I-Psychology

Uhlezi kodwa ungenzi umsebenzi wesikole

Indodakazi yami ingahlala amahora amaningi ingawenzi umsebenzi wayo wesikole… Kusho umama omangele.

Ingane ingakwazi ukuhlala amahora amaningi futhi ingawenzi umsebenzi wesikole uma ingakwazi ukwenza kahle futhi isaba ukwenza lezi zifundo ezingaqondakali. Kungani uzikhandle wenze into enzima ube ungeke wenze lutho? Kulesi simo, okokuqala udinga ukuhlala eduze kwendodakazi yakho futhi umakhele zonke izenzo nawo wonke amagama, ubonise lapho kufanele abe nencwadi yokubhalela, yini okufanele ayenze ngesandla sakhe sokunene, yini ngesobunxele sakhe, yisiphi isenzo manje nokuthi yini elandelayo. Uhlale phansi, ukhiphe i-diary, ukhiphe i-notebook, ubheke idayari ukuthi yiziphi izinto zakusasa. Uyasikhipha, usifake, kanje ... Setha isibali sikhathi: prakthiza imizuzu engu-20, bese uthatha ikhefu imizuzu eyi-10. Siphinde sihlale phansi, sibuke idayari futhi. Uma umsebenzi ungabhaliwe, sibiza umngane nokunye. Uma ingane ivame ukukhohlwa okuthile, yibhale phansi ephepheni, njengomthetho, futhi mayibe phambi kwamehlo omntwana.

Uma ingane iphazamisekile, setha isibali sikhathi. Isibonelo, simisa isibali sikhathi imizuzu engu-25 bese sithi: “Umsebenzi wakho ukuxazulula le nkinga yezibalo. Ubani osheshayo: wena noma isibali sikhathi? Lapho umntwana eqala ukusebenza ngesivinini, yena, njengomthetho, akaphazamiseki kancane. Uma lokho kungasebenzi, bheka kwenye indawo. Isibonelo, usebenzisa i-timer, uyaqaphela ukuthi singakanani isikhathi ingane eyathatha ukuxazulula isibonelo, bese ubhala lesi sikhathi emaphethelweni (ungakwazi ngisho nangaphandle kokuphawula). Isibonelo esilandelayo kuseyisikhathi. Ngakho kuzoba - imizuzu emi-5, imizuzu eyi-6, imizuzu emi-3. Ngokuvamile, ngesistimu enjalo, ingane inesifiso sokubhala ngokushesha, futhi kamuva yena ngokwakhe angajwayela ukumaka isikhathi, ukuthi ubhekana kangakanani nalokhu noma lowo msebenzi: kuyathakazelisa!

​​​​​​ Uma umfundisa ngale ndlela — ngezenzo, ngokuningiliziwe nangokucophelela — kuyo yonke iminyaka ngeke udinge ukubhekana nezinkinga zesikole zengane: lapho ngeke kumane kube nezinkinga. Uma ungazange uyifundise indlela yokufunda ekuqaleni, kuzodingeka ulwele ukusebenza kwengane yakho ezifundweni zayo yonke iminyaka elandelayo.

Fundisa ukufunda

Fundisa ingane yakho ukufunda. Mchazele ukuthi umsebenzi wesikole owenziwe ngekhanda awunikezi ulwazi oluhle. Ngitshele ukuthi yini ingane yakho edinga ukuyazi ukuze iqedele imisebenzi ngempumelelo ngangokunokwenzeka:

  • bhala amaphuzu lapho ufunda izahluko nezigaba;
  • funda ukucindezela indaba emiqondweni eyinhloko;
  • funda ukusebenzisa amathebula namashadi;
  • funda ukudlulisa ngamazwi akho lokho okufunda embhalweni;
  • mfundise ukwenza ama-flashcards ukuphinda ngokushesha izinsuku ezibalulekile, amafomula, amagama, njll.
  • futhi, ingane kufanele ifunde ukubhala phansi uthisha hhayi igama nezwi, kodwa imicabango ebalulekile namaqiniso kuphela. Ungakwazi ukuqeqesha ingane yakho ukwenza lokhu ngokuhlela inkulumo encane.

Yini inkinga?

Zisho ukuthini izinkinga zokufunda?

  • Xhumana nothisha?
  • Ukwenza umsebenzi ebhukwini lokubhalela?
  • Ukhohlwe incwadi yokufunda ekhaya?
  • Awukwazi ukunquma, ingabe usemuva kohlelo?

Uma lokhu kwakamuva, bese ngaphezu kwalokho uhlanganyela, thola indaba. Fundisa ukufunda. Noma khuthaza kakhulu ingane ukuba ikubone futhi ixazulule izinkinga zayo.

Ukufunda kusukela ekugcineni

Ukubamba ngekhanda okubalulekile

Uma, lapho ubamba ngekhanda inkondlo, umculo, umbhalo wenkulumo, indima emdlalweni weshashalazi, uhlukanisa imisebenzi ibe izingxenye ezinhlanu bese uqala ukuyibamba ngekhanda ngokulandelana, kusukela ekugcineni, uyohlala usuka kulokho. wazi kakhudlwana kulokho okwaziyo ngokuqinile, kusukela ezintweni ongenasiqiniseko ngazo ngokuphelele, kuya ezintweni osezifunde kahle, ezinomthelela oqinisayo. Ukubamba ngekhanda ukwaziswa ngendlela ebhalwe ngayo futhi okufanele kudlalwe ngayo kuholela esidingweni sokuhlala usuka endleleni evamile ubheke kobunzima kakhulu futhi obungaziwa, obungaqinisi. Indlela yokubamba izinto ngekhanda njengokuziphatha kweketango ayisheshi nje inqubo yokubamba ngekhanda, kodwa futhi ikwenza kujabulise kakhudlwana. Bona →

Xhumana nodokotela wengqondo

Funa usizo kudokotela wezengqondo wesikole.

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