Njengabazali abaningi, uyazibuza ukuthi yisiphi isimo sengqondo esifanele ongasithatha lapho ubhekene “nepee poo” lomfowenu omncane noma amazwi anenhlamba omdala. Ngaphambi kokuba wenze okuthile, zinike isikhathi sokuqonda ukuthi lawa magama angena kanjani kulwazimagama lwengane yakho. Ingabe baye bazwakala ekhaya, esikoleni, njengengxenye yemisebenzi yangemva kwesikole? Uma lo mbuzo usucacisiwe, umsebenzi othi “misa amagama amabi” ungaqala.
Gxila enkulumweni
Kusukela eminyakeni engu-4, "i-sausage poo yegazi" kanye nezinto eziphuma kuyo ziyavela. Zixhunywe ekukhuleni kwengane, okuhambisana nesigaba sokuthola ukuhlanzeka kokugcina. Yini engaphansi kwebhodwe noma endlini yangasese, angathanda ukuyithinta, kodwa kwenqatshelwe. Ube esedabula lo mgoqo ngamazwi. Zikhulunywa ngenjongo yokuzijabulisa kanye nokuhlola imingcele ebekwe abantu abadala. Kukuwe, kulesi sikhathi, ukuchaza ukuthi lezi zinkulumo “ezishintshisana ngabangane” azinandawo ekhaya. Kodwa ungakhathazeki, i-"blood sausage poo" edumile inosuku lwalo futhi iyashabalala.
Nokho, azifaka engozini yokuthathelwa indawo amagama amabi. Isikhathi esiningi ingane ayiyazi incazelo. “Kumele uyitshele ingane ukuthi inhlamba isho ukuthini kanye nemiphumela ebuhlungu engaba nayo. Ukujezisa akusona isixazululo. ”, kusho u-Elise Macut, uthisha wezingane ezincane.
Kukini futhi, bazali, ukuthi nihole uphenyo: ingabe wawasho lawo mazwi amabi “ukukopela umuntu”, ingabe lesi isidingo sokuhlubuka noma indlela yokuveza ulaka lwakhe? “Ezinganeni, ukuba khona kwenhlamba kuvame ukuhlotshaniswa nesimo somndeni. Kufanele uvume amaphutha akho futhi ube yisibonelo enganeni yakho. Uma nakhona ekhuluma amagama amabi esikoleni, mphendule. Mkhuthaze ukuthi abe “yisibonelo esihle” phakathi kwabangane bakhe “, udwebela u-Elise Macut.
Cabangela ukusungula naye a ikhodi yokusebenzisa amagama anenhlamba :
> okungavunyelwe. Awukwazi ukukhuluma kanjalo nabantu, ngale kwalokho kuba yinhlamba futhi kungaba buhlungu kakhulu.
> okuyinto engenzima kangako. Igama elingcolile eliphunyuka esimweni esicasulayo. Lawa magama angemahle kakhulu enhlamba alimaza izindlebe zakho nokuthi kufanele ufunde ukulawula.
Kunoma yikuphi, isimo sengqondo esifanele ongasithola siwukusabela ngokushesha futhi ucele ingane ukuba ixolise. Kumelwe futhi kube enye yezindlela zakho zokucabanga uma isiqalekiso siphunyuka emlonyeni wakho, ngaphansi kwesijeziso sokulahlekelwa yikho konke ukwethembeka nezingane zakho ezisacathula.