Ukubhukuda: kanjani ukuthola ingane ukuthi igqoke amabhande?

THEehlobo eledlule, yonke into yayihamba kahle, ukhumbula uRoxanne. U-Lola ngokulalela wavumela ukuba agcotshwe nge-sunscreen futhi ngokuhlakanipha wagcina izibuko zelanga, ama-bob namabhande asengalo. Kulo nyaka, imuvi impela ongawafaka! Nokho, zibalulekile, ukuphepha kwakhe kusengozini. Ngakho-ke akuxoxiswana ngayo! Kodwa eminyakeni engu-3-4, le ngxabano ngokusobala inesisindo esincane nengane esigabeni esiphikisayo esigcwele. Ukwenqaba ama-arbands, kanye nokusho ukuthi "cha" ngokuhlelekile kunoma yikuphi ukucindezela, kuyamvumela ukuba enze kanjalo hlola imikhawulo kanye nokubiza, ngendlela yayo, ubunikazi bayo obusha njengento enhle. Futhi ngokuqondile, "izintambo zezandla ezezingane", uyakuqinisekisa! 

 

Yizwa izimpikiswano zakhe

Isixazululo ? Nikeza ingane yakho lokho ekufunayo ngokuzwakalayo nangokucacile, okungukuthi mcabangeni mkhulu. Hhayi ngokuvuma, kodwa ngokucela ukukuchazela ukuthi kungani engafuni. “Ukulalela ngomusa izizathu zokwenqaba kwakhe akukuvimbeli ukumisa uhlaka, kukhumbula u-Aurélie Crétin, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo nesazi sokusebenza kwengqondo. Kodwa kuzokusiza ukuze anciphise ukuphikisa kwakhe. »Akafuni ukuthi lesi sisekeli sigcinelwe abancane? Bonisa ezinye izingane zakhe ezilingana naye ezigqoka. Incazeloukuthi usisi wakhe omkhulu naye wayigqoka ena 3 years. Maduze nje usezokwazi ukumlingisa futhi abhukude njengenhlanzi. Kodwa ngenxa yalokho, kufanele aziqeqeshe ngokuphepha. Ucabanga ukuthi amakhwapha kadadewabo mabi? Yima ngasesitolo solwandle ukuze uthole okwengeziwe khethani abanye ndawonye. Cha, uyaphikelela? Ngakho mnike ukukhetha, ngaphandle kokuthukuthela. Kulula nje, noma azigqoke bese engena emanzini azijabulise nabangane bakhe, noma asale edlala esihlabathini. Kufanele azifune ngokushesha! 

 

Msize athambise amanzi ngobumnene

Ingabe ingane yakho ibonakala ijabule ngokuhlala eduze kwakho? Mhlawumbe ukwenqaba kwakhe kokuqala kwakuwukufihla ukwesaba amanzi. Kule minyaka, kuvame kakhulu kunalokho ongase ukucabange. Kufanele-ke simsize lawula lesi sici esisha. Futhi ngalokho, akukho lutho oludlula izingalo zakho. Umgcine eboshwe okhalweni lwakho, ngena kancane emanzini kuze kube yilapho amanzi efika okhalweni nasemadolweni. Olandelayo, vumela ukuqondiswa ukusabela kwakhe. Uma ebukeka ethukile, ungamhleki, ungamchaphazi, lokho kuzokwenza izinto zibe nzima kakhulu. Phuma emanzini, uchaze ukuthi uzophinde uzame ngokuhamba kwesikhathi. Ngaphandle kokukhohlwa ukumhalalisela ngalo mzamo. Ilukuluku lakhe kufanele lisheshe limenze azame futhi. 

U-Aurelia Dubuc

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