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Abantu abaningi bathambekele ekwenzeni ihaba ngokushiyeka kokubukeka kwabo. Cishe wonke umuntu okungenani wake wathola amaphutha angaziwa ngaphandle kwakhe. Kodwa-ke, nge-dysmorphophobia, isifiso sokuzilungisa siba sikhulu kangangokuthi umuntu uyeka ngokuphelele ukuqaphela ukuthi umzimba wakhe ubukeka kanjani ngokoqobo.
I-Body dysmorphic disorder yilapho sigxila kakhulu esicini esithile somzimba futhi sikholelwa ukuthi sahlulelwa futhi senqatshwa ngenxa yaso. Lesi yisifo sengqondo esibi futhi esicashile esidinga ukwelashwa. Ukuhlinza izimonyo kusebenza nsuku zonke nabantu abafuna ukuthuthukisa ukubukeka kwabo, futhi ukuhlonza lesi sifo akuwona umsebenzi olula.
Kodwa lokhu kuyadingeka, ngoba i-dysmorphophobia iyi-contraindication eqondile yokuhlinzwa kwepulasitiki. Ingabe kungenzeka njalo ukukubona ngaphambi kokusebenza kokuqala? Sixoxa izindaba zangempela kusukela umkhuba ikhandidethi yesayensi yezokwelapha, udokotela ohlinzayo plastic Ksenia Avdoshenko.
Lapho i-dysmorphophobia ingabonakali ngokushesha
Icala lokuqala lokujwayelana ne-dysmorphophobia labhalwa enkumbulweni kadokotela ohlinzayo isikhathi eside. Kwabe sekufika intombazanyana ebuhleni bayo.
Kuvele ukuthi uneminyaka engu-28 ubudala futhi ufuna ukunciphisa ukuphakama kwesiphongo sakhe, akhulise isilevu sakhe, amabele futhi akhiphe amafutha amancane angaphansi kwesisu esiswini sakhe ngaphansi kwenkaba. Isiguli saziphatha ngokwanele, salalela, sabuza imibuzo enengqondo.
Wayenezinkomba kukho konke ukuhlinzwa okuthathu: ebunzini obuphakeme ngokungenakulinganiswa, i-microgenia - usayizi onganele womhlathi ongezansi, i-micromastia - usayizi omncane webele, kwakukhona ukukhubazeka okulinganiselwe kwe-contour yesisu ngendlela yezicubu ze-adipose ezingaphansi kwe-subcutaneous engxenyeni yayo engezansi.
Wahlinzwa okuyinkimbinkimbi, wehlisa umugqa wezinwele esiphongweni sakhe, ngaleyo ndlela wavumelanisa ubuso bakhe, wakhulisa isilevu sakhe nesifuba ngokufakwa izimila, futhi wenza i-liposuction encane yesisu. U-Avdoshenko waqaphela "izinsimbi" zokuqala zokuphazamiseka kwengqondo lapho kugqokwa izingubo, nakuba imihuzuko nokuvuvukala kwadlula ngokushesha.
Wacela ukuphinde ahlinzwe.
Ekuqaleni, intombazane yayibonakala ingekho enkulu ngokwanele, wabe esesho ukuthi isisu ngemva kokuhlinzwa "silahlekelwe ubuhle baso futhi asizange sibe sexy ngokwanele", kulandelwa izikhalazo mayelana nobukhulu bebunzi.
Intombazane yabonisa ukungabaza ngaso sonke isikhathi isikhathi esiyinyanga, kodwa yabe isikhohlwa isisu nebunzi layo, yaqala nokuthanda isilevu sayo. Kodwa-ke, ngalesi sikhathi, ukufakelwa kwebele kwaqala ukumkhathaza - wacela ngokuqhubekayo ukuhlinzwa.
Kwakusobala: intombazane yayidinga usizo, kodwa hhayi udokotela ohlinzayo wepulasitiki. Wanqatshelwa ukuhlinzwa, wameluleka ngesineke ukuba ayobonana nodokotela wezengqondo. Ngenhlanhla iseluleko sezwakele. Izinsolo ziqinisekisiwe, udokotela wengqondo wathola i-dysmorphophobia.
Intombazane yathola ukwelashwa, okwathi ngemva kwalokho umphumela wokuhlinzwa kwepulasitiki wamanelisa.
Lapho ukuhlinzwa kwepulasitiki kwaba umkhuba wesiguli
Iziguli "ezizulazulayo" zisuka kudokotela ohlinzayo ziye kudokotela ohlinzayo nazo ziza eKsenia Avdoshenko. Abantu abanjalo bahlinzwa ngemva kokuhlinzwa, kodwa bahlala benganelisekile ngokubukeka kwabo. Imvamisa, ngemuva kokunye (okungadingeki ngokuphelele) ukungenelela, kuvela ama-deformation angempela.
Isiguli esinjalo sisanda kufika ereception. Lapho embona, udokotela wasikisela ukuthi wayeseyenzile kakade i-rhinoplasty, futhi cishe izikhathi ezingaphezu kwesisodwa. Uchwepheshe kuphela ozobona izinto ezinjalo - umuntu ongenalwazi angase angaqageli ngisho nokuqagela.
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ikhala, ngokusho kukadokotela ohlinzayo wepulasitiki, lalibukeka lihle - lincane, lihlanzekile, ngisho. "Ngizoqaphela ngaso leso sikhathi: akukho lutho olungalungile mayelana nokuhlinzwa okuphindaphindiwe. Futhi zenziwa ngokwezinkomba - kufaka phakathi ngemuva kokuphuka, lapho okokuqala "ziqoqa" ikhala ngokuphuthumayo futhi zibuyisele i-septum, futhi ngemva kwalokho zicabanga nge-aesthetics.
Lesi akusona isimo esihle kakhulu, kodwa akuzona zonke izibhedlela ezinodokotela abahlinzayo bepulasitiki, futhi akwenzeki ngaso sonke isikhathi ukwenza okuthile ngokushesha. Futhi uma isiguli sizama ukubuyisela ikhala elidala ngemva kokuvuselelwa, akunakwenzeka ngaso sonke isikhathi ukwenza lokhu ekusebenzeni okukodwa. Noma kungasebenzi nhlobo.
Futhi ngokuvamile, uma isiguli singanelisekile ngomphumela wanoma yikuphi ukuhlinzwa, udokotela ohlinzayo angakwazi ukuphinda athathe izinsimbi,” kuchaza uKsenia Avdoshenko.
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“Kodwa unekhala elicocekile, isimo siyafana, kodwa akukhona emandleni ami ukulenza libe mncane,” kuchaza udokotela. "Usuhlinzwe izikhathi ezingaki?" ebuza. "Ezintathu!" kuphendula intombazane. Sadlulela ekuhloleni.
Kwakungenakwenzeka ukwenza omunye ukuhlinzwa, hhayi kuphela ngenxa ye-dysmorphophobia okungenzeka. Ngemva kokuhlinzwa kwepulasitiki yesine, ikhala lingakhubazeka, lingakwazi ukumelana nokunye ukungenelela, futhi mhlawumbe ukuphefumula kwakuyoba kubi kakhulu. Udokotela ohlinzayo wahlalisa isiguli esofeni futhi waqala ukusichazela izizathu.
Intombazane yabonakala iqonda konke. Udokotela wayeqinisekile ukuthi isiguli siyahamba, kodwa wasondela kuye ngokungazelele wathi «ubuso buyindingilizi kakhulu, izihlathi zidinga ukuncishiswa.
“Intombazane yayikhala, ngabona indlela eyayibuzonda ngayo ubuso bayo obukhangayo. Kwakubuhlungu ukubuka!
Manje kusele kuphela ukuthemba ukuthi uzolandela iseluleko sokuxhumana nochwepheshe wephrofayili ehluke ngokuphelele, futhi ngeke anqume ukushintsha enye into kuye. Phela, uma ukuhlinzwa kwangaphambili kungazange kumnelise, okulandelayo kuzohlangabezana nesiphetho esifanayo! kuhlanganisa udokotela ohlinzayo wepulasitiki.
Lapho isiguli sinikeza isignali ye-SOS
Odokotela abahlinzayo bepulasitiki abanolwazi, ngokusho kochwepheshe, banezindlela zabo zokuhlola ukusimama kwengqondo yeziguli. Kufanele ngifunde izincwadi ezingokwengqondo, ngixoxe nozakwethu hhayi nje umkhuba wokuhlinza, kodwa futhi nezindlela zokuxhumana neziguli ezinzima.
Uma ekuqokweni kokuqala nodokotela ohlinzayo wepulasitiki okuthile okwethusayo ekuziphatheni kwesiguli, angakwazi ukukweluleka ngokucophelela ukuthi uxhumane nodokotela wengqondo noma udokotela wengqondo. Uma umuntu esevele evakashele uchwepheshe, uzocela ukuletha umbono ovela kuye.
Uma umuntu ezonda umzimba wakhe nokubukeka kwakhe - udinga usizo
Ngesikhathi esifanayo, ngokusho kukaKsenia Avdoshenko, kunezibonakaliso ezishaqisayo ezingabonwa kuphela ngudokotela wezengqondo, udokotela wengqondo noma udokotela ohlinzayo wepulasitiki ekwamukelweni, kodwa futhi nezihlobo nabangane: "Ngokwesibonelo, umuntu ongenayo imfundo yezokwelapha, umuntu ongenayo imfundo yezokwelapha, noma uchwepheshe wezempilo wengqondo, udokotela wezifo zengqondo noma udokotela ohlinzayo we-plastic. ngemva kokulalela umbono kadokotela, uza nendlela yakhe yokuhlinzwa, udweba imidwebo.
Akafundisi izindlela ezintsha, akabuzi ngazo, kodwa usungula futhi ubeka "izinto ezisunguliwe" zakhe - lokhu kuyinsimbi esabekayo!
Uma umuntu eqala ukukhala, ekhuluma ngokubukeka kwakhe, ngaphandle kwesizathu esihle, lokhu akufanele neze kushaywe indiva. Uma umuntu enquma ukwenza ukuhlinzwa kwepulasitiki, kodwa isicelo asanele, kufanele uqaphele.
Ukuthatheka ngokhalo lomnyovu, ikhala elincane elinebhuloho elincanyana, ama-cheekbones azacile kakhulu noma acijile kakhulu kungase kubonise i-dysmorphophobia yomzimba. Uma umuntu ezonda umzimba wakhe nokubukeka kwakhe, udinga usizo!” kuphetha udokotela ohlinzayo.
Kuvela ukuthi ukuzwela, ukunakwa nokuhlonipha kokubili iziguli kanye nabathandekayo kuyithuluzi elilula kodwa elibaluleke kakhulu ekulweni ne-dysmorphophobia. Ukwelashwa kwalesi sifo asikuyeke kodokotela bengqondo.