Okuqukethwe
Kusukela ekukhulelweni kuya osukwini lokubeletha, singalawula yonke into, kufanele silawule yonke into? Emiphakathini yethu yasentshonalanga, ukukhulelwa kubhekwa njengokwelashwa. Ama-Ultrasound, ukuhlolwa, ukuhlolwa kwegazi, ukuhlaziya, izilinganiso… Sibuze omama ezinkundleni zethu umbono wabo mayelana nokwelashwa kokukhulelwa.
Ukwelashwa kokukhulelwa: amasheke aqinisekisayo ku-Elyane
“Ama-ultrasounds amathathu asemthethweni ayeyizinto ezinhle kakhulu zokukhulelwa kwami kokuqala. Abangane bami “bakamama” baphikelela ohlangothini “lokuhlangana nengane”. Ngokuyinhloko ngabona uhlangothi lokulawula. Ngicabanga ukuthi lokho kwangiqinisa idolo. Kwaba njalo, nangenyanga yesi-3 ye-ultrasound yengane yami yesibili. Kodwa ngase nginqume ukungakhathazeki. Ukuze ngijabule kule mihlangano lapho engangingathola khona lo mntwana. Ukuziqondanisa: ku-ultrasound yesibili, udokotela wezifo zabesifazane uthole okuncane isigqi senhliziyo esingajwayelekile. Wasichazela ukuthi lokhu okudidayo kungangena kuhlelo lwako, ukuthi angeke kube bucayi nakancane. Kafushane, ukuthi kwakuyizingqinamba zalezi zivivinyo eziyinkimbinkimbi, zalezi zindlela zokulawula ngokucophelela: bona izinkinga ezingezona ngempela izinkinga. Ekugcineni, kwakungelutho, inkinga yayizinze ngokwemvelo. Ngakho-ke yebo, mhlawumbe siya kude kakhulu, kwesinye isikhathi, esifisweni sethu sokulawula yonke into phakathi nalezi zinyanga eziyi-9, noma ngabe kusho ukuthini. dala ukucindezeleka lutho. Kodwa ngisacabanga lokho yithuba. Ukube bekunokudideka okukhulu, besingayilindela imiphumela, futhi sinikeze nezixazululo kusukela ekukhulelweni. Kimina, akukhona mayelana nokukhulelwa umntwana ongenasici. Kodwa ngokuphambene nokulindela kangcono futhi ukwazi kangcono ukusekela ezinsukwini zokuqala zokuphila kwakhe, umntwana ozoba nokukhathazeka kwezempilo. Futhi leli yithuba isayensi esinikeza yona namuhla, ngombono wami. ” Elyane
I-Toxo, i-Down syndrome, isifo sikashukela ... Ukuhlolwa kokukhulelwa okunokuthula
“Ama-ultrasound amathathu, ukuhlolelwa isifo sikashukela ngesikhathi sokukhulelwa, i-toxoplasmosis, i-trisomy 21… Ngifanele u-100%. Ngokubona kwami, lokhu kusiza ukuqinisa omama (uma konke kuhamba kahle) futhi babe nokukhulelwa okunokuthula. Uma kungenjalo, sawubona usizi izinyanga eziyi-9! Ngokuphathelene ngokuqondile nama-ultrasounds, kufanele ngisho ukuthi ngangizithanda lezi zikhathi. Lapho sengiqinisekisiwe ngempilo yomntanami, ngakwazi ukulalela ukushaya kwenhliziyo yakhe. Imizwa iqinisekisiwe…” Caroline
”Uhlelo lwe- ukuhlolwa kwesifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa, ama-ultrasounds ukubona ukuthi konke kuhamba kahle, ngingowakho! Isifo sikashukela sokukhulelwa esilashwe kahle njengami singavimbela izinkinga lapho sizalwa. Ngokuqondene nama-ultrasounds, enza kube nokwenzeka ukubona ukuthi ingane iphilile, nokuhlolwa kwe-trisomy kuhlanganiswe noma cha i-amniocentesis isiza ekuboneni ukukhubazeka okungenzeka kumntwana ongakazalwa. ” IStephanie380
“Kukhona ukuhlolwa okudingekayo empilweni kamama nengane. Endabeni yami, i-amniocentesis "iyimpoqo" futhi ngiyayifuna. Bengingeke ngikhululeke ukube angizange ngibe nalesi sivivinyo! ” Ajonfal