Le ukuphazamiseka kobuntu kwe-narcissistic njengoba sesichazile kuyisimo esiyivelakancane. Esikubona kaningi emtholampilo ngabantu abanezici ezithile noma ngaphezulu zalobu buntu, ngaphandle kokuba nazo zonke. Njengodokotela, angikhululekile ngegama elithi "i-narcissistic perversion" ukusho lesi simo.

Ukuba "ophambene", ngokusho URobert omncane, lisho ukuthi: “Othanda ukwenza okubi, othanda ukwenza okubi”, okufana nokuthi “okhohlakele”, “okhohlakele”, “omubi”, “okhohlakele”. Umuntu “one-narcissistic personality disorder” akahlangabezani nale ncazelo.

Uma, ngenkathi ufunda leli shidi, ubonakala uzibona kulezi zici esizichazayo, ukusabela kwakho kokuqala kuzoba ukwenqaba ukubona leli qiniso ngoba awukwazanga ukwamukela ukuthi okuthile kungafiphaza isithombe sakho samandla nokuphelela. Kodwa iqiniso lihlala liwukuthi cishe unezinkinga ezicini eziningana zempilo yakho, njengobudlelwane bakho nabanye abantu ezingeni lempilo yakho yomshado, umndeni kanye nenhlalo, kanye nasemsebenzini wakho. Ungase uzizwe udabukile futhi ngokuvamile udidwe imizwelo engqubuzanayo. Uthola nokuthi abantu ohlezi nabo abakubongi ngempela ukuba khona kwakho futhi ubudlelwano bakho abugculisi.

Uma lesi simo sifana nesakho, cabanga ukubonana nodokotela wezengqondo noma udokotela omethembayo. Ukwelashwa okufanele (ukwelashwa komuntu ngamunye, umndeni, noma iqembu) kungenza impilo yakho ibe nomvuzo futhi ijabulise kakhulu.

UDkt Jacques Allard MD FCMFC