Okuqukethwe
- Ingabe ungumama we-fusional?
- Ingabe unobuthongo obuncane noma obukhulu?
- Ingabe “ungumuntu olala naye”?
- Ulikhethe kanjani igama lakhe lokuqala?
- Muphi ubaba uBadri?
- Ushuthe ingxenye yesibili yefilimu ethi 'A baby for Christmas' ngemva kokuzalwa kwakhe ...
- Siyini isimilo sakhe?
- Iyini isiko lakho lokulala?
- Kungani ubufuna ukukhuluma nge-endometriosis yakho?
- Uke wacabanga ukuthatha ingane?
Ingabe ungumama we-fusional?
Laetitia Milot : Samlinda kakhulu. Futhi uyeza! Sinobudlelwane obuqine kakhulu noLyana. Ngokuzalwa kwakhe, ngahlinzwa. Ngihlukaniswe naye egumbini lokutakula amahora angu-3, angikwazanga ukulinda: ukumthola, ukumgona nokumncelisa. U-Badri wenza isikhumba esikhumbeni futhi wacula iculo engalicula kuye ngikhulelwe: “Ingoma Emnandi”.
Ingabe unobuthongo obuncane noma obukhulu?
Laetitia Milot: Ulala kakhulu kusukela azalwa, futhi ngokushesha okukhulu cishe amahora ama-5 noma ayisi-6 ngokulandelana. Manje ulala amahora angu-10 ngokulandelana, ngisho nangu-12!
Ingabe “ungumuntu olala naye”?
Laetitia Milot: Sazihlonipha izincomo, sasiqinile. Ngangesaba kakhulu ngokulala ndawonye! Usekamelweni lethu, embelekweni, futhi uzoya kwelakhe cishe izinyanga ezi-5. Kodwa simnika umkhuba wokulala lapho ngesikhathi sokulala.
Ulikhethe kanjani igama lakhe lokuqala?
Laetitia Milot: Kuyisinqumo esinzima kakhulu! Lapho ngikhulelwe, sasinencwadi futhi njalo ebusuku sasifunda incwadi. Safika ewodini lababelethayo nohlu olufushane lwamagama ayi-5. Iningi liqale ngo “l”. Ngemva kwezinsuku ezi-3, satshelwa ukuthi ukuzalwa kufanele kumenyezelwe. Uzoyibiza ngani? Lapho, bug enkulu! Sathi Liyana. Kodwa njengoba besingakwazi ukuyishintsha kuze kube umzuzu wokugcina, sacela wonke umuntu ukuthi asinike umbono wakhe… Ngiyayithanda inombolo 5, ngakho igama lokuqala lizoba nezinhlamvu ezi-5! NguLyana esimkhethile.
Muphi ubaba uBadri?
Egunjini lababelethayo, ubaba wayeyisibonelo. Ngemva kokuhlinzwa, kubuhlungu, awukwazi ukuvuka… U-Badri wageza okokuqala, wanakekela uLyana, wamletha esifubeni sami, walala esibhedlela nathi! Ngisho nasekhaya, uyinakekela kakhulu. Singumbhangqwana wangempela. Siyazihlela ngamashejuli ethu ahlukene. Umphathi wewebhusayithi, usebenza ekhaya, kodwa kusukela ekuzalweni ubeke ideski lakhe eceleni ukuze agxile kuLyana!
Ushuthe ingxenye yesibili yefilimu ethi 'A baby for Christmas' ngemva kokuzalwa kwakhe ...
Wayenezinyanga ezi-3 ubudala. Ukuqopha kuthathe izinsuku eziyi-7 ngo-Agasti eChamonix. Umndeni wonke walandela. Ngathi ngihamba ekuseni uLyana walala, kwathi uma ngibuya naye walala. UBadri wangiqinisekisa, wangithumelela izithombe futhi wezwa izwi lami ngocingo, wayebuye azongibona kusethi ngezikhathi ezithile. Asiboni ukuthi singabakhumbula kangakanani uma singababoni ihora elingu-1!
Siyini isimilo sakhe?
ULyana uyamamatheka kakhulu. Njengomkhulu wakhe kanye nami, kubonakala sengathi, kusukela ekuseni kuze kube sebusuku uyahleka 🙂! Wasungula ukwethembana phakathi kwakhe nathi. Uthule kakhulu. Futhi isabela kakhulu futhi. Uma engibona ngicosha isikhafu, uyamamatheka. Uyazi ukuthi sizohamba ngezinyawo! Uyasibona, uyaliqonda igama lakhe lokuqala, uyajika lapho simbiza. Kuyamangalisa.
Iyini isiko lakho lokulala?
Setha izindlela ezincane. Ngimfake esidlekeni sengelosi yakhe, iskhathi sendaba lesi. Ngivale i-sleeping bag, sekuyisikhathi sokulala. Nginencwadi enkulu yezinganekwane zakudala futhi ngifunda amakhasi ama-4 njalo ebusuku. Uma ngimculela “Ingoma Emnandi” uyazi ukuthi sekuzolala. Ngiyawuthanda lomzuzu, ukumlalisa.
Kungani ubufuna ukukhuluma nge-endometriosis yakho?
Ngazizwa nginesizungu kancane. Sikholelwa ukuthi yithi sodwa esithintekayo. Iminyaka engu-10, izintatheli bezilokhu ziphikelela kakhulu ekwazini ukuthi uzoba nini umntwana. Kwaba buhlungu kimi. Ngolunye usuku, uBadri wahola ngokutshela intatheli: “Yima, ngoba iLaetitia ine-endometriosis! Futhi ngathatha izintambo. Kwakungo-2013. Sathola inqwaba yezincwadi. Abesifazane abaningi bahlupheka kakhulu kunami futhi ngokuthula. Ngathinteka. Abesifazane abayizigidi ezi-3 kuya kwezi-6 bakhathazekile eFrance. Inhlangano ye-EndoFrance * ibidinga othile ozokhuluma ngayo futhi asize ekutholeni izisombululo. Ngenxa yokuthi uLyana ukhona, ngilwa kanzima nakakhulu ukuze ngithole izixazululo. Bonke laba besifazane abafuni ngempela ukuba nengane, kodwa abasafuni ukuhlupheka. Iyaqhubeka!
(*) U-Laëtitia Milot ube ngugogo wenhlangano ye-EndoFrance kusukela ngo-2014.
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