Izingane, Abazali, namagajethi: Ungayibeka Kanjani Imithetho Nokugcina Ubudlelwano Obuhle

“Batholeni kula magajethi! Lapha sisebuntwaneni ... "- abazali bavame ukusho, bekhohlwa ukuthi izingane zabo zikhulela ezweni elihlukile, elisha, futhi bangase babe nezinye izithakazelo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, imidlalo yekhompiyutha ayikona nje ukutotoswa, kodwa ithuba elengeziwe lokuxhumana nontanga futhi bathole isimo esithile emphakathini wabo.

Uma umenqabela ngokuphelele ingane yakho ukusebenzisa amagajethi nokudlala imidlalo ye-computer, izokwenza lokhu emzini womngane wakho noma ngesikhathi sokuphumula esikoleni. Esikhundleni sokuvinjelwa ngokwezigaba, kufanelekile ukuxoxa nengane ngemithetho yokusebenzisa amagajethi kanye nemithetho yokuziphatha endaweni yedijithali - incwadi kaJustin Patchin noHinduja Sameer izokusiza kulokhu, "Izinsalela ezibhaliwe. Ungakwenza kanjani ukuxhumana kwe-inthanethi kuphephe.

Yebo, izingane zakho akuzona wena, futhi amakilasi azo angase abonakale engaqondakali futhi eyisicefe kuwe. Kodwa kungcono ukusekela isithakazelo somntwana, ukuthola ukuthi yini ayithandayo kulokhu noma kulowo mdlalo nokuthi kungani. Phela into ebaluleke kakhulu ebudlelwaneni benu wukwethembana nokuhloniphana. Futhi hhayi umzabalazo, ukulawula okuqinile nokuvinjelwa.

Izinganekwane mayelana namagajethi nemidlalo

1. Amakhompyutha akwenza umlutha wokugembula

Ukusetshenziswa okungalawuleki kwamagajethi kungaholela emiphumeleni emibi ngempela: ukugcwala kakhulu ngokomzwelo, ubunzima bokuxhumana nabantu, ukuntuleka kokuzivocavoca umzimba, izinkinga zempilo kanye nokuluthwa ukugembula. Lokhu kwakamuva kuvezwa esikhundleni sempilo yangempela nge-virtual. Umuntu ohlushwa ukulutheka okunjalo uyakhohlwa ukwanelisa izidingo zokudla, amanzi nokulala, akhohlwe ezinye izithakazelo nezindinganiso, futhi ayeke ukufunda.

Yini okufanele ikhunjulwe? Okokuqala, akuwona amagajethi ngokwawo ayingozi, kodwa ukusetshenziswa kwawo okungalawuleki. Okwesibili, ukulutheka kokugembula ngokuvamile akwenzeki ngenxa yokuba khona kwabo.

Ungaphambanisi imbangela nomphumela: uma ingane ichitha isikhathi esiningi emhlabeni wangempela, kusho ukuthi ucasha lapho ngezinkinga nobunzima esikoleni, emndenini noma ebuhlotsheni. Uma engazizwa ephumelele, ehlakaniphile futhi eqiniseka emhlabeni wangempela, uzoyibheka emdlalweni. Ngakho-ke, okokuqala, udinga ukunaka ubuhlobo nengane. Futhi uma lokhu kuwumlutha nazo zonke izimpawu zakho zemvelo, thintana nochwepheshe.

2. Imidlalo yekhompyutha yenza izingane zibe nolaka

Ucwaningo oluningi lubonise ukuthi akukho ukuxhumana phakathi kwemidlalo yevidiyo nodlame lwentsha kamuva ekuphileni. Intsha edlale imidlalo enodlame kakhulu ayizange ibonise ukuziphatha okunolaka kamuva kunalabo abadlale imidlalo emincane noma abangayidlali nhlobo. Ngokuphambene nalokho, ngokulwa emdlalweni, ingane ifunda ukukhipha intukuthelo ngendlela yemvelo.

Indlela yokubeka imithetho yokusebenzisa amagajethi?

• Ngaphezu kwakho konke, ungaguquguquki futhi ube nengqondo ezidingweni zakho. Yakha isikhundla sakho sangaphakathi nemithetho. Uma unquma ukuthi ingane ayidlali amahora angaphezu kwama-2 ngosuku, akufanele kube khona okuhlukile kulokhu. Uma uchezuka ohlakeni olumisiwe, kuzoba nzima ukubuyela kubo.
• Uma wenqabela okuthile, ke thembela emaqinisweni, hhayi ngokwesaba, ukukhathazeka nokungaqondi. Isibonelo, khuluma ngeqiniso lokuthi ukukhanya kwesikrini kanye nesidingo sokubheka emininingwaneni emincane kunciphisa ukubona. Kodwa kufanele uqiniseke olwazini lwakho: uma ungenayo isikhundla esizinzile endabeni, khona-ke ulwazi oluphikisanayo luzokwenza umntwana angabaze.

Amagajethi - isikhathi!

• Vumelana nengane ngasiphi isikhathi nokuthi ingadlala kangakanani. Njengenketho - ngemva kokuqeda izifundo. Into esemqoka ukunquma isikhathi somdlalo hhayi ngokuvinjelwa ("akunakwenzeka isikhathi esingaphezu kwehora"), kodwa ngohlelo lwansuku zonke. Ukuze wenze lokhu, udinga ukuhlola lokho okwenziwa impilo yangempela yengane: ingabe ikhona indawo yokuzilibazisa, ezemidlalo, izinto zokuzilibazisa, amaphupho, ngisho nobunzima?
• Ukunquma futhi ukuthi uzowasebenzisa nini amagajethi akuthandeki kakhulu: isibonelo, ngesikhathi sokudla kanye nehora ngaphambi kokulala.
• Fundisa ingane yakho ukulandelela isikhathi. Izingane ezindala zingasetha i-timer, futhi labo abancane, baxwayise imizuzu engu-5-10 kusengaphambili ukuthi isikhathi siphelile. Ngakho-ke bazokwazi ukulawula isimo: isibonelo, ngezinye izikhathi udinga ukuqedela umjikelezo obalulekile emdlalweni futhi ungavumeli abalingani bakho behle ngokuphuma okungalindelekile kunethiwekhi.
• Ukuze ukhuthaze ingane ukuthi iqede umdlalo ngokuthula, sebenzisa umthetho wemizuzu engu-10: uma ngemva kokuba isikhathi sesidlulile ebeka igajethi ngaphandle kokufuna okungadingekile nokucasuka, khona-ke ngosuku olulandelayo uzokwazi ukudlala imizuzu engu-10 ubude.

Yini engenziwa?

• Ungafaki amagajethi esikhundleni sokuxhumana bukhoma nengane yakho. Ngezinye izikhathi kwanele ukulandela ukuziphatha kwakho ukuze uqonde ukuthi kungani ingane iziphatha ngendlela eyodwa noma enye. Buka ukuthi singakanani isikhathi osichitha phambi kwesikrini. Ingabe wena nengane yakho ninezithakazelo ezifanayo nesikhathi ndawonye?
• Ungajezisi noma ukhuthaze ingane yakho ngamagajethi nemidlalo yekhompyutha! Ngakho wena ngokwakho uzokwakha kuye umuzwa wokuthi babaluleke kakhulu. Ungagqashula kanjani emdlalweni, uma kusasa ngenxa yesijeziso kungase kungabi?
• Ungaphazamisi ingane ngosizo lwegajethi ekuhlangenwe nakho okungalungile.
• Ungayisebenzisi imishwana efana nokuthi “Yeka ukudlala, hamba uyokwenza umsebenzi wakho wesikole” njengesisekelo esiyinhloko. Kungase kube nzima ngomuntu omdala ukuzishukumisa futhi ashintshe ukunaka, kodwa lapha ingane iyadingeka ukuba izilawule njalo. Ngaphezu kwalokho, leli khono libuye liqiniswe isisusa esibi: “Uma ungenzi umsebenzi wesikole, ngizothatha ithebhulethi isonto lonke.” I-prefrontal cortex yobuchopho, enesibopho sokuzithiba namandla, yakhiwa ngaphambi kweminyaka engu-25. Ngakho-ke, siza ingane, futhi ungayifuni kuye lokho umuntu omdala angakwazi ukukwenza ngaso sonke isikhathi.

Uma uxoxisana futhi ubeka imithetho emisha, zilungiselele ukuthi lezi zinguquko ngeke zenzeke ngokuphazima kweso. Kuzothatha isikhathi. Futhi ungakhohlwa ukuthi ingane inelungelo lokungavumelani, ukucasuka nokucasuka. Kuwumsebenzi womuntu omdala ukubekezelela imizwa yengane futhi ayisize iphile.