Lo mkhuba uqinisekiswa ochwepheshe bezocansi, futhi esikhathini eside ngaphambi kwabo isaga esithi "owesifazane-berry futhi" sabonakala. Ingabe kuyiqiniso ukuthi owesifazane omdala uba, isipiliyoni sakhe socansi siyakhanya?
Ngokuhamba kweminyaka, lapho ukukhathazeka komama kubuyela emuva, futhi ukukhathazeka kwentsha kanye nezakhiwo kuthathelwa indawo ulwazi nokuzethemba, abesifazane bavuleleka ngokwengeziwe, bakhululeke futhi ... yebo, bathandeke futhi.
Lokhu kuqhakaza ngokwengxenye kungenxa yokwanda okukhulu kokukhiqizwa kwamahomoni ocansi wesifazane ngaphambi kokuqala kokuya esikhathini. Kodwa ukuthambekela kudlulela ngale kwalesi sikhathi: ucwaningo lubonisa ukuthi abesifazane abaneminyaka engu-30 no-40 baya ocansini kakhulu kunaseminyakeni yawo-20. Abakwa-XNUMX futhi bathola injabulo enkulu futhi maningi amathuba okuba babe nama-orgasm amaningi.
“Ukuvuthwa kunikeza amathuba amahle kakhulu okuqhakaza kwenjabulo yocansi. Kodwa bengingeke ngixhumanise injabulo ngqo nekhono lokuthola i-orgasm, - kuphawula isazi sezocansi u-Yuri Prokopenko. - Kungenzeka futhi ukuba nobuhlobo bobulili njalo futhi ube nesifiso esinamandla, kodwa ungazizwa ngenxa yenjabulo. Ubumnandi umuzwa othokozisayo esiwutholayo ngemizwa yethu yomzimba.
Kunjalo, amandla isifiso socansi, excitability, ukuzwela caress ihlukile wonke umuntu. Kodwa izici zomzimba aziphazamisi ikhono lethu lokujabulela kakhulu ulwazi lwethu lwezocansi kanye nesimo sengqondo.
Amakhono nolwazi ngawe kuthuthukiswa ngempela phakathi neminyaka, kodwa isikhathi asizilungisi izimo zengqondo ezijulile.
Kungakhathaliseki ukuthi sibadala kangakanani, injabulo ingavinjwa izithiyo nemicabango emibi ngathi. Kuyocishwa njalo ngenxa yecala, ukukhathazeka, ukungabaza, amahloni. Ekuzameni ukuhlangabezana nokulindela komphakathi («sekuyisikhathi sokuba nomthandi osemusha!»), Owesifazane angase abonise impilo yobulili esebenzayo, kodwa empeleni ngeke aneliseke ngobuhlobo.
“Kwabesifazane, ababoshelwe ukucwasa nokwesaba, ukungezwani phakathi kwemicabango nemizwa, imizwa nobulili ngokuvamile kuyanda ngokuya ngeminyaka,” kugcizelela uYuri Prokopenko. - Futhi ngokuphambene nalokho, kwabesifazane abavulekele injabulo, abanethemba, njengomthetho, izinga kanye nokuvama kwenjabulo kuyanda ngokukhula. Bazivumelanisa kalula nezimo—ngokwenhlalo, ngokomzwelo, nangokomzimba.”
Yiqiniso, izenzakalo eziningi endleleni yokuphila - ukulahlekelwa abathandekayo, ukugula, izinguquko ezihlobene neminyaka esikhumbeni nasemzimbeni - zinciphisa inkululeko yokujabulela ubulili. Kodwa emva kwakho konke, abantu abasha banezici eziningi ezivimbelayo: ukukhathazeka ngobudlelwano, ukuthembela ngokwezimali, ukungaqiniseki ngekusasa ...
Ekugcineni, injabulo ifinyelela umvuthwandaba lapho sithintana nathi kanye nemizimba yethu, siqiniseka ngokubaluleka kwethu, futhi sinesithakazelo ebuhlotsheni okwamanje.