Vula isilayidi, uboleke umaka, dlala eduze kwabanye, kwabanye kubonakala kulula kakhulu. Hhayi nge-loulou yakho. Uma simfica emgqeni we-toboggan, uma sithatha ithoyizi lakhe, uhlala eqinile, sengathi udidekile. Nokho, ekhaya, uyakwazi ukuzigomela! Kodwa lapho enabanye abantwana, awusamazi. Futhi lokho kuyakukhathaza.
Umbuzo wokuziphatha
Enkulisa, abasizi bokunakekela izingane babona ukusabela kozwela, izingxoxo kanye nokuxhumana phakathi kwezingane ezisukela ezinyangeni eziyisi-6. Yiqiniso, enganeni engakaze ibe semphakathini kuze kube manje, ukuya komunye kusha, futhi akucaci: “Eminyakeni emi-3, ingane ayithuthukeli endaweni enqotshiwe, isuke iqaphela ukuthi kukhona omunye. , ezifanayo nezihlukile, ” kuchaza uNour-Eddine Benzohra, udokotela wezingane nodokotela wengqondo *. Uma nje engumntwana oyedwa, lokhu kwenza izinto zibe nzima nakakhulu, ngokuqinisa ukwesaba kwakhe, umbono wakhe wokungajwayelekile phambi komunye. Kodwa imfundo akuyona yonke into: kukhona nombuzo wesimo sengqondo. Ezinye izingane ezincane zisho ngokuzwakalayo nangokucacile, kuyilapho ezinye zihoxa ngokwemvelo.
Ilungelo lokuthi “cha”
Lokhu akukhona ukuziphatha okufanele kushaywe indiva noma ukuthathwa kalula ngokuphikisana ngokuthi nawe unamahloni, futhi kuwuphawu lomndeni: ingane yakho idinga ukufunda ukwenqaba. Kumele azi ukuthi unelungelo lokwenza kanjalo. Ukumsiza, singabamba iqhaza ekulingiseni: udlala “ukucasuka”, futhi umkhuthaze ukuba asho phezulu: “Cha! Ngiyadlala ! Noma “Cha, angivumi!” »Esigcawini, yenza umsebenzi ongokoqobo: mphelezele ukuze aqoqe ithoyizi lakhe futhi umvumele aveze imizwa yakhe.
Incwadi yabazali
“Idikhoda encane enezithombe yengane esesimweni esibucayi”, Ngu-Anne-Claire Kleindienst kanye noLynda Corazza, ed. Umango, € 14,95. : cLe ncwadi eyenziwe kahle kakhulu, ebhalwe njengomhlahlandlela osebenzayo, isisiza ukuthi siqonde kangcono imizwa yethu, futhi inikeza izindlela ezigqugquzelwe imfundo eyakhayo.
Khuluma nothisha
“Kwesinye isikhathi ingane ayilokothi ikhulume nomzali ngayo, iba namahloni, yesaba ukulimaza, ibheka udokotela wengqondo. Yingakho kubalulekile ukunaka indlela abukeka ngayo uma ephuma esikoleni. Ngempela, kusukela enkulisa, "ikhanda laseTurkey" lingavela. Kufanele sihlale siqaphile. Mbuze: kwenzekeni ngempela? Ingabe uthisha umbonile? Ingabe wamtshela ngakho? Wathini ? Sizinika isikhathi sokuyilalela ngomoya ophansi. Ukhunjuzwa ukuthi uma ecasukile kumele akhulume nothisha. Siyazixwayisa uma sizwa ukungakhululeki okuphindaphindiwe enganeni. Konke lokhu ngaphandle kokulingisa, futhi ikakhulukazi ngaphandle kokuzizwa benecala, ngisho noma sinomuzwa wokudlulisela ufuzo lwamahloni kuye! “Uma umzali ezizwa enecala, isimo siba sibi kakhulu, kusho uDkt. Benzohra: ingane izwa leli cala, izithola ivinjiwe, ingakwazi ukuzisiza lapho ibhekene nenkinga evele idlulele ezingeni eliyihaba. Ukuze usize ingane yakho, kufanele uqale ubeke izinto ngendlela efanele futhi uhlehlise idrama.