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Kufunwa ubaba wekhaya
Thayipha okuthi “obaba abahlala ekhaya” ku-Google futhi uzocelwa ukuthi ulungise “ngomama abahlala ekhaya”. Ngisho naku-Net, asiphonseli inselelo umyalo omisiwe ngokunganaki! Bambalwa kakhulu (noma okufanele babe) obaba besikhathi esigcwele, kangangokuthi izibalo eziphathelene nabo cishe azikho. EFrance, azibalwa. Sinezibalo zekhefu lobaba. Kodwa, kufanele kukhunjulwe, leli khefu yizinsuku eziyi-11. Kuyikhefu elifushane emsebenzini. Ikhefu labazali lihlala, elingahamba iminyaka emi-3. Ngo-2004, bebengamavulandlela angu-238 ukuyithatha, 262 ngo-2005, 287 (ikhuphuka!) Ngo-2006. Amadoda amele u-1,2% wekhefu labazali unyaka ngamunye. Bheka futhi nephepha lethu lamaqiniso ngekhefu labazali.
Zimbalwa izibalo zikamama wekhaya
Lokhu kuntuleka kwezibalo kanye nokuhlola okukhulu kwezenhlalo yezenhlalo kunomphumela odabukisayo wokuthi akunakwenzeka ukusungula iphrofayili kababa ekhaya kanye nezizathu, ekuqaleni, ezikhuthaza lokhu kukhetha. Wonke amadoda angasebenzi musa babe fairies yendlu ehilelekile 100% Logistics umndeni, lesi simo akusho ngempela ukukhetha okuzenzakalelayo ebekwa izimo zokuphila. Njengoba uFrédéric, ubaba wezingane ezimbili, efakaza: “Lapho ngicabanga ukuyeka umsebenzi wami wezandla ukuze nginakekele indodana yami, ibhizinisi lami lalingcono kakhulu. UBruno *, ubaba ohlala ekhaya iminyaka engu-8, wayeseyazi kakade eneminyaka engu-17 ukuthi ufuna ukukhulisa izingane zakhe, “njengoba umama ayenzile”.
Hlala ekhaya: izingqondo ziyashintsha
Ngisho nalapho ukukhetha kucatshangwa ngokugcwele, ngisho nokufunwa, ukubukeka kwangaphandle nokho kunzima ukuphila nakho. Sathi kuFrédéric: “Ngakho-ke, kanjalo, nguwe owenza owesifazane? “UBruno, ngokwakhe, wabhekana nokungaqondi kwalabo ababemzungezile: “Kulungile, uzohlala ekhaya kodwa uma kungenjalo ufuna umsebenzi? Nokho, ukholelwa ukuthi izimo zengqondo zishintsha ngokushesha. “Abezindaba baba nesandla kukho. Sidlula kancane kuma-oddballs. “
Izwi likababa wekhaya
UBruno, 35, ubaba kaLeïla, u-Emma noSarah, usekhaya iminyaka engu-8.
“Ngangihlale ngazi ukuthi ukulala kwe-metro-work-sleep akuyona into yami. Nginediploma yobunesi kanye nelayisensi yomlando. Akukhona ukuntuleka kwemisebenzi okwangiphusha ukuba nginakekele izingane zami kodwa ukukhetha ukuphila. Umkami ungumhlengikazi wezimo eziphuthumayo, othanda umsebenzi wakhe, ngisho nomsebenzi wezomsebenzi! Mina, ngithanda ukunakekela amadodakazi ami, ukupheka. Angiyenzi yonke into ekhaya, sihlanganyela imisebenzi. Futhi nginempilo yangaphandle, imisebenzi eminingi, ngaphandle kwalokho ngeke ngibambelele. Ngakho isimiso sami simatasa ngempela. Kwadingeka sichaze muva nje emadodakazini ethu angakholwa ukuthi yebo, ngezinye izikhathi obaba bayasebenza. Futhi kwenzeka ukuthi bobabili abazali banomsebenzi. ”
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