Amagama amakhulu: amasu okudlala
Komncane, ungadlala ikhadi lamahlaya. Esikhundleni sokuthuka inhlamba, kufanele babize amagama ezithelo noma emifino. Eqinisweni, lokhu kunikeza "isanqante egayiwe noma itheniphu ebolile".
Ingozi encane: ukuthi izingane ezisacathula zibambeka emdlalweni futhi zisho njalo. Okunye okuhlukile: sishintsha amagama anenhlamba sibe nemisindo noma amagama aqanjiwe njengokuthi “frumch, scrogneugneu…”, vumela umcabango wakho ugijime. Uma kungenjalo, okujwayelekile kakhulu, "umtshingo, damn, igama lombhobho" kusebenza ngendlela efanayo.
Ungakwazi futhi ukusetha "ibhokisi lenhlamba". Ingane izokwazi ukushibilika emdwebeni azowenza lapho elingeka ukuthi asho igama elibi. Kulo mdwebo, uzoveza lokho akuzwayo.
Ezinganeni ezindala, zingavele zibhale igama noma imigqa embalwa ukuchaza intukuthelo yazo, ukucasuka kwazo. Njalo nje, cabanga ukuthulula ibhokisi bese uxoxa ngalo nenzalo yakho.
Okunye okungenzeka kwabahlubuka kakhulu: dala itafula elincane uma ingane yakho ikhuluma inhlamba njalo. Hlukanisa ithebula libe ngamakholomu. Bamele izinsuku zesonto. Bese uhlukanisa izikwele ezintathu ngosuku. Zimele izikhathi zosuku: ekuseni, ntambama nakusihlwa. Esikhathini ngasinye lapho ingane ingasho amagama amabi, namathisela inkanyezi. Mncome njalo uma ethola eyodwa futhi umthokozise. Uma inhlamba isingasekho esigamekweni sakhe futhi ngeke usalisebenzisa ibhodi, cabanga ngokumncoma njalo ngokuziphatha kwakhe.
Amazwi amakhulu: yini elandelayo?
Ngokuvamile, lapho umntwana ekhula, amazwi enhlamba ayancipha. Uthuthukisa ulwazi lwakhe lwamagama futhi afunde ukuluhlaziya. Uma inkinga iqhubeka, khetha isikhathi lapho ingane iziphatha kahle futhi uyichazele ukuthi ukhathazekile ngokuziphatha kwayo nokuthi ukuthola kungamukeleki ukusebenzisa inhlamba.
Ungakhohlwa ukunika amandla obhuti abakhulu noma osisi abakhulu. Zazise, zicele ukuthi zinake isilulumagama sazo. Bangabadala, abakhulu kunabo bonke. Ngakho-ke kumelwe babe “isibonelo esihle” kwabancane (abancane).
“Ekugcineni, xoxani nothisha wakho ngale nkinga. Ingakukhanyisela ngokuziphatha kwezingane zakho esikoleni ”kweluleka u-Elise Macut. Lesi simo sengqondo ngezinye izikhathi singabonisa ezinye izinkinga. Ukuphendukela kuchwepheshe wezempilo, njengodokotela wengqondo yezingane, kungaba enye indlela, uma kungekho ukuthuthukiswa kolimi okwenzekile naphezu kwezingxoxo ”ephetha.
Ungathuki, lezi yizimo ezibucayi kuphela. Ezikhathini eziningi, inhlamba ishintsha amagama amahle ngokuqapha nokubekezela okuncane!