Ingane yami iyibhodwe langempela leglue!

Ibhodwe le-Baby glue kusukela koyedwa kuya kwemibili ubudala: isidingo semvelo kule minyaka

Kungokwemvelo ukuba ingane isondelane kakhulu nonina ize ibe neminyaka emibili ubudala. Kancane kancane, uzozuza ukuzimela ngejubane lakhe. Siyameseka kulokhu kutholwa ngaphandle kokumphuthuma, ngoba lesi sidingo asibaluleki kuze kube yizinyanga eziyi-18. Phakathi kweminyaka engu-1 no-3 ubudala, ingane izoshintsha ngaleyo ndlela phakathi kwezikhathi zokuqinisekisa, lapho izozibonakalisa khona "i-glue pot", nezinye zokuhlola umhlaba ozungezile. Kodwa kule minyaka, lokhu kunamathiselwe ngokweqile akuyona indlela yokuhlola imingcele ebekwe abazali bakhe, noma ihlobene nentando yokuba namandla onke engxenyeni yengane, ngoba ubuchopho bakhe abukwazi. Ngakho-ke kubalulekile hhayi ukungqubuzana naye ngokudlala ukuthi ngubani onamandla kunabo bonke noma ngokumgxeka ngokwenza amasu. Kungcono ukumqinisekisa ngokumnika ukunakwa akudingayo, ngokwenza okuthile naye, ngokumfundela izindaba ...

Ibhodwe eligoqayo leglue eneminyaka engu-3 - 4 ubudala: isidingo sokuphepha kwangaphakathi?

Ngenkathi ingane yayiwuhlobo olunelukuluku lokufuna ukwazi futhi iphendukela emhlabeni, iyashintsha indlela yakhe yokuziphatha futhi ayishiyi unina ngedwa. Umlandela yonke indawo, futhi ukhala izinyembezi ezishisayo ngokushesha nje lapho ehamba ... Uma umuntu ethintwa isimo sakhe sengqondo, esingahunyushwa njengokuqubuka kothando, isimo siba nzima ukusilawula . Ngakho singamsiza kanjani ukuze wonke umuntu athole inkululeko ethile?

Emsuka wesimo sengqondo "ibhodwe leglue", ukukhathazeka kokuhlukana

Kunezizathu eziningana zokuziphatha okunjalo enganeni. Ukushintsha izimpawu zendawo - isibonelo ukuqala isikole ngesikhathi nindawonye kuze kube yileso sikhathi, ukuthutha, isehlukaniso, ukufika komntwana emndenini… - kungaholela ekukhathazekeni ngokwehlukana. Ingane yakho futhi ingasabela kanjena kulandela amanga. “Uma uthululela isifuba kuye uthi uzobuya futhi umthole ngakusasa, angase esabe ukushiywa. Ngisho noma ufuna ukugwema ukumkhathaza, kufanele uhlale uhlangene futhi ucacile ukuze ulondoloze ukuzethemba anakho kuwe, ”kuchaza uLise Bartoli, udokotela wezengqondo. Uma umtshele ngokuphindaphindiwe ukuthi kuyingozi ukuhamba kude nawe, noma uma ezwe izindaba ezinobudlova ku-TV, angase aqale ukukhathazeka. Abanye abancane, ngaphezu kwalokho, ngokwemvelo ukukhathazeka kakhulu kunabanye, ngokuvamile njengabazali babo!

Isicelo esiqulekile esivela kubazali ...

Uma thina ngokwethu sizizwa silahliwe, noma sikhathazekile, ngezinye izikhathi singalinda ngokungazi ukuthi ingane igcwalise ukudideka kwethu. Uyobe esenelisa isidingo sikanina ngokungazi, enqaba ukumshiya yedwa. Uhlangothi lwayo "ibhodwe leglue" lungafika futhi yenkinga ye-transgenerational. Kungenzeka ukuthi uke wabhekana nokukhathazeka ngokwehlukana ngokwakho ngeminyaka efanayo futhi kungenzeka ukuthi kugxilile ku-subconscious yakho. Ingane yakho iyakuzwa, ingazi ukuthi kungani, futhi iyesaba ukukushiya. Isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo u-Isabelle Filliozat unikeza isibonelo sikababa onengane eneminyaka emithathu ubudala eyayikhala futhi ithukuthele kakhulu lapho eyishiya esikoleni. Ubaba wabe esebona ukuthi ngesikhathi esifanayo, abazali bakhe baxosha umzanyana ayesondelene kakhulu naye, bekubona kungenasidingo sokuba khona kwakhe ngenxa yokungena kwakhe esikoleni. Ngaleyo ndlela ingane yazizwa sengathi uyise ucindezelekile, engazi ukuthi uzoyihumusha kanjani, yabe isithatha izintambo zokulahlwa okwakungakaze kukhalelwe yile ngane! Ngakho, into yokuqala okufanele uyenze iwukudambisa izinkathazo zomuntu siqu ukuze angazidluliseli engozini.

Yehlisa uvalo lwakhe

Ukucabangela, ukuphumula, i-yoga noma izivivinyo zokuzindla kungasiza ngokukuvumela ukuthi uqonde ukusebenza kwakho futhi ukwazi ukuzichaza. “Ungase uthi enganeni yakho: 'Umama ukhathazekile ngoba … Kodwa ungakhathazeki, uMama uzoyinakekela futhi kuzoba ngcono ngemva kwalokho'. Uzobe eseqonda ukuthi ukukhathazeka kwabantu abadala okunganqotshwa, ”kweluleka uLise Bartoli. Ngakolunye uhlangothi, gwema ukumbuza ukuthi kungani ekulandela, noma ukushiya wedwa. Wayezizwa enephutha, lapho engenayo impendulo, futhi lokho kwakumenza abe novalo.

Thola usizo kudokotela wezengqondo

Uma naphezu kwakho konke, ukukhathazeka kwengane yakho kuhlala isikhathi eside futhi ikulandela njalo, ungangabazi ukukhuluma nodokotela wengqondo yengane, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo ... Uzokusiza uthole i-trigger, ukuxazulula inkinga. isimo. Kuzoqinisekisa ingane yakho ngezinganekwane ezingokomfanekiso, izivivinyo zokubuka ngeso lengqondo… Okokugcina, uma ulindelwe ushintsho olukhulu futhi ubeka engcupheni yokuphazamisa amabhentshimakhi ayo, ungayilungiselela ngezincwadi ezikhuluma ngale ndaba.