Inkulisa yabazali: inkulisa lapho abazali benquma khona

Ukuzibandakanya okukhulu kwabazali kwenza kube uhlobo olukhethekile lokunakekela izingane. Kodwa uma lezi zinhlaka ezihlangene zibandakanya imindeni kakhulu, kusobala ukuthi ziyaqasha ochwepheshe, phendula ngokufanayo izindinganiso zokuphepha kanye nezibopho zomthetho ezifanayo nezinye izikhungo ezisingatha.

Obaba abatshalwe kakhulu

Enkulisa yasePetits Lardons, eParis, ngoLwesihlanu ekuseni, izingane zifika nge-dropper futhi sekwephuzile kunokujwayelekile. Sebephapheme kakhulu. Kubazali, indaba ehlukile. Kumele kushiwo ukuthi ngayizolo kwenzeka ibhodi yabaqondisi benyanga yesakhiwo. Kwake kwaba kanye, akazange aqhubeke unomphela, kodwa kwakuyoba amahloni ukuhamba ngaphandle kokuhlanganyela isiphuzo esitolo sendawo. Ngakho abanye baphathwa yikhanda elincane. Enkulisa yabazali, kusobala, umkhathi ukhethekile kakhulu. Phakathi kwabazali nochwepheshe, ukujwayela kuyadingeka. Imindeni iyafana, yabelana ngamakhodi amasiko afanayo, mamatheka ngemininingwane efanayo. Wonke umuntu unomuzwa wokubamba iqhaza kuhambo oluyiqoqo. Ekhuluma encokola, ubaba ushiya abazali abambalwa abakhona no “Good, Citizens, I leave you”. Okunye okusazoxoxwa ngakho, kusobala ukuthi kuyajabulisa ukuba lapho. Imininingwane emangalisayo: okwamanje, obaba kuphela abeqe umngcele.

Iyini inkulisa yomndeni? Uyini umsebenzi wayo?

Izinkulisa zabazali zadalwa ekuqaleni kweminyaka yama-XNUMX, ngesifiso sokuhlanganisa ochwepheshe nabazali becasulwe ukuzizwa bengafanelekile. Lezi zikhungo manje zithobela izindinganiso zokusebenza ezifanayo kunanoma iyiphi inkulisa kamasipala, noma ngabe izindawo, amanani entengo (okuqhubekayo ngokwesabelo somndeni), izabelo zabasebenzi abaqeqeshiwe noma ukudla. Zaphela izinsuku wonke umuntu eseziphekele ukudla kwakhe. Ukudla kufanele kulungiselelwe endaweni, ngokwezindlela eziqondile kanye nekhishi elifanele.

Amalungu abazali ahlanganiswa abe inhlangano, eqoqa futhi iholele imenenja nabasebenzi.

Ingakanani indawo yabazali enkulisa yabazali?

Ukucaciswa kwalezi zinkulisa kusekelwe kutshalomali oludingekayo kubazali. Umndeni ngamunye kufanele uqinisekise unomphela ingxenye yosuku ngeviki lapho ethintana nezingane futhi kufanele aphathe “ikhomishana” ngokwamakhono akhe, izifiso zakhe noma lokho okusele. Abanye kuzodingeka baphathe izinto zokuthenga, kanti abanye bazogada i-DIY. Ochwepheshe umbuzo wokunakekelwa, ukwazi kanjani, izinqubo, ukukhokha abazali imisebenzi yokuphatha nokuphatha. “Lezi yizingqinamba zangempela ezingenakwenzeka kuwo wonke umuntu,” kusho uDaniel Lefèvre, uthisha wezingane ezincane nomphathi wezobuchwepheshe we-Les Petits Lardons. Emindenini yethu, sinezisebenzi zokuzijabulisa ngezikhathi ezithile ezingakwazi ukushintsha uhlelo lwazo, othisha abatholakala ngoLwesithathu noma abazali abanikela nge-RTT yabo enkulisa. Lapho sebethenge isimiso, ngokuvamile bayajabula. Futhi lapho besishiya beya enkulisa, bavame ukukhungatheka ngokuthi abasenayo indawo yangempela. “

Yiziphi izinzuzo zenkulisa yabazali ehlangene?

Lokhu ukutholwa okuvumelana ngazwi linye. Bonke laba bazali bayakwazisa ukuba nezwi, ukuhlanganyela empilweni yengane yabo kanye nomphakathi. UMarc, ubaba kaMaël futhi osemsebenzini ngalo Lwesihlanu, uyasiqinisekisa: “Sibamba iqhaza ekuthathweni kwezinqumo, siyakwazi konke okuthinta ingane yethu. Enkulisa kamasipala yayinhle kakhulu, savele sashiya ingane yethu ekuseni nge-airlock sayilanda kusihlwa sezwa ukuthi idle kahle futhi yalala kahle. Kwagcina lapho. URichard usezohamba. “Ngeke sibe nokunakekelwa okufanayo futhi lokho kusiphula izinhliziyo. Besilapha ekhaya, nochwepheshe besilalela impela. Ngangingumgcinimafa kasoseshini, onzima impela. Kodwa futhi kwakuvuza kakhulu ngoba ngangikwenzela ingane yami. ”

UMarc no-Aurélie, abazali ababili abasemsebenzini phakathi nengxenye yosuku, bazochitha ekuseni bedlala nezingane ezikhona, ukuqinisekisa ukugadwa kwezingane ezindala kanye nokusabalalisa imisebenzi yasekhaya. “Ingabe wehlile, Marc? Ingabe ukhona umsebenzi? “” Ngibeke imishini yokuwasha emibili endleleni futhi kunezindawo ezimbalwa zokuwasha okufanele zisongwe. “

Ukuvuka enhliziyweni yamaphrojekthi

UDaniel, umphathi, unikeza u-Aurélie ukuthi eze azoqinisa isifundo se-psychomotricity esifakwe omunye wabasizi bezingane zesigaba esikhulu. Abazali abakaze baphathe izingane, zonke ezihlala ngaphansi kwesibopho sochwepheshe. Futhi abazithathi izingane ukuba ziyolala, azinikezi izidakamizwa, azihlinzeki ngokunakekelwa, ngaphandle kwenzalo yazo. Nokho, bayakhuthazwa kakhulu ukuthi bafunde noma bahole imisebenzi eyenziwa ngezandla. “Lapha, sinezaba ezinhle zokuhileleka emisebenzini emnandi njengokuphatha ipulasitiki amahora amaningi! », Uyajabula u-Aurélie ngenkathi ezama ukusuka kancane endodakazini yakhe u-Fanny ongavumeli ukuhamba yedwa. “Ubunzima kubazali, ekuqaleni noma ngabe yikuphi, wukulawula isikhathi sabo sokuba khona phakathi kwengane yabo nesabanye, kubuza uDaniel. Kufanele banakekele izingane ezimbalwa, kuyilapho begcina isikhathi sangempela sobudlelwane nengane yabo encane kakhulu ukuthi ingaqonda ukuqhelelana. Abanye abantu ngezinye izikhathi bakhathazeka ngokuziphatha kwabancane babo. Kumele baqiniswe idolo ngokubakhumbuza ukuthi uma bengekho ingane yabo ayifani nhlobo. »I-classic enhle.

Okungaphezu kohlobo lokunakekela izingane

Ntambama, uMarc no-Aurélie badedela abanye omama ababili. UMarjorie, umama kaMicha, ubonakala ekhululekile lapho ephakathi kwezingane zabanye abantu. Ngokwejwayelekile, usonyakeni wakhe wesihlanu enkulisa yabazali. “Kungaphezu kohlobo lokunakekela izingane, kuwukuzibophezela ngokubambisana. Futhi kwabanye, cishe umsebenzi wetoho. Kufanele uyifune ngempela. Kimi, izinsizakalo ezitholakala ku-call nezingane bezilokhu zikhona igumbi lokunciphisa umoya, umoya wokuphefumula. “ Ngasohlangothini lochwepheshe, ugqozi kufanele lube khona. “Ukwamukela abazali kuwusizo olukhulu kithi,” kuqinisekisa uDaniel. Kodwa kwabanye, kungase kube amahloni. Ngoba kumele ube nesiqiniseko salokho okwethulayo. Mayelana nokunakekelwa kwezingane, sivame ukuthatha esikutholayo, okutholakalayo. Kodwa enkulisa yabazali, abazali, njengabachwepheshe, abakaze babe khona ngengozi.

Ibiza malini inkulisa yabazali?

Intengo yezinkulisa zabazali iyahlukahluka. Impela, inani lizoncika ezintweni ezimbalwa njengentengo yokuqasha yezakhiwo zenkulisa, noma iziqu zabantu abaqashiwe, noma iholo lakho. Alikho inani eliqondile, ngokungafani nezindawo zokufundela zikamasipala. Thola okwengeziwe enkulisa yabazali oyithandayo. 

Ungavula kanjani inkulisa yabazali?

Ingabe unomdlandla futhi ufuna ukuzivulela inkulisa yabazali? Kuzodingeka udlule inombolo izinyathelo zokuphatha ukuze ufike lapho. Okokuqala, kufanele uthole abanye abazali abagqugquzelekile futhi bathole umthetho wenhlangano 1901 (nomongameli, unobhala kanye nomgcinimafa). Ngemuva kwalokho, kuzodingeka usebenze ngokubambisana ne-Caisse d'Allocations Familiale (CAF) ezokusiza ukusungula iphrojekthi yakho yezemfundo futhi ikuqondise osizweni olungase lube khona. Okokugcina, Ukuvikelwa Komama Nengane kuyodingeka kugunyaze ukuvulwa kwenkulisa ngokwemibandela eyahlukene (inhlanzeko, indawo, umthamo wokwamukela, abasebenzi, njll.).