebenzisa ikhalenda, kanti enye ngeke ikwazi ukuphinda izinsuku zesonto ngokulandelana.
Isimo sezulu…
Isimo sezulu siyindlela yokuqala yezinzwa ingane ecathulayo ebhekana nayo maqondana nombono wesikhathi: “Izulu liyana, ngakho ngigqoka amabhuzu ami, futhi lokho kujwayelekile ngoba liyana. 'kusebusika'. Kodwa-ke, eminyakeni emi-5, izingane eziningi zisenobunzima bokuhlanganisa izinkathi zonyaka. Amaphuzu athile okubhekisela kuwo angabasiza: ikwindla inkathi yokubuyela esikoleni, ama-apula, amakhowe, amagilebhisi… Akukho lutho oluvimbela ukunikeza itafula elincane kulokho okutholwe yisizini, isitayela se-scrapbooking: zibuthe amaqabunga afile, veza uhlaka lwawo, dweba amakhowa, namathisela isithombe sengane egqoke ngokufudumele, iresiphi yamakhekhe, bese uvuselela itafula ekushintsheni ngakunye kwesizini. Ngakho-ke ingane yakha umbono wemijikelezo.
Kuhamba isikhathi...
Lo mbono unzima kakhulu ukuwuthuthukisa. Ngakho-ke kufanele sithembele kokuhlangenwe nakho: “Namuhla ekuseni, lapho siya esikoleni, kwakusemnyama”, kuyindlela enhle yokubona ukuthi izinsuku ziba mfishane ebusika. “Kulesi sithombe, ugogo wakho, lapho eseyingane” ukuqaphela okuhle kakhulu kokuhamba kwesikhathi. Singathembela futhi etafuleni esibeka kulo, nsuku zonke, uphawu lwesimo sezulu (okuholela ekwakhekeni kokuthi izolo isimo sezulu besisihle, nokuthi namuhla liyana). Kukhona okuhle emakethe, ngendwangu, empeleni ethatha umsebenzi owaziwayo ongokwesiko kusukela enkulisa: qaphela ukuthi ungaguquleli lo msebenzi omncane ekubuyekezeni lokho ingane okufanele ifunde esikweni lakhe lekilasi. … Ngakolunye uhlangothi, singalakha ngokuphephile ikhalenda le-Advent, njengoba isikole sezwe siyaqikelela ukuthi asigcizeleli edilini likaKhisimusi ngendlela yaso yeBhayibheli (okungukuzalwa kukaJesu).
Funda ukusho isikhathi
Ungayicindezeli ingane yakho. Yonke le mishini yokufundisa yakhelwe esikhathini eside; kufanele wamukele ukuthi ingane ayiqondi bese idedelwa ngokuzumayo: ngo-CE1, kukhona abafunda isikhathi ngokushelelayo… nalabo abangakwazi ukukwenza maphakathi ne-CE2. Kodwa akukho lutho oluvimbela ukunikeza usizo oluncane ngewashi eligqamisa umehluko phakathi kwezandla (okungcono kakhulu ukuba nemibala emibili, ngoba umqondo wokuthi "oncane" futhi "ongaphansi" ngezinye izikhathi nawo uyaqhubeka nokwakhiwa) futhi ongacacile mayelana nezindawo amadijithi. Kungase futhi kube ithuba lokukhipha iwashi elihle le-cuckoo elidala, elinesithakazelo esingenakulinganiswa sokwenza ukhonkolo uphathe isikhathi esidlulayo, ngokubonisa ukuthi izisindo zimelela amahora adlule. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, gwema ukumnikeza iwashi ledijithali…
Lungiselela umzuzu onzima wokuphila
Izingane ezisacathula zihlala esikhathini esiseduze: asikho isidingo sokuzixwayisa kusasele izinsuku zesigameko esicindezelayo. Uma kwenzeka umcimbi, ukunikeza ingane ngamathuluzi okulinganisa ubude bayo kuzonciphisa ubuhlungu. Izinduku ezikodwe ezindongeni zesitokisi seziboshwa zidlala indima efanayo! Ngakho-ke singatshala ekhalendeni lodonga, futhi sidwebe izimpawu zokugqama konyaka: izinsuku zokuzalwa, amaholide, uKhisimusi, i-Mardi-Gras. Bese udweba uphawu lokuhamba nokubuya komuntu omdala ongekho, bese kuba nezinsuku ezimakiwe futhi zibalwe (kusukela eminyakeni engu-4-5 ubudala). Noma unikeze x ubuhlalu obukhulu bokhuni, obuhambisana nezinsuku ezingu-x zokungabikho okuhleliwe, futhi uthi enganeni: "Nsuku zonke sizofaka ubuhlalu futhi lapho umgexo usuphelile, ubaba uzobuya" (kusukela eminyakeni engu-2-3 ubudala) . ). Ngakolunye uhlangothi, uma ukungabikho kwenzelwa ukuba kuthathe isikhathi esingaphezu kwamasonto ambalwa, kungenzeka ukuthi omncane ngeke akwazi ukukucabanga, futhi lawa macebiso angase ahambisane nalokhu kuntuleka kokuvuthwa.