Imigubho kaKhisimusi neyokuphela konyaka isiyasondela kanti futhi ingxenye yabo yokuhlangana kwemindeni, ukushintshana ngezipho, ukudla okwandisiwe kwasemini… Singabasiza kanjani abantu abadala ukuba baphile lezi zikhathi ezibucayi? Ungabafinyelela kanjani kuzidingo zabo? 

Nikeza izipho ezinengqondo 

Lapho sicabanga ngokunikela ngabadala bethu okuthile, kwesinye isikhathi kuba nzima ukukhetha isipho esifanelekile ngoba, kaningi, sebenazo izinto eziningi. Ijezi, isikhafu, amagilavu, isikhwama semali, sekuvele kubonakala… Ukugxuma ngeParachute noma izimpelasonto ezingajwayelekile ngeshwa akusafaneleki! Ngakho-ke sacabanga ngesipho esinengqondo futhi esihlala isikhathi eside. Kuthiwani uma sizibophezele kulo nyaka, wonke umndeni, ekuthumeleni izindaba ezivela kithi ngamunye masonto onke? Ngenxa yezithombe ezitholwa njalo, ugogo wakho ovame ukuzizwa eyedwa uzokulandela ngokwengeziwe. Lo ngumqondo othuthukiswe ikakhulukazi yinkampani iPicintouch. Thatha uhambo lwesiza sabo ukuthola okuningi. 

Esinye isipho esizojabulisa umkhulu wakho: ukuvakashelwa! Ekhalendeni elihle, izingane nabazukulu, uma sebekhule ngokwanele, khetha ngosuku oluthile bese ubhalisela ukuvakashelwa. Futhi ngalolo suku siyazikhandla ukuze usuku noma amahora ambalwa abiwe ajabule futhi akhumbuleke. UMartin uzibophezela ngoMashi 5, u-Adèle ukhetha uMeyi 18, uLily ukhetha uSepthemba 7, njll. Ugogo uyazi ngakho futhi isonto lakhe libukeka lifushane ngoba uyazi ukuthi impelasonto iyeza maduze! Yini engaba ngcono kunesipho esihlala unyaka wonke! 

Qaphela ukuphithizela phakathi kwamaholide

Ngubani othi ukuhlangana komndeni futhi uthi umsindo, ukuyaluza, ukudla okuhlala isikhathi eside, izingxoxo ezimnandi, iziphuzo ezinamanzi ... Ngeshwa, yonke into ayifanele ngaso sonke isikhathi umuntu osekhulile ongakujwayele ukuhamba kakhulu empilweni yakhe yansuku zonke. Yebo, uzokujabulela ukuba nabancane ezingalweni zakhe ngenkathi elalele abantu abadala bemxoxela izindaba zabo zesikole ezihlanyayo, kodwa kungekudala kakhulu umkhulu noma ugogo bazozizwa bekhathele.

Ngakho-ke, uma sikwazi, sidonsela isihlalo esihlalweni esinokuthula, sikhulume ekomidini elincane, futhi kungani kungenjalo, singavuma ukuthi umuntu ohlala eduze kwakhe etafuleni uthanda izingxoxo ezimbili. Futhi qaphela ukuthi uma ugogo wakho eyisithulu, izingxoxo ezinomsindo ngokushesha ziphenduka iphupho elibi kanye ne-cacophony.

Sekela ukubuya nsuku zonke

Uma ugogo noma ugogo wakho ehlala yedwa, engumfelokazi noma ehlala ekhaya lomhlalaphansi, izinsuku zokugubha zingaba buhlungu kakhulu. Isizungu kunzima ukusamukela ngemuva kokugeza komndeni okunjalo futhi abadala bethu, njenganoma ngubani, bangathinteka ngenxa yokushaywa yiblues - noma isiqephu sokucindezeleka. 

Uma ungahlali kude nalapho bahlala khona, gcina ukuvakasha njalo noma ushayele izingcingo ukuthatha nokunikeza izindaba: “ ULucas udlala kakhulu ngesitimela osinikezile, ngizokudlulisela kuwe, uzokutshela ngosuku lwakhe… " Kulula kakhulu, kepha lapho impilo yansuku zonke ibuyisa amalungelo ayo, kunzima ukucabanga ngakho. Futhi… Kubaluleke kakhulu ukunakekela izibopho zezizukulwane ngezizwe njengomndeni. Futhi uma sithi kithi ukuthi ngeke kube okuphakade, kunika umfutho omkhulu wokugqugquzela!

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