I-Little Tiger iphatheke kabi, uMajor Payne uyamphazamisa emicabangweni edabukisayo.
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UTatyana Rozova uyabhala: “Ngakhumbula indlela umama ayengenza ngayo ngiphaphame uma ngicasukile ngesizathu esithile. Sahlala phansi, saxoxa isikhathi esifushane, wabe esenginika umama, isibonelo, ukuba ngicwebe amazambane - bathi, isidlo sakusihlwa sidinga ukuphekwa, ngakho ngemva kokuhluba imifino, sizokhuluma ngokuqhubekayo. Noma siye ukuyokha amajikijolo for compote - asevele ethela, sizokhuluma lapho. Futhi emsebenzini, ngandlela-thile, ingxoxo isivele ihlehlela ngemuva, futhi ukuphazamiseka kwaya ndawana thize. Ngokuvamile, indlela engcono kakhulu yokususa isimo sengqondo esibi ukuba matasa. Futhi umama wabonakala ekwazi kahle lokhu… »
Ngokuhlakanipha. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, abazali abanolwazi abasebenzisi kuphela izindlela ezinjalo ezingaqondile zokuthonya isimo somntwana, kodwa futhi zivuleleke futhi ziqondile. Okulula kakhulu: “Lungisa ubuso bakho. Uma ufuna ukukhuluma, ngizojabula, kodwa akekho emndenini wethu oxoxa nomuntu onjalo. Ngesikhathi esifanayo, kusobala ukuthi ngokushesha nje lapho ingane isusa ubuso obucasuliwe, ingxenye yemizwa yakhe ecasukile nayo izohamba. Ngokufanayo, uhlobo lwakudala olunezingane ezincane kakhulu: “Kuhle, uma ukhala, angiqondi ukuthi uthini. Yeka ukukhala, yehlisa umoya, ke sizoxoxa, ngingakusiza!
Imizwelo iwuhlobo lokuziphatha, futhi uma abazali bekufanelekela ukulawula ngokuqondile ukuziphatha kwengane, bangakwazi ukuyilawula ngokuqondile imizwelo yayo.
Lokhu akusebenzi emizweni egxilile, okungeyona indlela yokuziphatha futhi engakwazi ukulawulwa ngokuqondile.
Emkhayeni lapho abazali benamandla khona, abazali bangakwazi ukulawula imizwelo yezingane zabo kanye nanoma yikuphi okunye ukuziphatha.
Kwesinye isikhathi awukwazi ukuzitika ngaphandle kwemvume — njengoba nje eminye imizwa ingenzeki ngaphandle kwemvume (isibonelo, ngaphandle kwemvume yokukhala lapho ithoyizi lomunye lithathwa kuwe).
Ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukuyeka ukudlala, ugqoke futhi uhambe nabazali bakho - njengoba nje ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukuyeka ukupopoza, ukumamatheka futhi uyosiza umama wakho.
Ukushintsha imizwa.
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Indaba eyinhloko yokukhuliswa okunjalo akuyona ikhono lokulawula ngokuqondile imizwelo yengane, kodwa ikhono lokulawula ukuziphatha kwakhe ngokomthetho. Uma ingane yakho ingaphenduli lapho umbiza, awukwazi ukulawula imizwelo yakhe, ngoba ingane ikuthola kungenzeka ukukuziba. Uma ufinyelele ukuthi ingane yakho iyakulalela, ungathatha umthwalo wemfanelo ngemizwa yakhe, uhlakulele isiko lemizwa yakhe.
Ungamfundisa indlela yokubhekana namaphutha akhe (ungakhali noma uzithethise, kodwa hamba uyokulungisa), indlela yokubhekana nalokho okufanele kwenziwe (hamba uyokwenza), indlela yokubhekana nobunzima (zondle , hlela usizo lwakho futhi wenze lokho ongakwenza), indlela yokuphatha abantu obathandayo — ngokunaka nokuzimisela ukusiza.
ULena wayephatheke kabi
Umlando wempilo. U-Lena wonga imali futhi wazithengela ama-headphone ngokuwa-oda ku-inthanethi. Uyabukeka - futhi kukhona esinye isixhumi, lawa ma-headphone awalingani nocingo lwakhe. Wacasuka kakhulu, akazange ahlengezele izinyembezi, kodwa waxabana nezwe kanye naye ngokwakhe. Umama uphakamise ukuthi usazolile, ngakho-ke ungakhathazeki futhi ucabange ukuthi kungenzeka yini ukudayisa ipulaki. Okungukuthi: “Ungakhathazeka, kodwa hhayi kakhulu futhi hhayi isikhathi eside. Bengikhathazekile - vula ikhanda lakho.
Isinqumo sikapapa sasihlukile, okungukuthi: “Lena, qaphela: awukwazi ukuzicasula. Yeka ukukwenza, buyela ezingqondweni zakho. Udinga ukuxazulula inkinga. Kanjani? Ungaziqhamukela ngokwakho, ungasithinta. Ingabe kukhona ukucaca? Lezi iziqondiso ezintathu. Esokuqala siwukwenqatshelwa kokulimaza isimo somuntu. Okwesibili kuyisibopho sokuvula ikhanda. Owesithathu uwumyalo wokuxhumana nabazali lapho bengasitholi ikhambi elingcono kakhulu. Ingqikithi: asenzi ukuthula, kodwa sinikeza imiyalelo futhi silawule ukuqaliswa.