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Namuhla, indodana yami u-Egor, eneminyaka emihlanu ubudala, yazikhethela futhi yazithengela umdlalo webhodi ngokokuqala ngqá, kodwa mina ngangiyizithunywa kuphela. Umdlalo "Inkosi yaseTokyo" ibiza i-5r, futhi wayizuza ngokwethembeka ngokuya "emsebenzini".

Lokhu kuhlolwa sekuneminyaka engu-1,5 ubudala. Kwaqala ngokuthi indodana yayigula kakhulu, futhi yayingakwazi ukujwayela enkulisa. Thina, njengabantu abadala ababili, senza isivumelwano naye: ngoba nsuku zonke lapho eya enkulisa ngenjabulo nangengoma, ezama ukudlala nezinye izingane lapho, futhi othisha abakhonondi ngaye, uthola iholo le-100. ama-ruble! Ngaphezu kwalokho, kuyisibopho ngomthethosivivinywa owodwa (ubala hhayi ngemali, kodwa ngezicucu). Ngeyakhe nemali yakhe yedwa, futhi angenza noma yini ayithandayo ngayo.

Ngokuvamile, yiqiniso, ufuna amathoyizi. Futhi-ke umsebenzi wenziwa, kwachazwa ukuthi kukhona amathoyizi «asetshenziswayo, athengwa ngumama noma ubaba» namathoyizi "akho siqu, owathenga wena."

a) Amathoyizi asetshenziswayo “njengoYegor”: angadlala nawo, kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, abazali bakhe bayomthethisa uma ezama ukuwamosha ngamabomu, noma ukuwayisa enkundleni yokudlala futhi awashiye engagadiwe, noma enquma ukushintsha. engenanzuzo kakhulu. Abazali bangase babuze ukuthi “ufunani”, noma bangase bangabuzi, bangathenga lokho okukhethwe yingane, noma bathenge lokho abakubona kulungile.

b) Amathoyizi "Ngazithengela mina." Abazali baqinisekisa kuphela ukuthi into ayilimazi ingane. Ufuna udoti ngemali eningi ezogqekeza ngosuku? Unelungelo loku! Ingabe ufuna ukuthenga 30 kinder lezimanga? Unelungelo loku! Ufuna ukuphula ithoyizi, ulilahle, ulishintshisane? Leli yilungelo lakhe! Into kuphela ukuthi u-Yegor unemali ekhaya, embizeni, futhi ngeke athenge lutho ngokuzenzakalelayo. Kufanele uye ekhaya, uthathe imali, bese kuphela uyothenga.

Yasebenza into. Ingane yafunda ngokushesha ukuthi ithoyizi eliqinile linenzuzo enkulu kunelincane, kodwa elishibhile. Akathengi ama-surprise e-Kinder futhi akasibuzi nakancane, ngoba ngemali yakhe babonakala bengenanzuzo kuye. Imali iqoqwa isikhathi eside bese isetshenziswa kuphela. Wayejwayele ukuthenga zonke izinhlobo zama-dinosaurs nemishini, futhi manje usekhulile waba umdlalo webhodi awubona nabangane.

Ngendlela, endaweni ethile ngaphambi konyaka omusha, wayesebonile ukuthi kunenzuzo enkulu ukucela ubaba noma umama ukuthi afune umdlalo ku-Avito noma u-Ali-express futhi alinde amasonto amabili kunokumemeza "Ngifuna leli toyi ngokushesha" ngokuqhaqhazela kwezwi lami. Lokhu kushibhe izikhathi ezingu-1,5, futhi uma kuyimali YAKHE, uyakwazisa kakhulu.

Kwakukhona ibhodlela, yilapho eqala ukwazisa imali ngokwayo, ukuqongelela ngokungalawuleki. Kodwa sisebenze naye, sashintsha iphuzu lokuhlangana, futhi manje uyayazisa inkululeko imali namathuba amnika yona, hhayi ngokwabo.

Waqala nokuthanda izipho. Kwesinye isikhathi uthi ufuna «ukusiphatha ngepomelo» (isithelo). Abambe ugogo noma uyise ngesandla, amyisa kwezinhlanu, akhethe induku yomshanelo, azikhokhele, amdonsele ekhaya, acele usizo lokusika, bese, ngesizotha esingenakuchazwa, abelane ngenani elingakanani. . Yiqiniso, ushiya amaphesenti angu-60 kuye, kodwa ama-40% asele asebenza ngokucacile ngokusho kolimi lothando "isipho".

Wafunda nokuthi imali ingukuphila. Kulapho umama agula khona, sahamba sobabili ekhemisi, ngathenga nemithi. Wangibona ngikhokha wabuza ukuthi sithengeni. Ngathi ngikhiphe imali ngithengela umama imithi ukuze alulame. Sazithenga, futhi manje umama uzozizwa engcono. U-Yegor washintsha ubuso bakhe wathi uma imithi isadingeka, uzokhipha yonke imali ayenayo ukuze umama wakhe alulame. Futhi kusukela lapho, waqala ukwazisa imali nakakhulu, ngoba manje akulona uhlobo oluthile lwamathoyizi, noma ukuvakashela eDivo Island, noma ukudla - lokhu KUPHILA KOMAMA! Futhi enganeni, umama uyindawo yonke.

By the way, manje sekulula kakhulu ukubhekana hooliganism yakhe. Uma ukuncenga kungasizi, kwanele ukusho ukuthi "Egor, ukulungiswa kuzoba ngezindleko zakho." Ngokuvamile lokhu kwanele ukwenza imidlalo yakhe ingalimazi ifenisha nezindonga. Kodwa ngezikhathi ezithile uthola impendulo ethi "Ngifuna ngempela, ngizokhokha." Futhi-ke akukho lutho olungenziwa, thina, kuvela, siphethe isivumelwano somlomo, futhi unelungelo lokonakalisa lokho akufunayo ngezindleko zakhe.

Manje ake siqhubekele ohlelweni lwe-piece-yebhonasi lokukhokhelwa. U-Yegor wenza i-rocket epholile lapha, lapho athola khona isitifiketi enkulisa, futhi ekhaya wayelinde ibhonasi yama-ruble angu-200. Manje usecabanga ukuthi esikhundleni sokuyosebenza nje, ungenza okuthile WEWU futhi uthole okuphindwe kathathu kunalokho obungakwenza ngosuku.

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