Yeka ukuthi ngezinye izikhathi ngifuna ukuthenga ingubo ebomvu noma i-T-shirt enephethini elikhanyayo! Kepha bese ucabanga: kuthiwani uma kuzenzisa kakhulu? Bazothini abantu? Akusona isitayela sami lesi… Futhi futhi ukhipha isudi empunga engacacile ekhabetheni… Kungani lokhu kwenzeka nokuthi ungakunqoba kanjani ukungabaza? Kusho i-stylist u-Inna Belova.
Inani elikhulu lamakhasimende liza kimi, futhi ngiyazi ngokuqinisekile ukuthi abaningi babo, lapho bethenga bebodwa, besaba ukuthenga izingubo ezinemibala ekhanyayo, bakhetha i-gray shades evamile nemnyama. Ngaphezu kwalokho, izinga lomcebo akuthinti lokho abakuthandayo.
Kungani kwenzeka? Yini engenziwa ngakho?
Indaba kaNatalia
UNatalia wangihlangabeza egqoke i-tracksuit emnyama namateku amhlophe. Izingubo zezemidlalo kanye ne-oversize entombazaneni ibonakala ikhululekile futhi ilula, kodwa ngokucacile ayizange ingeze ubufazi.
Ngaqonda ukuthi kungani uNatalia ephatha ikhabethe lakhe ngale ndlela lapho exoxa indaba yakhe. Uvela eKrasnodon esifundeni saseLuhansk. Wakhulela emndenini ophelele, wafunda esikoleni waze wafika ebangeni lesishiyagalolunye, wabe eseya ekolishi. Ngemva kokufunda, wabamba itoho esitolo sezipho ukuze abe nemali yakhe.
Lapho ngineminyaka engu-16, Heroine wahlangana nomyeni wakhe wesikhathi esizayo. Ngemva kokuphothula ekolishi, wangena eSikoleni lapho engekho, washada futhi wathola umsebenzi enkampanini ehlonishwayo yezimayini zamalahle ngaleso sikhathi.
Lapho eneminyaka engu-22, ngemva kokuzalwa kwengane, waqala ukuthengisa izinto ezinkundleni zokuxhumana. Lapho eneminyaka engu-25 wabuyela emsebenzini, futhi entwasahlobo efanayo ... impi yaqala.
Izingubo, amabhulawuzi kanye nama-stiletto kwathathelwa indawo imifaniswano yomsebenzi
Wathuthela nomndeni wakhe eDnepropetrovsk, kodwa kwadingeka abuye ngemva kwezinyanga ezintathu ngenxa yokuntuleka kwemali. Idolobha lasekhaya lalingenalutho futhi liyesabeka. Amaholo anqanyuliwe, abazali bayeka ukukhokha impesheni.
Kwadingeka ngiyeke umsebenzi wami engangiwuthanda. Umyeni waqala ukuya eMoscow ukuze asebenze ngokushintshana. Kamuva, uNatalia wahlanganyela naye. Babekhokha ama-ruble angu-1000 XNUMX ngosuku, futhi umsebenzi wawunzima kakhulu.
Ngo-2017, uNataliya nomyeni wakhe bathola ubuzwe baseRussia futhi bathuthela ePodolsk. Lapha bathola umsebenzi, endaweni yokugcina izimpahla esitolo sezimpahla ze-inthanethi esaziwayo. Kwakunzima, kwakudingeka ngichithe izinyawo zami amahora angu-12 ngosuku.
Akumangazi ukuthi ngemva kobunzima obuningi kangaka kanye noshintsho endleleni yokuphila, ikhabethe likaNatalia lishintshile. Manje kwase kubuswa izinto ezinkulu kakhulu.
Esikhundleni sezingubo zabesifazane, izingubo zezemidlalo ezikhululekile zavela emashalofini. Ngenxa yalokho, sibekela eceleni usuku lonke lwezinguquko ezimangalisayo zikaNatalia. Kodwa umphumela wawufaneleka.
Ama-nuances wokuguqulwa
Isithombe sika-Natalia "esisha" sabonakala sibiza, sinobukhazikhazi. Sikwazile ukwakha umbono wowesifazane ozethembayo, ozimele, onenjongo. I-heroine inomfanekiso omuhle, ngakho-ke kwakungadingeki sifihle lutho: sasigcizelela kuphela ukuma kwakhe ngezithende, sagqamisa amahlombe akhe amahle, intamo, izihlakala kanye ne-décolleté.
Ukwakha isithombe esibizayo, ama-shades akhethekile kanye nezesekeli zikhethiwe. Benza igagasi elincane ezinweleni futhi bazihlobise kahle eduze nobuso, bavula indlebe eyodwa. Lesi sinqumo sigcizelele i-asymmetry, enezela amandla namandla esithombeni.
Ngemva kwenguquko, uNatalia wazibuka ngokumangala, izinyembezi zagcwala amehlo: “Ngijwayele izingubo zezemidlalo, futhi ngimuhle, kunjalo, kodwa zilula. Futhi-ke, lapho ngizibona esibukweni, ngashaqeka. muhle, intokazi enhle. ”…
Futhi noma ngabe lesi sithombe singelona usuku nosuku, kubalulekile ukukhombisa owesifazane ukuthi angakwazi ukuhluka, ukuthi uyakwazi ukuzimangaza futhi ashintshe izindima.
Kwenzeka kanjani i-gray mouse syndrome?
Cishe ama-40% amakhasimende ami ngemuva kweminyaka engama-30 ancamela ukuthenga izingubo zemithunzi emnyama nempunga, empeleni akazigqoki izinto ezinamaphrinta. Kungani kwenzeka? Ngoba abesifazane bafundiswa le mibala kusukela ebuntwaneni.
Kukholelwa ukuthi i-gray ne-black iyindawo yonke, iyancipha, futhi nabo uzohlala ubukeka ufanelekile. Kodwa ulwazi luphuthelwe ukuthi la ma-shades abukeka ebiza futhi emangalisa kuphela ngokuhlanganiswa nezimonyo ezikhethekile, ukwakheka okuthakazelisayo.
Ngaphezu kwalokho, zifaneleka kuphela amantombazane ohlobo oluthile. Futhi uma ufuna isithombe se-black and white and grey shades ukuze sibukeke isitayela, kufanele uzame.
Ngokuvamile, imibala emnyama nempunga ikhethwa ngabesifazane abangazethembi kakhulu ngokwabo. Isibonelo, besaba ukwenza isithombe esinenhlamba, abaqondi ukuthi kufanele bagqoke kanjani izinto ngokuphrinta, noma besaba ukuzidonsela amehlo.
Ngemuva kokuguqulwa, amaklayenti anjalo ane-"grey mouse syndrome", njengomthetho, ashintsha impilo yawo ngokuphawulekayo futhi abe ngabantu abakhanyayo, abanobuciko. Futhi-ke "umphumela we-domino" usebenza - kancane kancane ukuchuma kufika esimisweni sabo.
Umbala yisimo somqondo, ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi nokuphila kahle
Ngesinye isikhathi intombazane yeza kimi ukuze ithole isifundo sesitayela esimweni sokucindezeleka kwangemva kokubeletha. Esithombeni, ubegqoke izingubo ezimnyama ze-nondescript ezinosayizi ababili abakhulu kakhulu. Kodwa ngemva kwesifundo sesithathu, waqala ukuthumela izithombe zezithombe ezidalwe ngesisekelo semibala ehlukene kanye nokuphrinta.
Umfundi walalela zonke izeluleko futhi wadala iminsalo ekhanyayo nezinhlanganisela ezinhle. Ekupheleni kwesifundo, akazange ashintshe kuphela ikhabethe lakhe, kodwa futhi nomsebenzi wakhe. Futhi wabe esephothula izifundo zakhe njengomklami wangaphakathi futhi manje wenza imali enhle, uhamba kakhulu nomndeni wakhe futhi ukholelwa ukuthi izinguquko empilweni yakhe zaqala ngemva kokuguqulwa kwekhabethe kusuka kumnyama nokumhlophe kuya kumbala.
Omunye umfundi wami, ngemva kokuhlukana nomyeni wakhe, eseshintshe ikhabethe lakhe, waqaphela ukuthi wayefuna ukuhlala ezweni elinelanga. Waya eSpain futhi manje washada ngempumelelo. Unomyeni onothando omangalisayo, abafana ababili, futhi akukho mnyama nokumpunga ekhabetheni lakhe nhlobo: okuthandwayo manje kunikezwa izinhlanganisela ezikhanyayo.
Ziningi izindaba ezinjalo. Kubonakala sengathi umbala umayelana nezingubo kuphela. Ngicabanga ukuthi umbala yisimo somqondo, ukuvumelana kwangaphakathi nokuphila kahle. Uma ujabule ngaphakathi, konke kuhamba kahle, futhi indaba ayikwazi ukuba nesiphetho esibi!