Okuqukethwe
Fihla futhi ufune, usizi, ukulamba noma ukulala, lapho ezwa umzuzu wokusa emkhathizwe, ingane yethu yenza konke ukugwema ukulandelana okungenakugwemeka komsebenzi wesikole emakilasini aphansi. Singathanda ukuthola iresiphi yomlingo ukuze senze lo msebenzi wansuku zonke. Ngaphandle kokuphazamiseka kwemizwa!
Ngeseluleko sikaBernadette Dullin, umeluleki wezemfundo kanye nomqeqeshi wesikole nomndeni, Umsunguli wewebhusayithi ye-Happyparents, esabalalisa izindlela zokufunda ezijabulisayo kanye nombhali wencwadi ethi “Usizo, ingane yami inomsebenzi wesikole wasekhaya” (Umhl. Hugo New Life).
Izimbangela ezingaba khona
Ukwengeza ebunzimeni bezemfundo noma ubuvila obulula, lokhu kwenqaba kungaba ukubonakaliswa kokungakhululeki okulawula imicabango yakhe: ubunzima bobudlelwane nothisha wakhe, nabafundi afunda nabo, izinkinga zomndeni ... esikhundleni sokuhlala, ngemva kosuku oluchithwe kulesi simo esifanayo, ”kukhomba uBernadette Dullin, umeluleki wezemfundo nomqeqeshi wesikole nomndeni. Ekugcineni, kukhona okwethu okuhlangenwe nakho kwesikole okuvela kabusha! “Uma umzali ekhumbula kabi, ukukhathazeka kwakhe kuyavuseleleka, acasuke esaba ukuthi ngeke akwazi ukwenza umsebenzi, ingane iyazizwa futhi ikhanya ngokwengeziwe. “
Senza ukuthula ngomsebenzi wesikole
Sisungula inkhulumomphendvulwano nengane yethu ukuze sikhombe imithombo yalokhu kwenqaba futhi sikwazi ukusabela uma isithululela isifuba ngokuthi umngane uhlala eyicasula noma ukuthi uthisha uyithethisa kaningi. Akawuthandi yini umsebenzi wesikole? Ngokuqondile: ukungawafaki ku-zap kuyindlela engcono kakhulu yokuchitha isikhathi esincane kuwo ngaphandle kokuba nomsebenzi omningi okufanele wenziwe kamuva. "Ukusungula isiko kubalulekile ukuze athathe i-reflex ukuze ayenze ngendlela efanayo nokuxubha amazinyo", kuchaza umqeqeshi. Konke kusimo esipholile, kunezinto ezisetshenziswayo ezitholakalayo, ukonga isikhathi nokugxila.
Ingabe siyadlala ngaphambi noma ngemva komsebenzi wesikole? Ukwenza umsebenzi omnandi nomntwana, uma umsebenzi wakhe usuphelile, kuyakhuthaza. Ikakhulukazi uma ingane yethu encane isebenza ukubhekana nayo lapho ibuya esikoleni. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, singangabazi ukuqala ngomdlalo, uma sinomuzwa wokuthi udinga ukuphuma kancane ngaphambi kokufika phansi emsebenzini!
Uma kuba nobunzima ngesikhathi sokuzivocavoca ...
Ingabe uyazabalaza ngokujima? Kuphakathi kokuthi siyakwazi ukubhekana nalo msebenzi ngesikhathi sisasele, noma sidlulisela komunye umzali uma kungenzeka, ngoba “uma kwakheka umthombo wokucasuka noma isikhathi esesabekayo kumuntu omdala, umsebenzi wesikole uba njalo, phakathi nenqubo. , eyengane ”, ihlaziya uBernadette Dullin. Ngakho-ke, iseluleko sakhe sokudlala umsebenzi wesikole wesikole: sizama ukuwenza ube mnandi futhi uphathekayo. Ingabe kufanele afunde ukubala? Sidlala kumthengisi ngezinhlamvu zemali zangempela. Silulumagama okufanele uyibambe ngekhanda? Simenza akhe amagama sisebenzisa izinhlamvu kazibuthe esiqandisini. Uzosebenza ngenkathi ejabulisa ngaphandle kokwesaba ukwenza iphutha, ngoba, izindaba ezinhle, akukho ngane ene-phobia yokudlala. Futhi "sikhumbula kangcono esibhekana nakho", kucacisa uchwepheshe.