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Ukuvusa ukufa: isigaba esivamile ekukhuleni kwakho
Sekunesikhathi ingane yethu ikhuluma kakhulu ngokufa. Kusihlwa, ngaphambi kokuba silale, uyasiqabula futhi ethi, eneka izingalo zakhe: “Mama, ngikuthanda kanjalo!” Angifuni ufe. Uma uhamba, ngizokulandela esibhakabhakeni. Amazwi asizwisa ubuhlungu futhi asimangazayo singakwazi njalo ukukhuluma naye ngokufa. Uma lesi simo sibucayi ngempela, ukuvusa ukufa kuyinto evamile enganeni eneminyaka emi-4 noma engu-5, ethola umhlaba. “Ubona ngokufa kwesilwane sakhe esifuywayo noma ugogo noma umkhulu ukuthi ukuphila kuyadlula. Uzitshela ukuthi kungenzeka kubantu asondelene nabo, asondelene nabo futhi abahlale bemvikela. Uyazibuza nokuthi ungaba yini uma lokho kwenzeka kuye, ”kuchaza uDkt Olivier Chambon, udokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wengqondo.
Siyagwema ukuwenza inhlekisa
Uchwepheshe ucacisa ukuthi kusukela eminyakeni engu-6-7, ingane izozibuza imibuzo ekhona mayelana nokuphila, mayelana nemvelaphi yezwe, mayelana nokufa ... "Kodwa kusukela eminyakeni engu-9 kuphela. , ukuthi uyaqonda ukuthi ukufa kusemhlabeni wonke, unomphela futhi akunakuhlehliswa,” kunezela uJessica Sotto, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo. Nokho, kusukela esemncane, kufanele ukhulume naye ngalezi zihloko futhi uphendule imibuzo yakhe yokuqala mayelana nokufa ukuze umqinisekise. Uma siyibalekela incazelo, kungena okungashiwongo. Ukufa kuba yinto engavumelekile engamvalela kuye futhi imcindezele nakakhulu. Izincazelo zizoncika kumodeli, izinkolelo zalowo nalowo. Singasebenzisa futhi izincwadi ukuze sithole amagama afanele.
Ukufunda: “Isibindi sokukhuluma ngokufa ezinganeni”, uDkt Olivier Chambon, umhleli uGuy Trédaniel
Impendulo ecacile evumelana neminyaka yakhe nezimo
NgokukaJessica Sotto, kungcono ukugwema ukuthi umkhulu usezulwini, uzumekile, noma akasekho. Ingane ingase ilinde ukubuya kwayo, icabange ukuthi izoyibona uma ithatha indiza, noma ingase ife uma nayo ilala. Uma ukufa kubangelwa ukugula okubi kakhulu, kuqanjwe igama ukuze ingane ingacabangi ukuthi ingabulawa umkhuhlane nje. Kufanele ucace. “Simtshela ukuthi isikhathi esiningi sishona sesibadala, okuyinto engekho. Siyamchazela ukuthi umzimba awusanyakazi, nokuthi noma umzimba wakhe ungasekho kodwa singaqhubeka nokumkhumbula lo muntu,” kuphakamisa ungoti. Ngakho, impendulo ecacile nevumelana nezimo kuyomsiza ukuba aqonde futhi azole.