Okuqukethwe
Ingcaphuno mayelana "nomsebenzi owuthandayo", lapho uthola ukuthi, "ungasebenzi usuku empilweni yakho", wonke umuntu uzwile okungenani kanye. Kodwa sisho ukuthini ngempela lesi seluleko ekusebenzeni? Yini oyidingayo "ukusika ngaphandle kokulinda i-peritonitis", ngokushesha nje lapho okuthile kuyeka ukuhambisana nemisebenzi yakho yamanje yobungcweti, futhi ubaleke ehhovisi ngaphandle kokubheka emuva, unomuzwa wokuthi ugqozi lusishiyile? Akudingekile neze.
Muva nje, intombazane, engumgqugquzeli womcimbi, yangicela usizo. Ehlale ekhuthele, enomdlandla, enomdlandla, weza elenga futhi ekhathazekile: "Kubonakala sengathi ngizikhandle emsebenzini."
Ngivame ukuzwa into enjengale: “Sekungathakazelisi, umsebenzi uyekile ukukhuthaza”, “Ngizama ukucabanga ukuthi ngingaqhubeka kanjani ngithuthuke kulo mkhakha, futhi angikwazi, njengokungathi ngifinyelele ophahleni” , "Ngiyalwa, ngiyalwa, kodwa ayikho imiphumela ebalulekile." Futhi abaningi balinde isinqumo, njengakulelo hlaya: "... egunjini labagula kakhulu noma emakhazeni?" Ingabe kufanele ngizinike ithuba lesibili emsebenzini wami noma ngiwushintshe?
Kodwa ngaphambi kokuba unqume okuthile, udinga ukuqonda ukuthi uyini umsuka wenkinga yakho. Mhlawumbe usekupheleni komjikelezo womsebenzi? Noma mhlawumbe ifomethi ayikufanelanga? Noma ingabe umsebenzi ngokwawo awufanelekile? Ake sizame ukukuqonda.
Ukuphela komjikelezo womsebenzi
Kokubili abantu nezinkampani, ngisho nezindima zobungcweti, banomjikelezo wokuphila - ukulandelana kwezigaba ukusuka "ekutalweni" kuya "kokufa". Kodwa uma ukufa komuntu kuyiphuzu lokugcina, khona-ke endimeni yobungcweti kungalandelwa ukuzalwa okusha, umjikelezo omusha.
Emkhakheni womsebenzi, ngamunye wethu udlula ezigabeni ezilandelayo:
- "Omusha": Siqala indima entsha. Isibonelo, siqala ukusebenza kubuchwepheshe bethu ngemuva kokuthweswa iziqu, noma siza ukuzosebenza enkampanini entsha, noma sithatha iphrojekthi entsha enkulu. Kuthatha isikhathi ukusheshisa, ngakho asikawasebenzisi ngokugcwele amandla ethu.
- "Uchwepheshe": sesivele sisebenze endimeni entsha kusukela ezinyangeni eziyisi-6 kuya eminyakeni emibili, siwazi kahle ama-algorithms okwenza umsebenzi futhi singawasebenzisa ngempumelelo. Kulesi sigaba, siyakhuthazeka ukuthi sifunde futhi siqhubekele phambili.
- "Professional": asigcinanga nje ngokuba yingcweti ekusebenzeni okuyisisekelo, kodwa futhi siqongelele ingcebo yolwazi lokuthi singabhekana kanjani nakho kangcono, futhi singathuthukisa. Sifuna ukuzuza imiphumela futhi singakwenza. Ubude balesi sigaba cishe iminyaka emibili kuya kwemithathu.
- "I-Executor": siwazi kahle kakhulu umsebenzi wethu kanye nezindawo ezihlobene, siqongelele izimpumelelo eziningi, kodwa njengoba sesivele sazi kahle “indawo” yethu, intshisekelo yethu nesifiso sokusungula okuthile, ukuzuza okuthile kuya ngokuya kunyamalala. Kungalesi sigaba lapho kungase kuphakame khona imicabango yokuthi lo mkhakha awusifanele, sesifinyelele “esilingini”.
Lo msebenzi awulingani.
Isizathu sokuba nomuzwa wokuthi asiyindawo kungase kube umongo womsebenzi ongafanelekile—indlela noma uhlobo lomsebenzi, indawo ezungezile noma inani lomqashi.
Ngokwesibonelo, uMaya, umklami wobuciko, wasebenzela i-ejensi yokumaketha iminyaka eminingana, enza izakhiwo zokukhangisa. “Angifuni lutho olunye,” evuma kimi. - Ngikhathele ukusebenza ngokujaha njalo, nginikeza umphumela engingawuthandi ngempela. Mhlawumbe ushiye konke futhi udwebe umphefumulo? Kodwa-ke uzophila ngani?
Umsebenzi awufanelekile
Lokhu kwenzeka uma singazikhetheli umsebenzi othile noma singathembeli ezifisweni nasezithakazelweni zethu zangempela lapho sikhetha. “Ngangifuna ukuyokwenza izifundo ze-psychology, kodwa abazali bami baphikelela esikoleni somthetho. Ubaba wabe esemlungiselela ehhovisi lakhe, wamunca ... «» Ngahamba ngayosebenza njengomphathi wezokuthengisa ngemuva kwabangane bami. Konke kubonakala kuhamba kahle, kodwa angizizwa ngijabule.”
Uma umsebenzi ungahlobene nezithakazelo zethu namakhono ethu, sibheka abangane abathanda umsebenzi wabo, singazizwa silangazelela, njengokungathi siphuthelwe isitimela esibalulekile ekuphileni kwethu.
Indlela yokuqonda imbangela yangempela yokunganeliseki
Lokhu kuzosiza ukuhlolwa okulula:
- Faka ohlwini imisebenzi emihlanu ephezulu oyenza isikhathi sakho esiningi somsebenzi. Isibonelo: Ngenza izibalo, ngibhala izinhlelo, ngiqhamuke nemibhalo, nginikeze izinkulumo ezikhuthazayo, ngihlele, ngidayise.
- Phuma ngaphandle kokuqukethwe komsebenzi bese ukala esikalini sika-10 kuye ku-1 ukuthi ujabulela kangakanani ukwenza ngayinye yale misebenzi, lapho u-10 ethi “Ngiyakuzonda” futhi u-XNUMX ethi “Ngizimisele ukukwenza usuku lonke. ” Thembeka kuwe ngokwakho.
Okukhipha isilinganiso samaphuzu: hlanganisa wonke amamaki bese uhlukanisa isamba sokugcina ngo-5. Uma amaphuzu aphezulu (7-10), khona-ke umsebenzi ngokwawo ukufanele, kodwa mhlawumbe udinga umongo ohlukile womsebenzi — indawo enethezekile lapho uzokwenza lokho okuthandayo, ngentokozo nogqozi.
Yiqiniso, lokhu akusho ukunganaki ukuba khona kobunzima - bazoba yonke indawo. Kodwa ngesikhathi esifanayo, uzozizwa kahle enkampanini ethile, uzokwabelana ngezindinganiso zayo, uzoba nesithakazelo esiqondisweni ngokwayo, imininingwane yomsebenzi.
Manje uyazi ukuthi emsebenzini wakho ayikho imisebenzi eyanele "yothando". Futhi kukuzo lapho sibonisa khona amandla ethu.
Uma imvelo evumelana nawe, kodwa umuzwa we-«ceiling» namanje awushiyi, khona-ke usufikile ekupheleni komjikelezo olandelayo wochwepheshe. Sekuyisikhathi somjikelezo omusha: ukushiya isikhala esifundwe "somdlali" futhi uye "oqalayo" ezindaweni eziphakeme! Okungukuthi, zenzele amathuba amasha emsebenzini wakho: izindima, amaphrojekthi, izibopho.
Uma isikolo sakho siphansi noma simaphakathi (kusuka ku-1 kuye ku-6), lokho okwenzayo akulungile neze kuwe. Mhlawumbe ngaphambi kokuthi ungacabangi ukuthi yimiphi imisebenzi ebikujabulisa kakhulu, futhi wenze lokho obekudingwa umqashi. Noma kwenzeka ukuthi imisebenzi oyikhonzile kancane kancane yathathelwa indawo abangayithandi.
Kunoma yikuphi, manje uyazi ukuthi umsebenzi wakho awunayo imisebenzi "yothando". Kodwa kuzo lapho sibonisa khona amandla ethu futhi singathola imiphumela evelele. Kodwa ungaphatheki kabi: usuwutholile umnyombo wenkinga futhi ungaqala ukuya emsebenzini owuthandayo, ubheke obizweni lwakho.
Izinyathelo zokuqala
Kwenziwa kanjani?
- Khomba imisebenzi othanda ukuyenza futhi usho izinto ozithandayo.
- Bheka ubungcweti lapho kuhlangana khona eyokuqala neyesibili.
- Khetha izinketho ezimbalwa ezikhangayo, bese uzivivinya ngokusebenza. Isibonelo, qeqeshwa, noma thola othile ongasiza naye, noma unikeze isevisi yamahhala kubangani. Ukuze ukwazi ukuqonda kangcono lokho okuthandayo, lokho okukhangwayo.
Umsebenzi, vele, awuyona impilo yethu yonke, kodwa uyingxenye yawo ebaluleke kakhulu. Futhi kuyadumaza kakhulu uma kukala futhi kuthayi, esikhundleni sokugqugquzela futhi kujabulise. Ungasibekezeleli lesi simo. Wonke umuntu unethuba lokujabula emsebenzini.