I-Psychology

​Labo abafuna izinqaba, izindawo zokupaka izimoto zemidlalo kanye noxhaxha lwe-Boeing empilweni yami bazodumala kakhulu. Anginazo izindiza, izimoto noma izindlu. Umhlaba wami uhamba futhi uthatha indlela ehamba ngaphansi, kanye nokulala egumbini eliqashiwe elino-18-20 m2. Abangathanda ukushintsha indawo nami kuzomele bahlukane ngokuphelele notshwala, inyama nezimpahla ezibizayo.

Iminyaka engaphezu kwengu-10 - kusukela ngesikhathi ngisengumfundi ompofu kakhulu - angikhathali ukuphindaphinda: imali ibhekwa kakhulu, ngoba indalo iyathakazelisa kakhulu kunokusetshenziswa, futhi isimo sangaphakathi sibaluleke ngokungenakuqhathaniswa kunesangaphandle. Ngokushesha nje lapho wenza inkolo ngemali futhi ushintshanisa "ukuba" ukuze "ubonakale", uzithumela ebugqilini bokuzithandela. Isikweletu ngenxa yokunganeliseki kwesimo, umsebenzi oyisicefe ngezikhindi zangaphansi ezibuthuntu, isidingo sokuqamba amanga nokukhaphela umhlaba wakho - lezi ngezinye zezintengo ozozikhokha ngenxa yesifiso eseqile sephepha.

Siyenqaba ukwamukela umhlaba lapho abantu bengalwa futhi bakhaphele ubuntu babo ngenxa yemali. Uma kukhona abantu abaya ngakho, ukuziphatha kwabo kufanele kube ngaphansi kokucwaswa okukhulu, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi kuthathwe njengokunengqondo. Umphakathi lapho ubudlova ngenxa yemali bamukelekayo futhi obuqondakalayo ngeke ube khona isikhathi eside.

Isono esibi kakhulu phakathi kwabalandeli behlelo lemali ukulahla imali ngomqondo ongokoqobo.

Abalandeli bethole legolide bafunda ngokuqonda izindaba mayelana nokuthengwa kwama-yachts abiza usayizi wedolobha elincane noma izimoto ngamaRandi ayizigidi ezimbili. Kodwa ukuqalisa endizeni yamahhala inani elincane eliphindwe ngenkulungwane kuzolimaza isithombe sabo somhlaba futhi kufiphalise isisekelo senani. Isisekelo samagugu angamanga anqume kusengaphambili imikhuba yezenhlalo engenampilo ethethelela ukumosha kwangempela nobudlova ngenxa yephepha.

Kunesisho sasendulo esithi: “Isigqila asifuni ukukhululeka; ufuna ukuba nezakhe izinceku.” Umuntu akakwazi ukukhululeka ngokweqiniso inqobo nje uma ekhona kupharadigm yomphathi wezigqila. Kulesi simiso, yonke inkosi iyinceku yothile, futhi zonke izigqila ziyinkosi yomuntu. Ukuhlala uyisigqila semali, akunakwenzeka ukuba ube inkosi yangempela yokuphila kwakho siqu.

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