Esikhathini lapho yonke into ihamba ngokushesha, ucansi olusheshayo luziqinisekisa njengomkhuba osemfashinini. Ngenxa yokuthi ubulili kumbhangqwana bunesikhathi, noma ngenxa yokuthi i-quickie yenza isimiso socansi sabalingani, umbiko omfushane noqinile ungaba isixazululo esihle ezinkingeni ezihlukahlukene. Kanjani futhi kuphi ukuzilolonga? Izihluthulelo zocansi olusheshayo oluzuzisayo.

Namuhla, kuwumkhuba ovamile ukuthola into umuntu ayifuna cishe ngaso leso sikhathi. Kungaba okufanayo nange-orgasm: ucansi olusheshayo lwenza kube lula ukufinyelela ubumnandi ngokushesha.

Ucansi lwabashadile: ucansi oluhamba kancane noma ucansi olusheshayo?

Ngenkathi umeluleki wezocansi esanda kushicilela incwadi enesihloko esithi, ngokungangabazeki, "Ubulili obuncane, ukwenza uthando ngokuqaphela okugcwele", umbuzo ubuyela phambi kwesiteji: ubulili obufushane futhi obunzima noma obude futhi olandelwa yi-foreplay, yiziphi izinzuzo? Uma ukuphuthuma kocansi ngokushesha futhi kahle kungaba umthombo wenjabulo ekuphakameni kwawo kanye nokuvuselelwa kwesifiso, ukuthatha isikhathi sakho sokwenza uthando kukuvumela ukuba uhlole izinhlobo ezintsha zokuzijabulisa ngokocansi, nge-orgasm ephindwe kashumi. Uhlobo ngalunye lobudlelwano lunezinzuzo zalo, ngakho-ke, futhi ukukhetha kokukodwa noma okunye kwenziwa yizithandani ngaleso sikhathi: izinkathi ezithile zempilo yombhangqwana zisiza kakhulu ukuya ocansini olusheshayo lapho abalingani bezolingeka ukuthi bazame kancane. ucansi ngezinye izikhathi.

Ucansi olusheshayo njengebhuleki ku-romanticism

Ngaphandle kokulungiselela kusengaphambili, ngaphandle kokwandulela, i-quickie iwukufezeka kwesifiso socansi esizumayo nesishubile. Kulo mongo, i-romanticism cishe ayinakwenzeka. Ngokujikijelana ukuze kudle isifiso sawo sobulili, umbhangqwana awaziniki isikhathi sokwakha umoya wothando, futhi awuchithi isikhathi uvuselela isifiso somunye ngezinga okufanele sitholwe. Ucansi oluphambene nezothando, olusheshayo alulona olwakho konke okulimazayo ocansini kumbhangqwana: abalingani bangakwazi ukwanelisa i-libido yabo ngesidingo esimsulwa somzimba, ngaphandle kokucabangela ngokuhlelekile isenzo socansi njengokubonakaliswa kothando lwabo bobabili. I-brake on romanticism, yebo, isithiyo enjabulweni yomzimba, hhayi ngempela. 

Kungani wenze ucansi olusheshayo? 2 izizathu eziyinhloko:

Abalingani abanaso ngempela isikhathi sobudlelwane obude bezocansi.

Izingane ekhaya, amashejuli angafani, umthwalo osindayo ... abathandi bangazithola bejahile ekuphileni kwabo kwansuku zonke ngezizathu eziningi. Ngaphansi kwalezi zimo, akuthandeki ukuthi bayeke yonke imisebenzi yocansi. Ngoba uma ubulili phakathi kombhangqwana kungesona kuphela isithako sokuphila isikhathi eside, buhlanganyela kukho. Kodwa futhi ngenxa yokuthi amadoda nabesifazane banezifiso zokwanelisa, uma bengenazo izidingo. I-quickie ibe isivela njengesixazululo esingenakugwenywa, sokuzijabulisa okusheshayo nokunamandla.

Ucansi olusheshayo luyindlela enhle yokuvuselela isifiso.

Isibindi, ucansi olusheshayo ludinga ukuqunga isibindi, ukudedela futhi ulawule izifiso zezilwane mahhala. Lapho ucansi lozakwethu seluyinjwayelo phakathi neminyaka edlule, njengoba abalingani bethola i-libido ephansi, i-quickie iyodwa ingawuvuselela umlilo. Ngokwenza ucansi olusheshayo, ngaphandle kwe-romanticism kanye nokuzijabulisa kwenyama kuphela, abathandanayo banonga impilo yabo yansuku zonke. 

Ukuze uthole i-quickie to orgasm, kusadingeka ukuzilolonga ngaphansi kwezimo ezifanele. Umthetho wokuqala: ukuthuthukiswa. Kulo mongo, ukuya ocansini kufanele kwenzeke kuyo kanye indawo lapho abathandanayo ngesikhathi sokushisekela kwabo ubulili, ngaphakathi kwemingcele yenhlonipho. Futhi ukwengeza injabulo yabalingani kanye ne-anti-conformism yomkhuba wobulili obusheshayo, leli yithuba lokuhlola izikhundla zobulili ezingavamile kanye nezimo.

Ngaphandle kwalapho bazana kahle, umbhangqwana awufiki ku-orgasm ngokushesha. Uma ubulili obusheshayo bunganikezi injabulo, ngenxa yokuntuleka kwesikhathi, nokho kunokufaneleka kokucasula isimiso nokunikeza injabulo.