I-Option® Method (Option Process®) iyindlela yokukhula komuntu siqu edalwe u-American Barry Neil Kaufman ehlose ukulahla amaphethini akhe angalungile futhi akhethe injabulo. Kuleli phepha, uzothola ukuthi iyiphi indlela yokukhetha, izimiso zayo, umlando wayo, izinzuzo zayo, inkambo yeseshini kanye nokuqeqeshwa okudingekayo ukuze uzijwayeze.

Indlela Yokukhetha ichazwa ngaphezu kwakho konke njengenqubo yokukhula komuntu siqu. Amasu ayo ahlukene ahlose, ngamafuphi, ukuthola zonke izinhlobo zezindlela zokukhetha injabulo kunokungaphatheki kahle, ngobuningi bezimo. Noma kunjalo banesici sokwelashwa. Kuthiwa izinzuzo zabo zinemiphumela emibi esimweni sempilo engokwengqondo nengokomzimba.

Ngokwale ndlela, injabulo ingukukhetha, noma "ukungakhululeki" nokudabuka kuhlala kungenakugwenywa. U-Barry Kaufman kanye nabasekeli bendlela ye-Option bavikela umbono wokuthi ukugula akuyona into engaphezu kweyodwa yezindlela zokusinda zomuntu. Sivame ukuthambekela ekucabangeni ukuhlupheka kanye nokubonakaliswa kwakho okuhlukahlukene (ukuvukela, ukuzithoba, ukudabuka) njengengxenye engenakugwenywa yokuphila kwethu. Kodwa-ke, ngokusho kwabo, kungenzeka ukuthi kususwe le reflex endala futhi kuthathwe isu elisha lokusinda. Umuntu “angakhetha” ukuthula kwangaphakathi nenjabulo kunokuba abe isisulu sokuhlupheka kwakhe, ngisho nalapho edabukile noma ethukuthele.

Izimiso eziyinhloko

Umuntu angafinyelela indlela yenjabulo ngokuqaphela izinkolelo zakhe kanye nezinganekwane zakhe siqu - lokho wonke umuntu aye wakha kusukela ebuntwaneni ngemicabango, imizwa nokuziphatha ukuze azivikele ezweni langaphandle - futhi ikakhulukazi ngokuyiguqula. Ngamanye amazwi, lapho siqaphela ukuthi ukucindezeleka akuyona ukuphela kwendlela yokuphuma ebuhlungwini, sivulela injabulo nenjabulo.

Ngokuqondile, indlela Yokukhetha ihlanganisa isethi yamasu okufunda injabulo (noma “ukungafundi” ukungajabuli…) okusebenza, kuye ngesimo, kungaba ngezemfundo, ukwelapha noma ngendlela elula yokukhula komuntu siqu.

Isibonelo, inqubo yokukhetha inkhulumomphendvulwano, ephefumulelwe inqubo ye- "mirror", isivumela ukuthi sibuyele emuva emithonjeni yokungakhululeki. Ngokusekelwe kumzwelo - inzondo, intukuthelo, ukudabuka - okuvezwa ngumuntu, umeluleki ungabaza izinkolelo ezixhunywe kuyo, ukuze amsize ukuba azikhulule kuzo.

Eminye imibuzo ejwayelekile

Uzizwa udabukile Kungani? Uyakholelwa kulesi sizathu? Bekuzokwenzekani uma ungakukholwa? Ngabe ucabanga ukuthi lolu sizi alunakugwenywa? Kungani ukukholelwa? Bekuzokwenzekani uma ungakukholwa?

Ngokuvula umnyango kwamanye amathuba, futhi ngokucacisa izindaba, sihlose ukuqonda okunenhloso kokungakhululeki, isimo esibalulekile sokuthola ukuthula kwangaphakathi. Le nqubo ibonakala ngenhlonipho ejulile yemizwa yomuntu oyibizayo kanye nokuvuleka okukhulu komeluleki, ovame ukwethulwa ngokuthi "ukwamukelwa okungenamibandela". Umqondo wokuthi umuntu unguchwepheshe wakhe futhi unezinsiza zokubhekana nanoma yisiphi isimo (ulaka, ukushonelwa, ukuhlukaniswa, ukukhubazeka okungathi sína, njll.) nawo usenkabeni yenqubo. Iqhaza lomeluleki lokuphenya kanye nesibuko libalulekile, kodwa lokhu kwakamuva kufanele kuhlale kuyi-catalyst, kungalokothi kube umhlahlandlela.

I-Option Institute iphinde yenze uhlelo lwemindeni enengane ene-autism noma enolunye ukuphazamiseka kokukhula okugcwele (okufana ne-Asperger's syndrome). Lolu hlelo, oluqanjwe ngokuthi iSon-Rise, lube nesandla esikhulu ekudumeni kwalesi sikhungo. Abazali abamukela uhlelo lwe-Son-Rise abakhethi nje indlela yokungenelela, kodwa indlela yokuphila ngokoqobo. Ukuzinikela okunjalo kuhlanganisa izindleko eziphakeme, kokubili isikhathi nemali: uhlelo lwenziwa ekhaya, ngokusekelwa abangane namavolontiya, ngokuvamile isikhathi esigcwele, futhi ngezinye izikhathi esikhathini esingase sidlule iminyaka eminingana. .

Namuhla amaKaufman athi ngokulahla izinganekwane zomuntu siqu, umuntu angamukela futhi amthande ngokuphelele umuntu, ngisho nengane ehlukaniswe ngokuphelele nezwe langaphandle. Ngakho-ke, ngenxa yalolu thando olungenamibandela, umzali angakwazi ukuhlanganisa izwe lomntwana, amjoyine kulo mhlaba, amthambe, bese emmema ukuba eze kowethu.

Engosini yesikhungo se-Option, singakwazi ukufunda ubufakazi obuningi obuvela kubantu abanenkinga yezinkinga ezahlukahlukene, njengokuphazamiseka kwengqondo, ukudangala, kanye nezifo ezahlukahlukene zemvelaphi ye-psychosomatic, asebephinde bathola impilo yabo ngenxa yale ndlela. . Ngakho-ke, izinzuzo ezishiwo lapha azizange zibe isihloko sanoma yiziphi izifundo zesayensi kuze kube manje.

Ikhuthaza ukuthuthuka komuntu siqu

Kungokuphumelela ekwamukeleni lesi simo sothando olungenamibandela, kubo nakwabanye, lapho “abaphilile” bezokwazi ukwelapha amanxeba abo angaphakathi, nokuthambisa bese bekhetha injabulo. Ngaleyo ndlela bazofeza, kwelinye izinga, inqubo efana naleyo eyenziwa abantu abane-autistic abaqala ukusebenza futhi.

Ukusiza izingane ezine-autism noma okunye ukukhubazeka okukhulu kwentuthuko

Ucwaningo olulodwa kuphela olubonakala lushicilelwe ngale ndaba futhi lwabheka impilo yengqondo yemindeni ebambe iqhaza ohlelweni kunokusebenza kwayo. Uphethe ngokuthi le mindeni ingaphansi kwengcindezi enkulu futhi kufanele ikwazi ukwethemba ukwesekwa okwengeziwe, ikakhulukazi ngezikhathi lapho le ndlela ibonakala ingasebenzi kahle. Muva nje, indatshana eyashicilelwa ngo-2006 nayo ibika imiphumela yalolu cwaningo, kulokhu iphakamisa izimfuneko ezidingekayo zokuhlolwa kwezingane ezine-autism. Nokho, alukho ulwazi olusha olunikezwayo mayelana nokusebenza kahle kohlelo.

Funda ukwenza izinqumo ezingcono 

Indlela yokukhetha izovumela ukuthi kwenziwe izinqumo ezicacile nezinokuqonda

Yakha ukuzethemba

Hlanganisa izinsiza zakho: indlela ongakhetha ngayo izokwenza ukwazi ukuqaphela izinsiza zakho ngokuhlonza nokususa izinkolelo ezingezinhle.

I-Option Institute iphethe izinhlelo ezihlanganisa izingqikithi namafomula amaningi: Inketho Yenjabulo, Ukuzinikeza Amandla, Isifundo Semibhangqwana, Owesifazane Oyingqayizivele, Ukuzola Phakathi Kwezinxushunxushu, njll. Iningi lazo linikezwa ngesimo sokuhlala isikhathi eside noma esincane esikhungweni. (etholakala eMassachusetts).

Isikhungo sinikela nohlelo lokuqeqeshwa emakhaya (Ukukhetha ukuhlala ngenjabulo: isingeniso seNqubo Yokukhetha) ekuvumela ukuthi ufunde ngale ndlela ngokwakha iqembu lakho lokukhula. Ngengxoxo Yenketho, isevisi yocingo iyahlinzekwa.

Abeluleki bendlela Yokukhetha kanye nabaqeqeshi abavela kuhlelo lwe-Son-Rise bazilolongela ngokuzimela emazweni ambalwa ase-Europe nase-Canada. Bheka uhlu olukuwebhusayithi Yesikhungo 3.

E-Quebec, i-Option-Voix Centre inikeza ezinye zezinsizakalo eziqondene nendlela: inkhulumomphendvulwano esizeni noma ocingweni, izikhathi zezifundo ngendlela yokuKhetha, ukulungiselela noma ukulandelela imindeni ebambe iqhaza ohlelweni lwe-Son-Rise (bona Izimpawu zomhlaba).

Uchwepheshe

Kufanele igunyazwe ngokuphelele isikhungo Sokukhetha njengoba indlela yokukhetha kuwuphawu lokuthengisa olubhalisiwe.

Inkambo yeseshini

Ngezikhathi zengxoxo ozikhethela zona, ingxoxo ithatha cishe ihora futhi yenzeka ubuso nobuso noma ngocingo. Ngemuva kwezikhathi ezimbalwa, umuntu uvame ukuhlanganisa imigomo yaleli fomu lokuxoxisana, bese elisebenzisa ngokuzimela. Angase abize umeluleki futhi ngezikhathi ezithile, njengoba unethuluzi elilolwa ngezikhathi ezithile.

Iba ngumelaphi

Ukuqeqeshwa kunikezwa kuphela esikhungweni. Kunikezwa izitifiketi ezimbili: Inqubo Yokukhetha noma I-Son-Rise. Ayikho imfuneko yesikole edingekayo; ukukhethwa kwabazokhethwa kusekelwe ekuqondeni kwabo ifilosofi eyisisekelo kanye nasezingeni lokuzibandakanya kwabo.

U-Barry Kaufman nomkakhe u-Samahria baklame uhlelo lwe-Son-Rise ngokusekelwe kokuhlangenwe nakho kwabo siqu. Indaba yamaKaufmans kanye nendodana yabo uRaun, okwatholakala ukuthi une-autism eneminyaka eyodwa nesigamu ubudala, ilandiswa encwadini ethi A Miracle of Love kanye nefilimu ye-TV eyenziwe yi-NBC ebizwa ngokuthi Son-Rise: A Miracle. Yothando. Njengoba kungekho ukwelashwa kwemithi evamile okunikeza ithemba lokwelapha, noma ngisho nokwenza ngcono kwengane yabo, abakwaKaufman bathatha indlela esekelwe othandweni olungenamibandela.

Iminyaka emithathu, imini nobusuku, babeshintshana naye. Baye baba izibuko zangempela zengane yabo, belingisa ngokuhlelekile konke ukushukuma komzimba wakhe: ukushwibeka endaweni, ukukhasa phansi, ukuhlola iminwe yakhe phambi kwamehlo akhe, njll. Indlela iye yathela izithelo: kancane kancane, uRaun uye wavula izwe langaphandle. Manje njengoba esemdala, uneziqu zasenyuvesi zezimiso zokuziphatha ze-biomedical nezinkulumo emhlabeni wonke ngohlelo lwe-Son-Rise.