I-Psychology

15. Isici Q3: «ukuzithiba okuphansi — ukuzithiba okuphezulu»

Amaphuzu aphansi kulesi sici abonisa isifiso esibuthakathaka kanye nokuzithiba okubi. Umsebenzi wabantu abanjalo awuguquki futhi uyaxhamazela. Umuntu onamaphuzu aphezulu kulesi sici unezici ezigunyazwe umphakathi: ukuzithiba, ukubekezela, unembeza, kanye nokuthambekela kokugcina imikhuba emihle. Ukuze kuhlangatshezwane nalezi zindinganiso, umuntu udinga ukusetshenziswa kwemizamo ethile, ukuba khona kwezimiso ezicacile, izinkolelo kanye nokucatshangelwa kombono womphakathi.

Lesi sici sikala izinga lokulawulwa kwangaphakathi kokuziphatha, ukuhlanganiswa komuntu ngamunye.

Abantu abanamamaki aphezulu alesi sici bathambekele emisebenzini yenhlangano futhi bathola impumelelo kulowo msebenzi odinga umgomo, ukuzimisela, ibhalansi. Isici sibonisa ukuqwashisa komuntu ekulawuleni amandla e-«I» (isici C) namandla we-«super-I» (isici esingu-G) futhi sinquma ukuqina kwezici zokuzikhethela zomuntu ngamunye. Lesi sici singesinye esibaluleke kakhulu ekubikezeleni impumelelo yomsebenzi. Kuhlotshaniswa kahle nemvamisa yokukhethwa kobuholi kanye nezinga lomsebenzi ekuxazululeni izinkinga zeqembu.

  • Udonga lwe-1-3 - aluholwa ukulawulwa ngokuzithandela, alunaki izidingo zomphakathi, alunaki abanye. Angase azizwe engafaneleki.
  • 4 wall — ukungakhuli kwangaphakathi, ukungqubuzana (ukuhlanganiswa okuphansi).
  • 7 izindonga — elawulwa, olunembile emphakathini, kulandela «I»-image (ukuhlanganisa okusezingeni eliphezulu).
  • Izindonga ezingu-8-10 - zivame ukuba nokulawula okunamandla kwemizwa yazo nokuziphatha okujwayelekile. Ukunaka komphakathi nokucophelela; ikhombisa lokho okuvame ukubizwa ngokuthi "ukuzihlonipha" kanye nokukhathazeka ngesithunzi somphakathi. Nokho, ngezinye izikhathi ivame ukuba nenkani.

Imibuzo nge-Factor Q3

16. Ngicabanga ukuthi angizweli kangako futhi angijabulile kunabantu abaningi:

  • kwesokudla;
  • ukuthola kunzima ukuphendula;
  • okungalungile;

33. Ngiyacophelela futhi ngiyasebenziseka kangangokuthi zimbalwa izimanga ezingajabulisi ezenzeka kimi kunabanye abantu:

  • yebo;
  • Kunzima ukusho;
  • cha;

50. Imizamo eyenziwe ekudwebeni amapulani:

  • ungapheli amandla;
  • Kunzima ukusho;
  • akufanelekile;

67. Lapho udaba okufanele luxazululwe lunzima kakhulu futhi ludinga umzamo omkhulu kimi, ngibe sengizama:

  • thatha enye inkinga;
  • Kunzima ukusho;
  • ngiphinde ngizama ukuxazulula le nkinga;

84. Abantu abahlanzekile, abafuna ngenkani abazwani nami;

  • yebo;
  • ngezinye izikhathi;
  • okungalungile;

101. Ebusuku ngiba namaphupho amahle nangenangqondo:

  • yebo;
  • ngezinye izikhathi;
  • cha;

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