Okuqukethwe
😉 Sanibonani nonke! Ukuze ushade ngempumelelo nomNtaliyane, udinga ukucabangela amanye ama-nuances. Ake sikhulume ngalokhu esihlokweni futhi sibuke ividiyo.
I-Italy iyisidlo esimnandi, ulwandle olufudumele kanye namagugu amasiko ayigugu. Futhi kuthiwani ngomculo wase-Italy?! Ngeke ashiye muntu engenandaba! Kodwa namuhla - mayelana nabanumzane! Amantombazane aseRussia adinga ukutadisha okuhle nokubi kwengqondo yamadoda ase-Italy ngaphambi kokushada nomNtaliyane.
Umqondo wamadoda ase-Italy
AmaNtaliyane anomoya owedlulele. Umlingiswa wabo wezwe uhluke kakhulu kunesiRashiya. Emehlweni abantu bakwamanye amazwe, i-Italy iyizwe elimibalabala neliyingqayizivele. Kodwa empilweni yangempela, izokunikeza ngezimanga eziningi (hhayi ezihlale zijabulisa).
Ake siqale ngokuhle. AmaNtaliyane anomculo kakhulu, amaningi awo anezwi elimnandi lokucula. Amehlo endawo alungele ukujabulisa abathandekayo bawo ngama-serenade okungenani njalo kusihlwa.
Amahemuhemu mayelana nemvelo eshisayo kanye nokwanda kobulili bamadoda ase-Italy ayiqiniso. Cishe bonke bangabangcweti bothando, abazi okuningi hhayi nje ekuzijabuliseni okuseduze, kodwa nasekuncomeni nasekuqomeni. Njengabo bonke abantu baseningizimu, amaNtaliyane athanda ukwenza izithembiso ezinhle, kodwa ukuthi ziyafeza yini kuncike kumuntu.
Abesilisa ngokuzithandela ukusiza abesifazane ngemali. Bangakwazi ukunikeza amantombazane ukheshi ngemali yephakethe, noma bangavele bathenge igrosa, banikeze izipho eziwusizo.
Kodwa akufanele ulindele ukupha okukhulu kulawa madoda. Banikeza owesifazane imali ngendlela elinganiselwe ukuze angakwazi ukusaphaza, kodwa asebenzise imali eningi njengoba kudingekile ezintweni ezibalulekile.
AmaNtaliyane athanda ukuxhumana okubukhoma (futhi awathandi "ukuzikhipha" ku-inthanethi, ngendlela). Bajwayele ukuvakashela, bavakashele izihlobo. Bathanda ukuya ebholeni nabangani. Ubhiya uthandwa kakhulu phakathi kophuzo oludakayo. Azikho izidakwa eziningi kuleli zwe, okuyinto ehlanganisa ngokuphelele omakoti bethu.
Amadoda aseNtaliyane ebuhlotsheni
Isoka elinakekelayo futhi elinesithunzi lingaba umuntu ohluke ngokuphelele ngemva komshado. Phakathi nenkathi yamaswidi nezimbali, uzobonakala kuwe ngokungenangqondo enothando futhi enomusa, kodwa ngokushesha nje lapho ethola amalungelo angokomthetho kuwe, uzobonisa ngokushesha isimo somona somnikazi.
Imibhangqwana yase-Italy ihlezi ocingweni, inomona ngomunye nomunye futhi ilungisa izinto. Mhlawumbe emantombazaneni endawo lokhu kuhlelekile, kodwa sijwayele ukuphila okuzolile nokulinganiswayo.
Isoka lase-Italy lizobiza njalo ngemizuzu emihlanu ukuze liqaphe ukunyakaza kwesithandwa sakhe. Kodwa lokhu akakubheki njengokuthatheka noma isibonakaliso sokucindezela. Eqinisweni, ukhathazekile futhi uyamkhathalela owesifazane, uzizwa enesibopho ngaye.
Kodwa-ke, abantu abaningi baseNtaliyane baba omashiqela emndenini, ngoba lokhu kuqhutshwa umoya wabo oshisekayo kanye nokukhuliswa kwabo ngendlela ehlelekile. Yebo, akufanele ulinganise wonke amaNtaliyane ngaphansi kombusi ofanayo. Kukhona amadoda amaningi anemizwa, kodwa azwelayo futhi anesimo esihle phakathi kwawo. Umuntu unenhlanhla kanje.
Udinga umkhwenyana onjani?
Uma uhlose ukushada nomNtaliyane, kufanele uqale unqume ukuthi hlobo luni lomkhwenyana oludingayo. Uma uzimisele “ukuhlanganisa” indoda ecebile ebukekayo, uzoba nesikhathi esinzima. Iqiniso liwukuthi emindenini yase-Italy, cishe yonke into inqunywa ngabazali, ikakhulukazi uma umndeni uhloniphekile futhi ucebile.
Abazali abasoze banikela ngendodana yabo ethandekayo “ukuba idwengulwe” umuntu wesinye isizwe onobuqili nganoma yini esemhlabeni! Amantombazane endawo nawo awafuni ukushada nabampofu. Ngakho-ke, amadoda ase-Italy ampofu futhi angemuhle kakhulu ahlala engaziwa "emakethe yasekhaya".
Ngakho-ke, baphendukela kwabesifazane bezinye izizwe abangenalwazi, amakhanda abo izinganekwane ezingenakuphuma nganoma iyiphi indlela.
Ukufika e-Italy, ngeke kudingeke ufune umnumzane isikhathi eside. Bazokuthola ngokwabo. AmaNtaliyane akhangwa ubuhle baseRussia obuyinkimbinkimbi - isikhumba esihle nezinwele, imodeli encane.
Nokho, usengozini yokuhlangana nomuntu ompofu “ongafunwanga”, noma indoda ehlukanisile enenqwaba yezingane, noma i-Casanova. Ngakho-ke, qaphela futhi ungajahi ukuthakathwa ubukhazikhazi base-Italy.
Izici zomndeni wase-Italy
E-Italy, kunehlelo langempela lomama. Ngeshwa, ngenxa yalokhu, kunamadodana amaningi kamama, empeleni, awadingi umfazi, kodwa umzanyana. Kodwa ngisho nendoda ezimele iyohlale ilalela umbono kamama wayo. Uma umakoti engamjabulisi umkhwekazi wakusasa ngento ethile, khona-ke ulahlekile.
Abazali banethonya elikhulu ngisho noma umbhangqwana uhlala ngokwehlukana. Yiqiniso, kukhona nabantu abanemibono yesimanje kuleli zwe abazama ukungagxambukeli ekuphileni komshado wezingane. Kodwa zilungiselele iqiniso lokuthi uzohlangana nomndeni wendabuko.
AmaNtaliyane athanda ukuhamba aye kwesokunxele ngoba anothando kakhulu futhi amakhosikazi awakwazi njalo ukufeza izidingo zawo. Kodwa inkosikazi ngokwayo ayikwazi ngisho nokucabanga ngokukopela noma ukudlala ngothando nenye indoda. Zonke izihlobo zomyeni wakho zizokulahla ngokushesha, futhi umamezala uzocabangisisa ngokuziphatha kwakho.
Umyeni wakho nabantwana kufanele beze kuqala. Uma kufanele uhlale ekhaya ngalokhu, makube njalo. Kunoma yikuphi, kuzoba nzima kakhulu kumuntu wangaphandle ukuthola umsebenzi ojwayelekile, ngisho namadiploma amathathu. Futhi ukushada nomNtaliyane nokugeza izitsha endaweni yokucima ukoma akuyona ithemba elikhanyayo kakhulu.
Umyeni wase-Italy uzokweseka ngokugcwele wena nezingane, kodwa uzothola imali eningi oyidingayo yokuthuthukisa ikhaya nokunethezeka komndeni. AmaNtaliyane abheka amantombazane njengabangase babe amakhosikazi nomama, hhayi njengabanomoya, abanomoya abajabulela ukusebenzisa imali yabayeni babo.
Emuva ekhulwini lama-20, isehlukaniso savinjelwa e-Italy. Manje ukuqulwa kwesehlukaniso kuyinkimbinkimbi futhi yinde, futhi ezindabeni zezingane, inkantolo ithatha uhlangothi lwendoda. Umndeni womyeni ngeke ufune ukunikeza ingane “kumuntu wangaphandle ongenangqondo”.
Uma ushadele esontweni lamaKhatholika, uzocela imvume kuPapa yokudivosa!
Yiqiniso, zonke lezi ezimbi ezingenhla, ngendlela efanele, zingashintshwa zibe izinzuzo. Into esemqoka ukubheka izinto ngempela, ukunquma izinto eziza kuqala hhayi ukwakha izinqaba emoyeni.
Bantu besifazane abathandekayo, shiyani izeluleko zenu kokuhlangenwe nakho komuntu siqu kokuthi ungashada kanjani ngempumelelo nomNtaliyane. 🙂 Ingabe lolu lwazi lube lusizo kuwe?