Ukukhulisa ngokwemvelo nokuba ngumzali ngokwemvelo

Umnyakazo wokubuyela emvelweni uyakhula futhi uyanda emphakathini wanamuhla. Kuyiqiniso, izinga lale phindelo lingahluka: umuntu uyayiphika imigomo, othile afunde esikoleni, umuntu abulale amagciwane futhi abelethele esibhedlela, nomunye ngasikhathi sinye.

U-Adele noMatt Allen babiza isitayela sabo sobuzali ngokuthi Cha Amabha. Kwehlela kwimvelo - kuphelele, kuphelele futhi kuhlanzekile. U-Allens uyenqaba imfundo nemithi yesimanje, kepha bakholelwa ngokuqinile ekunceliseni ibele. U-Adele wancelisa ingane yakhe yokuqala, indodana u-Ulysses, waze waba neminyaka eyisithupha. Khona-ke, ngokusho kwakhe, yena ngokwakhe wenqaba. Intombazane encane kunazo zonke okuthiwa u-Ostara ineminyaka emibili ubudala. Usanceliswa ibele.

U-Adele wazala izingane zombili ekhaya. Kwakukhona umyeni wakhe kuphela. Njengoba esho, wayezonda wona kanye umqondo wokuya esibhedlela ukuze abelethe. Okokuqala, wesaba ukuthi odokotela bazozama ukuphazamisa inqubo yemvelo yokubeletha. Okwesibili, wayengathandi ukuthi umuntu ongaphandle angambuka ngaleso sikhathi.

Ngaphezu kwalokho, u-Adele wenza ukuzalwa kwe-lotus - okusho ukuthi, inkaba ayizange inqunywe kuze kube yilapho ewa ngokwakhe. I-placenta yafafazwa ngosawoti ukuvimbela ukonakala, kwavuka amacembe ukuze kufihlwe iphunga. Ngemuva kwezinsuku eziyisithupha, inkaba yawa yodwa.

"Kwavela kwaba inkaba nje ephelele," u-Adele uyajabula. "Udinga nje ukugcina i-placenta ihlanzekile."

Abazali banesiqiniseko sokuthi ukuzalwa ekhaya kuphephe ngokuphelele. Ngaphezu kwalokho, bathi abawazi amacala lapho kukhona okungahambanga kahle.

Ama-Ulysses ahlala esinda ngokudla ubisi lwebele. Lapho kuzalwa udadewabo, umfana wayengajabule neze - phela wayesethole ubisi oluncane. Futhi ngemuva kweminyaka emibili, wanquma ukuthi ubenele.

Izingane zika-Adele noMatt zazingakaze ziye nhlobo esibhedlela. Abazange bagonywe. Imikhuhlane ilashwa ngejusi kalamula, izifo zamehlo - ngokufafaza ubisi lwebele emehlweni, futhi zonke ezinye izifo kubhekwana nazo ngamakhambi.

“Angisiboni isizathu sokufaka izinto zangaphandle egazini lezingane. Udinga ukusebenzisa izitshalo, amakhambi, - lapho umzimba wakho uzokwazi ukunqoba amabhaktheriya amabi futhi ungalimazi lawo amahle, ”u-Adele uqinisekile.

Umama uqinisekile: abasoze babonana nodokotela. Ngokubona kwakhe, azikho izifo ezingalungiswa ngaphandle kosizo lwezokwelapha ezisemthethweni.

“Noma ngabe nginomdlavuza, bengizokulwa nawo ngamakhambi emvelo. Nginesiqiniseko sokuthi bangaphilisa noma yini. Amakhambi angisize kaningi. Impilo yezingane ibaluleke kimi njengami. Ngakho-ke, nami ngizobaphatha ngendlela engingaziphatha ngayo, ”kusho u-Adele.

Elinye iphuzu lohlelo luka-Allen lokukhuliswa lilele ndawonye. Sobane silala embhedeni owodwa.

“Kuyinto elula kakhulu. Sivame ukubeka izingane embhedeni kuqala. U-Ulysses ulala sekwephuzile, kodwa njengoba engadingi ukuya esikoleni, lokhu akuyona inkinga - uzosukuma uma elele, ”kusho uNkk Allen.

Futhi safika kahle ephuzwini lesihlanu ohlwini lwezindlela zokufundisa zalo mndeni - asikho isikole. Esikhundleni sokuhlala emadeskini abo, u-Ulysses no-Ostara bachitha isikhathi ngaphandle befunda izitshalo. Ngemuva kwakho konke, yizilonda, kubalulekile ukuthi bazi ukuthi bazodlani nokuthi yini abangayidli.

"Kubalulekile kithina ukuthi izingane zikhulume nemvelo, nezitshalo nezilwane, hhayi ngamathoyizi epulasitiki," kuqinisekisa abazali.

U-Adele uyaziqhenya ngokuthi indodakazi yakhe eneminyaka emibili isivele ikwazi ukuhlukanisa okudliwayo nesitshalo esingadliwayo.

"Uthanda ukuthinta umhlabathi, adlale ngamaqabunga," kusho umama wakhe.

Ngasikhathi sinye, abazali bayaqaphela ukuthi ikhono lokufunda nokubhala lifinyeleleke kakhulu ezinganeni. Kepha ngeke bafundise u-Ulysses no-Ostara ngezindlela zendabuko: “Sebevele banentshisekelo yezinhlamvu nezinombolo. Bababona ezimpawu zomgwaqo, isibonelo, babuze ukuthi yini. Kuvela ukuthi ukufunda kuza ngokwemvelo. Futhi ulwazi lubekwa ezinganeni esikoleni, futhi lokhu akunakugqugquzela nganoma iyiphi indlela ukufunda. "

Indlela ekhethwe ngabazali, uma isebenza, ayikhanyi neze: ngeminyaka eyisithupha, u-Ulysses wazi izinhlamvu nezinombolo ezimbalwa kuphela. Kodwa lokhu akubakhathazi nakancane abazali: “Izingane ezazifundiswe emakhaya zimiselwe ukuphumelela njengosomabhizinisi ngokuzayo. Lokhu kungenxa yokuthi bayaqonda kwasekuqaleni ukuthi bafuna ukuzakhela ibhizinisi, futhi bangabi yisigqila somunye umuntu. "

Imibono ka-Adele ikhombisile ukuthi iyathandwa eNgilandi: une-blog ephumelele kahle ngohlelo lwakhe lobuzali. Umndeni ongajwayelekile uze wabizelwa ohlelweni lwezingxoxo kuthelevishini. Kepha umphumela wawungalindelekile: izingane "zemvelo" azizange zithinte izethameli nhlobo. U-Ulysses no-Ostara babengalawuleki nakancane, beziphathisa okwezidlakudla - benza imisindo yezilwane, bagijimela estudiyo futhi bacishe bakhuphukela emakhanda abaphathi. Abazali abakwazanga ukubathulisa. Konke lokhu kuphele ngokuthi intombazane izicwilise ibaleka - izethameli zibone ukuthi kunodaka olwandayo nxazonke zakhe…

“Kuyesabeka. Emva kwakho konke, abalawuleki ngokuphelele, abaqondi nhlobo ukuthi kuyini isiyalo nokukhuliswa, "- labo ababekhona babengathokozile neze" ngezingane "zemvelo.

Kuvela ukuthi u-Ulysses no-Ostara bebengajwayele ukubona abantu abaningi kangaka, futhi abakwazanga ukubhekana nokukhathazeka ngokweqile. Futhi imfundo ngaphandle kokuvinjelwa yinto engqubuzanayo.

“Izingane siziphatha ngenhlonipho njengabantu abalinganayo. Asikwazi uku-oda - singacela okuthile kubo kuphela, ”kuchaza u-Adele.

Kuze kwafika lapho izethameli zacela iziphathimandla zokugada ukuthi zinake umndeni wakwa-Allen. Labo, noma kunjalo, abatholanga lutho abangakhala ngalo - izingane ziphilile, zijabule, indlu ihlanzekile - futhi zishiye abazali bazo bodwa.

Manje abakwa-Allens baqoqa imali yokuya eCosta Rica. Bakholelwa ukuthi lapho kuphela bazokwazi ukuhlala ngokuhambisana ngokugcwele nemigomo yabo.

“Sifuna ukuba nesiqephu esikhulu somhlaba lapho sizokwazi ukutshala khona ukudla. Sifuna indawo eningi, sifuna ukufinyelela ezilwaneni zasendle esimweni sazo semvelo, ”kusho u-Allens.

Umndeni awunayo imali yokuthuthela komunye umkhawulo womhlaba. Umsebenzi wokubloga ka-Adele awulethi imali eyanele. Ngakho-ke, abakwa-Allens bamemezele ukuqoqwa kweminikelo: bafuna ukukhulisa amakhilogremu ayizinkulungwane eziyikhulu. Kuliqiniso, abayitholanga impendulo - abakwazanga ukuqoqa ngisho amaphesenti ayishumi alesi samba.