I-Psychology

Isilingo sokuzikhaphela, ngifulathele eyami impilo futhi ngibuke ngomona kweyomunye umuntu kwesinye isikhathi sifika kimi ngingalindele. Ukungikhaphela kusho ukubheka okwenzeka kimi njengento engabalulekile neze.

Udinga ukushiya yonke into - futhi ube ndawana thize emjikelezweni wokuphila womunye umuntu. Kudingeka siqale ngokuphuthumayo okunye ukuphila. Iyiphi engacacile, kodwa ngokuqinisekile akuyona le ophila manje, ngisho noma ihora noma amabili edlule wanelisekile ngokwakho (okungenani) ngendlela ophila ngayo manje.

Kodwa empeleni, kunezindawo eziningi noma imicimbi lapho abanye abantu bezizwa bejabule futhi bejabule ngisho nangaphandle kwami ​​- futhi lokhu akusho ukuthi baphatheke kabi ngami. Ziningi izindawo nemicimbi lapho abanye bezwa kahle, ngoba angikho lapho. Kukhona lapho abangangikhumbuli nakhona, nakuba bezazi. Kukhona iziqongo engingeke ngifinyelele kuzo ngoba ngakhetha ukukhuphuka abanye - futhi othile wagcina lapho mina, ngokuzikhethela kwami, ngingasoze ngizithole noma ngizovuka, kodwa kamuva kakhulu. Futhi-ke lesi silingo siyavela - ukufulathela impilo yakho, ukuzwa okwenzeka kuwe manje njengokungabalulekile, kodwa okwenzekayo ngaphandle kwakho - njengento ebalulekile kuphela, futhi ukulangazelela, futhi uyeke ukubona lokho okukuzungezile.

Ungabhala ngegazi lenhliziyo yakho - bese «incwadi» yami ingathatha indawo yayo phakathi kwemisebenzi eyintandokazi yomunye umuntu omuhle.

Yini esiza ukuhlangabezana nalesi silingo futhi ubuyele kuwe, futhi ungafisi ngokungapheli lapho ngingekho futhi, mhlawumbe, ngeke ngibe khona? Yini ekuvumela ukuthi ulingane nawe, ungagxumi esikhumbeni sakho futhi ungazami ukudonsa esomunye umuntu? Eminyakeni embalwa edlule, ngizitholele amagama omlingo, esengivele ngabelane ngawo lapha - kodwa ngeke kube yinto engafanele ukuwaphinda. Lawa ngamazwi kaJohn Tolkien, awabhalela umshicileli wakhe, ekhathele yizingxoxo eziqhubekayo mayelana nokuthi kungenzeka yini ukushicilela inoveli "engalungile" njengeNkosi yezindandatho, nokuthi mhlawumbe kufanele ihlelwe, isikwe endaweni ethile. ngesigamu ... noma ubhale kabusha. “Le ncwadi ibhalwe egazini lami, iwugqinsi noma izacile, kungakhathaliseki ukuthi iyini. Angikwazi ukwenza okwengeziwe."

Lokhu kuphila kubhalwe ngegazi lami, eliwugqinsi noma uketshezi - noma ngabe kuyini. Angikwazi ukwenza okwengeziwe, futhi anginalo elinye igazi. Ngakho-ke, yonke imizamo yokwenza igazi ngokwakho ngesidingo esinamandla "Ngithele enye!" azinamsebenzi! futhi "sike le minwe ngenxa yokungabi nawe"...

Ungabhala ngegazi lenhliziyo yakho - bese «incwadi» yami ingathatha indawo yayo phakathi kwemisebenzi eyintandokazi yomunye umuntu omuhle. Futhi ingama eduze, eshalofini elifanayo, nencwadi yalowo engangimhawukela kakhulu futhi engangifuna ukuba ezicathulweni zakhe. Ngokumangalisayo, zingaba yigugu ngokulinganayo, nakuba ababhali behluke kakhulu. Kwangithatha iminyaka eminingana ukuqaphela leli qiniso.

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