Lo mqondo ukwazile ukweqa iminyaka kusukela eGreek Ancient lapho uPlato atshela khona inganekwane yokuzalwa kothando encwadini yakhe Idili :

« Abantu ngaleso sikhathi babenomzimba oyindilinga, ikhanda elinobuso obubili obufanayo, izingalo ezine nemilenze emine, okubanikeza amandla anjalo kangangokuthi bakwazi ukuncintisana nonkulunkulu. Laba bokugcina, bengafuni ukubeka engcupheni yokulahlekelwa ubukhulu babo, banquma, ukubenza buthaka laba bantu abaphezulu, ukubasika izingxenye ezimbili, ngayinye yakhiwa ubuso obulodwa, izingalo ezimbili nemilenze emibili. Kwenziwe ini. Kodwa lapho sezihlukene, lezi zingxenye ezimbili zazimatasa nje ukuthola ingxenye yazo elahlekile ukuze ziguqule isidalwa esisodwa: lokhu kuwumsuka wothando. “. Khipha encwadini kaJves-Alexandre Thalmann ethi, Becoming a soul mate.

Ngakho-ke, abesilisa bazoba yingxenye kuphela ebhekele ukuthola enye ingxenye yabo kahle, okungenani enye ingxenye, ukuze baphelele.

Kule nganekwane sithola izici ezi-3 zomqondo we-soul-mate: ukuphelela okutholakalayo, ukubhalelana okuphelele nokufana kwezingxenye ezimbili.

Ngokwethiyori, bobabili abalingani bomphefumulo bazwana ngokuphelele: akukho kungqubuzana okuphazamisa ukuvumelana unomphela. Ngaphezu kwalokho, akukho okufana nomuntu ngaphezu komphefumulo womlingani wakhe: bobabili babelana ngokuthanda okufanayo, izintandokazi ezifanayo, izindinganiso ezifanayo, imiqondo efanayo yezinto, injongo efanayo yokuphila… Ezingeni elisebenzayo, amandla ukuqaphela ukuthi ukuba khona komlingani womphefumulo kuyindaba eyengeziwe fantasy. 

Obani abangaphezu kwamawele afanayo abangahambisana nenganekwane eshiwo umlingiswa kaPlato? Zivela esitokisini seqanda esifanayo, zabelana ngekhodi efanayo yofuzo. Izifundo, nokho, aziwusekeli lo mbono, yize laba bobabili behlangabezana nobudlelwano obusondelene obuvame ukukhathaza abanye. Izingxabano zikhona futhi ubudlelwano phakathi kwamawele ama-2 asekude ekubeni umfula omude ozolile. Ukufana okunamandla emazingeni emimoya nangokwenyama akuqinisekisi ukuvumelana kobudlelwano. Ngamanye amagama, noma singathola lo mphefumulo, ulahlekile phakathi kwezigidigidi zabanye abantu, ubudlelwano esingabakha naye abunathuba lokuvumelana ngokuphelele. 

Uma umlingani womphefumulo ekhona ngempela, amathuba okuhlangana naye mancane.

Lokho kusho ukuthi inani labantu abayizigidi eziyizinkulungwane ezingu-7. Ngokuqeda izingane nabantu asebephenduke othandweni (njengemiyalo yenkolo), kusenabantu abangaba yizigidi eziyizinkulungwane ezintathu.

Uma kucatshangwa ukuthi kukhona i-database efakwa kuhlu yalaba bantu abayizigidi eziyizinkulungwane ezi-3, nokuthi ubuso bubodwa bungabona umlingani womphefumulo (ngokwesisekelo esinengqondo sothando lapho uqala ukukubona), kungathatha iminyaka engama-380 ukuhamba 'kusethi yezinhloso, isilinganiso samahora ayi-12 ngosuku.

Amathuba okuthi umlingani womphefumulo abe ngumuntu wokuqala obhekwayo asondela kulokho ukunqoba i-jackpot yelotho kazwelonke.

Eqinisweni, sihlangana kuphela phakathi kwabantu abayi-1000 kuya kwabayi-10: amathuba okuhlangana nomphefumulo wakho-ke mancane, ikakhulukazi ngoba kufanele kuphawulwe ukuthi sihlala sishintsha. Umuntu ofanelekile eneminyaka engama-000 angahle angabonakali encoma kithina eneminyaka engama-20. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile ukuthi umhlangano womlingani womphefumulo wenziwe ngesikhathi esihle ngokwedlulele noma ukuthi umphefumulo womlingani uguquke ngendlela efanayo indlela nangezinga elifanayo nathi. Uma wazi ukubaluleka kwezinto ezithinta imvelo ekushintsheni ngokomzimba nangokwengqondo, kubonakala kungenakwenzeka ...

Nokho, inkolelo akudingekile ukuba ibe “nokwenzeka” noma “iqiniso” inqobo nje uma inezimfanelo ezinhle kwabanye. Maye, lapho futhi, umqondo wokuthi "abalingani bomphefumulo" ubonakala ulimaza labo abanokholo kuwo: ubangela ukuba babe nesifiso esikhulu sokuthola, ukunganeliseki, ukunganeliseki, ukuzibamba ebudlelwaneni bezothando futhi, ekugcineni, isizungu.

UYves-Alexandre Thalmann, encwadini enikelwe kulesihloko okufanele ibekwe ezandleni zonke, uyivala ngendlela enhle kunazo zonke: ” Ithemba langempela alileli ebukhoneni obukhona bomlingani womphefumulo, kepha ngokuqiniseka ukuthi ukuzibophezela kwethu, imizamo yethu kanye nentando yethu enhle, inqobo nje uma kungukuhleleka, kuyakwazi ukwenza noma yibuphi ubuhlobo bezothando bucebise futhi bujabulise ngokuhamba kwesikhathi ".

Indlela yokuhlangana nabantu?

 « Abantu bacabanga ukuthi umlingani womphefumulo ungumdlalo wabo ophelele, futhi wonke umuntu uyabajaha. Eqinisweni, umphefumulo womlingani wangempela uyisibuko, ngumuntu okukhombisa konke okukuphazamisa, okuletha ukuba uzicabangele ukuze ukwazi ukushintsha izinto empilweni yakho. . U-Elizabeth Gilbert

« Sikhumbula umlingani womphefumulo uma sihlangana nayo kusenesikhathi noma sekwephuze kakhulu. Kwesinye isikhathi, kwenye indawo, indaba yethu ngabe ihlukile. » Ifilimu «2046»