Kulo nyaka kunamafilimu amahlanu abambe iqhaza. Kodwa kukhona futhi yaseshashalazini, umsebenzi isisekelo sosizo «Artist» kanye nokulungiswa endlini yezwe, okuyinto ethatha umzamo omkhulu. Ngobusuku bangaphambi kokuqala kwefilimu ethi "Billion", ezokwenzeka ngo-Ephreli 18, sahlangana nomdlali wendima, umlingisi uMaria Mironova, ophethe yonke into - futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo uchitha isikhathi esiningi kune ngaphambili nabathandekayo bakhe kanye naye.
IMercedes kaMaria ifika ngesikhathi lapho kuzoshuthwa khona. Uyazishayela: izinwele zakhe zifake ibhansi, hhayi i-ounce of makeup, ibhantshi elinombala okhanyayo, ijini. Ekuphileni kwansuku zonke, umlingisi weLenkom ukhetha isithombe esingeyona inkanyezi ngokuphelele. Futhi ngaphambi kokungena ohlakeni, uMironova uyavuma: “Angithandi ukugqoka nokulungisa izimonyo. Kimina, lena "indaba yesikhathi esilahlekile." Izimpahla eziyizintandokazi izikibha namajini. Mhlawumbe ngoba azikuvimbeli ukunyakaza futhi zimvumela ukuthi asheshe, agijime ngokushesha lapho efuna ...
Psychology: Maria, bengicabanga ukuthi uthanda ukugqoka. Ku-Instagram (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia), uhlala “usohambeni”.
UMaria Mironova: Ngidinga i-Instagram (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia) ngomsebenzi. Kuyo, ngikhuluma ngama-premiere ami, imidlalo yokuqala yendodana yami, futhi ngimemezela izehlakalo ze-Artist Foundation yethu. Futhi ngaphandle kwalokho, ngiyacwaninga. Kube mnandi kimina ukuthola ukuthi yini eyenza izinkulungwane zabantu, njengaku-Dom-2, zikhombise okuthile kwabanye njalo ngemizuzu engama-20. Phela, ngemuva kwalokhu ukulahlekelwa umuzwa weqiniso, ukuxhumana. Ngibone amakhasi anezigidi zababhalisile - abadali bawo banempilo yokudayisa, futhi asikho nhlobo isikhathi salokho okubizwa ngokuthi impilo. Ngize ngafinyelela ezintweni ezifana nezibalo, ukusebenzelana, lapho okuthunyelwe kwakho kuhlelwa ngokuya ngokuthi bangaki abantu obahehe, oyedwa noma isigidi...
Futhi yini oyitholile? Yiziphi izithombe ezigqoke izingubo zokubhukuda eziheha kakhulu kunezinye?
Hhayi-ke, akusho lutho. Noma ukusebenzelana nezithameli. Kodwa kuyinto eyodwa ukuzitholela lezi zindlela, kanye nokunye ukuzisebenzisa. Futhi ngenxa yokuthi cishe ngeke ngiqoqe ababhalisile abayisigidi. Ngingakwazi ukwabelana, isibonelo, isithombe esivela e-Brazil — ngiseholidini, futhi sihle kakhulu lapho kangangokuthi sithatha umoya wakho. Kodwa uzithwebula phambi kwesibuko, zonke lezo zindlebe ezimise okwenhliziyo… (Uyahleka.) Cha, akuzona ezami. Futhi i-Facebook (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia) nayo: ukucabanga okuningi, abantu bahlala embhedeni futhi banqume isiphetho sezwe. Nakuba kunezinto eziningi ongayenza ngempela ekuphileni! Kulokhu, ngithanda i-Instagram (inhlangano eyeqisayo evinjelwe eRussia) ngaphezulu, ngoba lapho "Oh, yeka ukuthi umuhle kangakanani!" - kanye nembali.
Abavele bathumele izimbali. Kunamadoda avuma uthando lwawo kuwe bese ebuza ngomona athi: “Uzongishada nini?” Futhi kukhona labo abalahlayo - isibonelo, ngenxa yokuthi uthumele umama wakho, umlingisi odumile u-Ekaterina Gradova, ohlelweni lokulungisa oluphelele, nakuba kungenzeka ukuthi ulungise indlu yakhe ngokwakho.
Imiyalezo evela ezithandwa ezinomona angiyiphenduli ngoba kudala ngishadile. Kudala. Ukuthi nje angiyikhangisi: kunezindawo ezithandekayo kimi futhi engingafuni ukuvumela abantu bangaphandle ukuthi bangene. Mayelana nokuthi “Ukulungisa Okuphelele” … Uyabona, mayelana nohlelo ngalunye babhala: “Bebengeke bakwazi ukukukhokhela …” Babengakwazi. Akukho mayelana nalokho. Umama ungumuntu onesizotha kakhulu, iminyaka eminingi akazange avele emaphephandabeni noma esibukweni. Ngajabula ngokuthi waba nengxenye esimisweni. Futhi kwamjabulisa ukuthi ithimba le-Ideal Renovation lifuna ukumenzela okuthile. Ngaphezu kwakho konke, wayethanda izihlalo ezinamagama okuqala - lokhu manje kuyivelakancane emndenini wethu. Ukulungiswa kwengxenye yendlu yakhe kwangisiza, ukwakha ibhizinisi elimba eqolo.
Kulungile ke. Ingabe i-hype ezinkundleni zokuxhumana mayelana namamuvi ayikuthinti? Isibonelo sakamuva uchungechunge Lwendandatho Yengadi nawe endimeni yesihloko. Kuningi okulotshiwe ngaye - okuhle nokubi. Ukuthi kukhona wonke ama-scoundrels, ukuthi lokhu akukwazi ukuboniswa esiteshini esikhulu ...
Ngisho nalapho ngiqopha, ngangiqonda ukuthi kwakuzobangela isivunguvungu semizwa. Ngoba ku-"Garden Ring" wonke umuntu akayona nje ama-bastards nama-scoundrels, kodwa abantu abanhliziyo yabo ihlukumezekile kusukela ebuntwaneni. Futhi uma kungenzeka ukuhlola zonke izakhamuzi zezwe lethu nge-psychotherapists, khona-ke kuyoba neningi labo - ngokulimala nokuphambuka, nge-complex kanye nokungakwazi ukuthanda. Yingakho lolu chungechunge luheha kangaka. Ababukeli bathintwa ngokushesha.
I-heroine yakho, isazi sokusebenza kwengqondo, yahlala isikhathi eside ezingilazini ezinombala we-rose, nomyeni ocebile. Kepha lapho indodana yakhe inyamalala, kufanele adlule kulo mdlalo, abheke kabusha abathandekayo bakhe, ngempilo angayiphilanga, kodwa ayiphilayo, futhi afunde iqiniso elibi ngaye - angazi ukuthi enze kanjani. uthando. Ingabe bekunzima kuwe ukudlala?
Yebo. Angikaze ngibe nokukhathala okunjalo kusukela kuhlelo (sadubula ngeziqephu ezinkulu, ngokushesha, izinyanga ezintathu), kusukela ekushubeni kwezinkanuko. Futhi kulokhu okwenzeka kimi kuphela. Ngokwesibonelo, ngaphuma ngomnyango wengilazi ovaliwe lapho sithwebula ifilimu endlini yeqhawekazi lami. Esitezi sesibili kwakukhona indlu yokugezela enomnyango wengilazi, futhi "ngangena", ngishaya isiphongo sami kanzima. Futhi kuzolunga kanye - izikhathi ezintathu zilandelana!
Khona-ke, ngesikhathi sekhefu, umqondisi wesithombe (Alexey Smirnov. - Ed.) Sakhuluma ngento ethile ngentshiseko. Phakathi nengxabano, ngaphelelwa umusi futhi nganquma ukuhlala phansi - ngangiqiniseka ukuthi kwakukhona isihlalo ekhoneni. Ngakho-ke, ukuqhubeka nokuxoxa okuthile no-Alexei, kungazelelwe - hop! - Ngiziphonsa phansi. Bekufanele ukubonile ukukhuluma kwakhe! Akukaze kwenzeke kimi lokhu. Futhi bekungeke kwenzeke - kodwa ngeqhawekazi lami bekungenzeka. Nokho, lapho, ngokusho kombhalo, ethola ngokunyamalala kwendodana yakhe, ngagula ngokomzimba, kwaze kwadingeka ngibize i-ambulensi.
Efilimini, bonke abalingisi badlula ezilingweni, kodwa umlingiswa wakho kuphela oshintshayo. Kungani?
Kuyinkohliso enkulu ukuthi izilingo kumele ziguqule umuntu. Angase ashintshe noma angashintshi. Noma kungase kungabi khona izehlakalo ezinzima, njengeqhawekazi lami, kodwa umuntu usafuna ukuhluka, uyasizwa isidingo sakho. Njengoba kwakunjalo, isibonelo, nami. Sake saxoxa nomngane wami — ungowesifazane ophumelelayo, unebhizinisi elikhulu — futhi wathi: «Kulula kimina ukudiliza zonke izithiyo endleleni futhi ngidlule kuzo zonke izithiyo kunokuvuma ukuthi ukuhamba ngendlela engafanele." Lokhu bekulokhu kunzima kakhulu nakimi. Ngabona igoli, ngaya kulo, kodwa sengihambe phakathi nendawo, angizange ngivume ukuthi kwakungelona umgomo, angikwazanga ukudedela isimo.
Futhi yini ekusize?
Uthando lwami lwefilosofi, olwakhula lwaba uthando lwesayensi yokusebenza kwengqondo. Kodwa uma ifilosofi iyisayensi efile, ithuthukisa ubuhlakani kuphela, khona-ke i-psychology iyaphila, imayelana nendlela esihlelwe ngayo nokuthi singajabula kanjani sonke. Ngiqinisekile ukuthi kufanele ifundiswe ezikoleni. Ukuze kakade esemncane umuntu uzitholela yena imithetho esisebenzisana ngayo sonke, ukuze kamuva angahlangani namadrama okuphila, izingxabano ezingaxazululeki. Ukuze ungesabi ukuphendukela kusazi sokusebenza kwengqondo - emva kwakho konke, ezweni lakithi, abaningi basaqiniseka ukuthi lokhu kuwuhlobo oluthile lwe-whim, i-whim yabantu abacebile. Uma uthola uchwepheshe, uzokwazi ukuqeda izimo zengqondo ezingalungile, uzokwazi ukushintsha impilo yakho - ngoba uzoqala ukubheka okwenzekayo ngendlela ehlukile, i-angle izoshintsha.
Yini eshintshile umbono wakho ngomhlaba?
Ngake nganikezwa “Incwadi No. 1 mayelana nenjabulo” nguKline Carol noShimoff Marcy — lolu uhlobo oluthile lwezincwadi zezingane, iMcDonald’s yomfundi, lapho yonke into icacile futhi ifinyeleleka. Kwakukhona isibuko phezu kwekhava, futhi ngasithanda lesi sithombe kakhulu! Ukuphila kwethu konke kufana nomuntu ozibuka esibukweni. Futhi ngendlela abukeka ngayo lapho, le mpilo izoba njalo. Le ncwadi ilula, njengazo zonke izinto ezihlakaniphile, inikeza incazelo yomthetho oyisisekelo wempilo: nguwena kuphela ongashintsha umhlaba wakho, isiphetho sakho. Asikho isidingo sokuhlupheka, ukuzama ukuthonya ingane, umlingani, abazali, abanye. Ungazishintsha wena kuphela.
Uke wasebenza ne-psychotherapist?
Yebo. Kwaba nzima nje ukudedela isimo. Futhi ngazama ukulawula yonke into nawo wonke umuntu. Sebenza, ingane ... Bengingaphuzile okuthile, ngibala wonke ama-nuances. Angikaze ngithande ukugibela nomshayeli, ngangena ngemuva kwesondo ngokwami - ngakho-ke kwavela inkohliso yokuthi yonke into yayingaphansi kokulawula kwami. Kodwa lapho ngingena ezimweni lapho kungekho lutho oluncike kimi - isibonelo, ngangena endizeni - ngaqala ukwethuka. Wonke umuntu owayehamba nami wayedlala ngakho ngokungapheli. UPasha Kaplevich (umdwebi nomkhiqizi. - U-Ed.) wake wathi: "Lapho uhamba noMasha Mironova, kubonakala sengathi yena, njengo-Atlas, emahlombe akhe, ubambe yonke indiza. Ucabanga ukuthi uma eyeka ukumbamba uzoquleka.” (Uyahleka.) Ngesinye isikhathi, ngayeka ngokuphelele ukundiza. Kodwa ekugcineni, lokhu kwesaba kwangisiza - ngaphandle kwakho, bengingeke ngiqonde isizathu futhi bengingeke ngiqale ukuqeda lo mkhuba olawulayo. Okungukuthi, ngendlela, yadla isikhathi esiningi nomzamo.
Futhi izigidi zabantu azenzi lutho ngama-phobias azo. Hlala nabo, hlupheka, isipiliyoni.
Kusukela ebuntwaneni, bengilazi kahle igama elithi memento mori (“khumbula ukuthi ungumuntu ofayo”). Futhi kuyangixaka ukuthi abantu abaningi baphila sengathi basohlelweni, njengokungathi yonke into ingabhalwa kabusha nganoma yisiphi isikhathi. Futhi ngesikhathi esifanayo bahlale bekhononda, behlulela, behleba. Laba bantu banakho konke - impilo, amathuba, izingalo, imilenze, kodwa - uyaqonda? - anganelisekile! Yebo, konke lokhu okunganeliseki kwethu kuyenyanyeka kakhulu (ngikucela ukuba ushiye leli gama) nokungabongi kubantu abaye babhekana nobunzima bangempela - izimpi, indlala, izifo! Kodwa-ke, iSisekelo sethu samaciko singisizile ukukubona lokhu.
Kanye no-Yevgeny Mironov no-Igor Vernik, usiza abaculi abahlonishwayo, omakadebona basesiteji, abaningi babo ezimweni ezinzima zokuphila. Yini ekushukumisela ukuba wenze lokhu?
Uma ungekho ngaphakathi kohlaka "lokushiya indlu - ungene emotweni - waya emsebenzini - weza ekhaya", kodwa okungenani ubheke kancane, awukwazi ukubona ukuthi zingaki izinxibi ezihluphekayo. Futhi awukwazi ukuzibamba kodwa ufuna ukubasiza. Futhi lesi senzo - usizo - sinikeza uhlobo oluthile lomzwelo ongelona iqiniso lokuphila. Uyaqonda ukuthi kungani udinga ukuvuka ekuseni uye endaweni ethile. Kufana nejimu - kunzima, kuyanqikaza, kodwa uyahamba uqale ukwenza izivivinyo. Futhi - eshu! - ngokuzumayo uqaphela ukuthi umhlane wakho usuvele udlulile, futhi ukukhanya kuye kwavela emzimbeni wakho, futhi isimo sakho sengqondo sithuthukile. Wakha uhlelo, ugijime ndawana thize, vakashela umakadebona okungenani ihora. Bese ubona amehlo akhe futhi uyaqonda ukuthi umuntu udinga ukukhuluma. Futhi uhlala naye amahora amabili, amathathu - futhi ukhohlwe uhlelo lwakho oluyisiphukuphuku. Futhi uhamba unomuzwa wokuthi usuku aluphilanga ize.
Ngaso sonke isikhathi kwakubonakala sengathi inkinga yanoma isiphi isisekelo sosizo iwukunquma ukuthi ubani odinga usizo ngokwengeziwe. Uyini umbandela?
Isikhwama sethu saqala ngekhabhinethi yokufaka yomqondisi weNdlu yeCinema, uMargarita Alexandrovna Eskina, naye owayesesihlalweni sabakhubazekile iminyaka yokugcina yokuphila kwakhe futhi esaqhubeka nokuqoqa ama-oda omakadebona besiteji, wazama ukuthola okungenani ama-kopecks amathathu. wabasiza, wabalungisela ukudla kwakusihlwa. Ngemva kokushona kukaMargarita Alexandrovna, leli fayela lekhadi ladluliselwa kithi. Ayiqukethe nje imininingwane eyomile ngomuntu - konke okukuyo: kungakhathaliseki ukuthi akashadile noma umndeni, lokho agula ngakho, hlobo luni losizo oludingekayo. Kancane kancane, sadlulela ngalé komgwaqo i-Moscow Ring Road, sanakekela omakadebona emadolobheni amancane angu-50 … Ngikhumbula ukuthi ngonyaka wesibili womsebenzi, uJude Law wafika endalini yenhlangano esiza abantulayo ehlelwe yinhlangano yethu. Ngazama ukumchazela konke, kodwa akazange aqonde - uqoqa kubani imali? Okwani? EMelika, uma udlala ifilimu okungenani eyodwa, uzothola iphesenti lokuqashwa impilo yakho yonke. Kukhona nezinyunyana ezisizayo. Akunakwenzeka ukucabanga ukuthi, isibonelo, uLaurence Olivier wafa ebumpofu. Kwelakithi abaculi abanohlonze bayahamba, bengakwazi nokuthenga imithi.
Manje njengoba ukhuluma ngamaciko aphambili, bengicabanga ngomama wakho nobaba wakho. Imuphi kubo ofana kakhudlwana? Ingabe Mironovskaya noma Gradovskaya?
UNkulunkulu yimi. (Emamatheka.) Emndenini owodwa, ngibona abantu abahlukene kangangokuthi uyazibuza — uvelaphi lo dwi? Futhi lena, futhi lena? Thatha, isibonelo, umfowethu wokutholwa - ngaphandle akafani nanoma yimuphi wethu, futhi lokhu kuyaqondakala, kodwa ngokwemvelo ungowethu ngokuphelele, njengokungathi wakhula nami kusukela ebuntwaneni! Ngifana nobani ... angikwazi nokusho ukuthi indodana yami ibukeka kanjani, ziningi izinto ezixutshwe kuyo! (Uyahleka.) Muva nje, sixoxe naye, futhi wavuma ukuthi uyathanda ukuphupha. Futhi ngingaphupha umzuzu nesigamu kuphela, bese ngiyahamba ngenze okuthize. Angiwathandi amaphupho nezinkumbulo, konke lokhu kuwukuzilibazisa okunzima kimi. Ukuphila yilokho okukhona manje. Futhi lapho ufika eqophelweni lokungakhumbuli nokungalahli amathemba esikhathini esizayo, uba nenjabulo yangempela.